Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

PaperEnterprise

It's the inner strength..
Joined
Jun 9, 2012
Messages
7,329
Reputation
1,890
Daps
22,329
Reppin
New York
This one chick I been trying to get at told my homie she wanted to fukk with me so boom. I get her number and begin to hit her up, but it seems she barely interested and don't seem to care. When I go to see her at work though, she tells me she's haven't heard from me, I been ignoring her and she was gonna call/text If I didn't.
Ok, im thinking in the driver seat now :whew:. I tried to set something up later that night cause she live like a block over, so she said I can't just up and chill...I got a kid, but we'll see.So I hit her up after work and she seems to ignore me for hours until I hit her up again and she text me some lame excuse. Telling me to hit her up the next day which I did and no reply.Me being who I am....I'm not the type of guy who likes to blow up chicks phones with infinite calls and texts if they barely respond. She's bad and everything, but at the sametime, I'm feeling like :yeshrug: why even? I just hate wasting my time. Either she's playing hard to get or she just on one.

Take it from a guy who dated a woman with a kid. Your wasting time. Mine did the same thing, always used her child to find an excuse to bail. If shes doing bullshyt things at this stage, trust she will not change for the better. I kept it moving and my life has been so much better.

There are plenty of good women out, seek and you shall find lol
 

PaperEnterprise

It's the inner strength..
Joined
Jun 9, 2012
Messages
7,329
Reputation
1,890
Daps
22,329
Reppin
New York
How do you fellas deal with females who are indecisive about what they want out of life and just generally lack ambition?
:lupe:

I stay away from them. Their negative energy can rub onto you. These type of women are trying to have you figure out what they should do in life to only the opposite of what you say.
 

CASHAPP

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2012
Messages
26,503
Reputation
-2,479
Daps
48,363
Ive probably discussed this a million times but you guys really are dropping the ball on the women you talk about....it seems to only be women from the ages of 18 to 40....I keep trying to tell yall that you need to discuss middle aged and older women also...come on! Because we need to stop this myth of our mothers and grandmothers being angels...because lets be 100...at least one of you sees things your mother or grandmother does or says and are disgusted...or they may seem like a feminist and anti men about everything and have no gratitude...I understand society is a big factor this doesnt happen....but I recall one of the first posts in this thread mentiining to dump a hot girl once in your life to build immunitry....try the same mindset with older women....not necessarily in dropping them....but calling them out on their bs and shock the hell out of them...we gonna need to stop having 69 year old women disrespect you at your job or in a public forum and ignore it and come on the coli and say older women are pure...
 

CASHAPP

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2012
Messages
26,503
Reputation
-2,479
Daps
48,363
Btw brehs...at my job as I was done for the day I walked past the self checkout and saw there was a big ass line...this one old lady had 2 kids with her and she stayed close to the exit door and sent one of the kids to speak to the employee in front the self checkout basically trying to habe the little girl ask if they can go in front because she only has one thing...they called her out on it and another employee told her it doesnt matter and how there are alot of people waiting before her...and she just left the one item with them after seeing it wasnt gonna work....isnt that some disgusting shyt? This is the type of things I tell you guys...
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,847
Reputation
35,220
Daps
811,835
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
@RealAssanova
@61 Corpses

heres a gist of it

back story one of the coolest girls i ever dated wasn't all that in the looks department but had a heart of gold, but she got distant , so i pulled away and cut the cord, heard nothing for like 2 months popped up yesterday and today, she tried guilt tripping me at the end sending me a bunch of "sweet" text messages i sent her but :pacspit:.

I never go back, look back, give closure.

mu7dau.jpg

6tkyty.jpg

5ee1wk.jpg


seva83.jpg

zjt8vb.jpg




14mrgue.jpg

23w46pu.jpg
 
Last edited:

Malikthegod

opposite of mediocre
Joined
Jun 8, 2012
Messages
486
Reputation
70
Daps
1,531
I stay away from them. Their negative energy can rub onto you. These type of women are trying to have you figure out what they should do in life to only the opposite of what you say.

Breh this is exactly what is happening to me. My girl loves to complain about her situation, her job, her weight, finances, whatever. Okay everyone gets frustrated sometimes, but what are you willing to do to change your situation? It's like every time I offer a suggestion to improve her situation she goes OK..... Then DOESN'T do it. And whenever I get on her about what personal goals she has for herself the answer is always idk. :dwillhuh:
 

reserved_one

#Ambivertgang
Joined
Sep 15, 2013
Messages
13,630
Reputation
2,987
Daps
58,018
Reppin
So.ILL/Raider Nation
Take it from a guy who dated a woman with a kid. Your wasting time. Mine did the same thing, always used her child to find an excuse to bail. If shes doing bullshyt things at this stage, trust she will not change for the better. I kept it moving and my life has been so much better.

There are plenty of good women out, seek and you shall find lol

Yeah I just cut her loose....After talking to her today, I see she's the materialistic type.Likes to be spoiled and only care about your money or the kinda car you drive. The type that you would take out on a date, but then never hear from again after spending on her.

I'm staying away from her
 

CanesMiamiLakers

All Star
Joined
May 14, 2012
Messages
5,801
Reputation
632
Daps
10,688
Reppin
NULL
@RealAssanova
@61 Corpses

heres a gist of it

back story one of the coolest girls i ever dated wasn't all that in the looks department but had a heart of gold, but she got distant , so i pulled away and cut the cord, heard nothing for like 2 months popped up yesterday and today, she tried guilt tripping me at the end sending me a bunch of "sweet" text messages i sent her but :pacspit:.

I never go back, look back, give closure.

mu7dau.jpg

6tkyty.jpg

5ee1wk.jpg


seva83.jpg

zjt8vb.jpg




14mrgue.jpg

23w46pu.jpg
U went hard on her I want to say to hard but I don't really know y'all situation but if she was really that cool u should've asked her what happen. If it seemed like bull shyt then you KIM. But maybe she found someone else and it ain't work I guess you'll never know
 

CanesMiamiLakers

All Star
Joined
May 14, 2012
Messages
5,801
Reputation
632
Daps
10,688
Reppin
NULL
Every woman has a purpose it's not going to be peaches and cream with all of them. But you guys cutting them off before you even get the experience. I like to see the bull shyt women come with so I can apply it when I see it again. Most women are the same they just have different approaches to their madness
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,847
Reputation
35,220
Daps
811,835
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
Every woman has a purpose it's not going to be peaches and cream with all of them. But you guys cutting them off before you even get the experience. I like to see the bull shyt women come with so I can apply it when I see it again. Most women are the same they just have different approaches to their madness

my life is easier without a woman in it, puzzy and having a dime on my arm and romantic selfies don't mean nothing to me. I used to be a scared man holding onto what was dead, or holding onto women who disrespected me, not anymore. I'd rather be alone than to be with a broad who slighted me even in the tiny bit.
 

CanesMiamiLakers

All Star
Joined
May 14, 2012
Messages
5,801
Reputation
632
Daps
10,688
Reppin
NULL
my life is easier without a woman in it, puzzy and having a dime on my arm and romantic selfies don't mean nothing to me. I used to be a scared man holding onto what was dead, or holding onto women who disrespected me, not anymore. I'd rather be alone than to be with a broad who slighted me even in the tiny bit.
I hear on that but that's life not just with women. No one is perfect
 

CASHAPP

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2012
Messages
26,503
Reputation
-2,479
Daps
48,363
my life is easier without a woman in it, puzzy and having a dime on my arm and romantic selfies don't mean nothing to me. I used to be a scared man holding onto what was dead, or holding onto women who disrespected me, not anymore. I'd rather be alone than to be with a broad who slighted me even in the tiny bit.
do you have any concrete advice for when that woman is your mother ...as in my case...long story short she is just a difficult person and im tied down because I want to leave but have no way of ...we all know the story already of how 2014 is different than the 80s and people live with their parents several years longer....I got to get out of this hell and try all the time to keep my cool with her...on a side note fathers day is coming up you guys lets remember to check any women who try to clown guys about how it gets no attention and give respect to any fathers you know whether or not it is your own...show brotherly love since mainstream society wont do it for them.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,847
Reputation
35,220
Daps
811,835
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
do you have any concrete advice for when that woman is your mother ...as in my case...long story short she is just a difficult person and im tied down because I want to leave but have no way of ...we all know the story already of how 2014 is different than the 80s and people live with their parents several years longer....I got to get out of this hell and try all the time to keep my cool with her...on a side note fathers day is coming up you guys lets remember to check any women who try to clown guys about how it gets no attention and give respect to any fathers you know whether or not it is your own...show brotherly love since mainstream society wont do it for them.

no matter how difficult she amy be, she's your mother. And you'll realize one time in life moms is the only woman who has your best interests at hand and truly cares about you

Out of all the women who told me they loved me, had my back etc. in the end all are gone, the only woman who has told me she loved me and is sitll around is my mother. Sometimes we fight, sometimes I may no tagree with everything she says or do, but I will always respect and love my mother.
 
Top