Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

My boy just told me that his ex is saying that she might be pregnant. Apparently, the home pregnancy tests were "inconclusive" so she wants to the doctors next week to find out but she's insisting that he goes with her. Obviously, he didn't want to go because he has no intention of wanting a child with her and she had said in the past that she wouldn't keep a baby if she got pregnant but now she's threatened him and said that if she really is pregnant and he doesn't come with her then she's definitely keeping the baby just to spite him.

When he told me this I was like

What kind of girl keeps a child that they don't even want just to spite their ex-boyfriend?! This is why we have fukked up kids

**sighs**

People are just fukked up nowadays SMH. What kind of childish bullshyt is that?

This is why I'm careful of who I let in to my life and stay around me.

Please tell me this girl is under 25?

 

[EA]

**sighs**

People are just fukked up nowadays SMH. What kind of childish bullshyt is that?

This is why I'm careful of who I let in to my life and stay around me.

Please tell me this girl is under 25?

She's 20 and going into her final year of uni

I can't believe she's willing to mess up her final year of uni and keep a baby that she won't be able to look after just to spite her ex-boyfriend.

 

[Shadow King]

you never know breh you never know.

im no fan of romantic movies etc. but the premise is the same in all of it, a woman has one dude no mattter what, no matter how many years is her number 1.

its like lebron james, dude can announce hes going back to cleveland after 4 years of breaking their heart, treating em like crap, and they would put out the red carpet greet hm at the airport etc.

like ive said ive been on both sides, ive been that dude dating a broad everything going well then her ex contacts her and i get that talk even though she called him every name in teh book.

just look at selena gomez
http://guardianlv.com/2014/06/justi...z-together-again-and-taylor-swift-isnt-happy/




because beiber is number 1 in her heart

once you figure that out in life, who has you as number 1 and who has you as number 2,3 backup status you won't waste your time.

This is my point Beiber is an a$$hole. I'm not.

 

[Jesus]

Slept with a separated woman.... God forgive me.

 

[TRY GOD]

so I've just been used for my money brehs, and it doesn't feel good.


I've been going out with this chick every weekend, and of course I've been buying the drinks and stuff.

But the thing is, I never applied full court pressure in regards to closing her out. I've been playing it cool, probably too cool. I'm not thirsty for p*ssy more so just affection. I like being in the company of fine women.

I've grinded on her donk numerous times, and we have kissed, etc. So she knows That I'm feeling her. I send her texts that she hardly responds to. I'm sure she probably got a man or at least someone beating them hoe cakes down

On one of the dates she was like "I got a dude", to which I replied "what that gotta do with me? That aint my problem."
After she told me that tho, I've been side eyeing her ever since.

so finally yesterday early afternoon, I hit her up on the "are we gonna go out tip"...

Her first reply back, this chick was on some "I gotta migrane, order me some food"

So many thoughts was going through my head

(...."why she asking me to just order her some food out the blue?"..)
(..."what kind of simp does she take me for?"..)


(..."would I be ordering for her and her dude?")

I decided that Imma see how this hoe acts tonight, so I hit her with the

"well you go ahead and handle your crises now,


and we will eat and drink later tonight"

She hits me back

"you know what it's cool, I'll order it myself"

I'm like "why the you know what, it's cool"


she hit me back: "It's ok wenzel dashington...I gotta migrane lets not"




fast forward to the bar where we are watching the Ivory Coast v Japan game.

My boy didn't tell me he was bringing his handsome friend along, I thought it would be his usual CAC boys.

She arrives and is all like "we sitting away from everyone, you mind if I set over there (next to the handsome friend)



I probably should have been more alpha, but I dont really care where this hoe sits, I hit her with the

the night progress, I did wat I said I was gonna do in the text, and what usually goes down, I spend my money. She is close to the guy and all, but not in a manner that was extremely disrespectful to me, besides she's not my hoe anyway, so what could I do. I wouldn't be surprised if they exchanged #'s.

This nikkas game was so weak, he told the hoe she looks like Viola Davis

But this chick obviously thrives off attention and he was giving her some, I was giving her very little trying to show that I'm disaffected by her.


we get drunk, she sings karaoke, and she starts to stink up the joint, not only on the mic but her strong African musk starts to kick in(even tho I can ride with it)

Anyway, handsome dude leaves. My boy and his girl, who is sisters with the girl in question, and us call it a night.

This hoe was "like why don't you drop wenzel dashington off, and come through"



In my mind I'm like

(..."why she telling him what to do instead of his girl? Drop me off?! He practically lives with yall, if he's gunna come through, I'm sure he will")

Anyway, I wasted money on this girl, it seems like she's got too many games, and I'm about done spending dollars on her. She costed me $150 at the bar last night

 

[Pyrexcup]

so I've just been used for my money brehs, and it doesn't feel good.


I've been going out with this chick every weekend, and of course I've been buying the drinks and stuff.

But the thing is, I never applied full court pressure in regards to closing her out. I've been playing it cool, probably too cool. I'm not thirsty for p*ssy more so just affection. I like being in the company of fine women.

I've grinded on her donk numerous times, and we have kissed, etc. So she knows That I'm feeling her. I send her texts that she hardly responds to. I'm sure she probably got a man or at least someone beating them hoe cakes down

On one of the dates she was like "I got a dude", to which I replied "what that gotta do with me? That aint my problem."
After she told me that tho, I've been side eyeing her ever since.

so finally yesterday early afternoon, I hit her up on the "are we gonna go out tip"...

Her first reply back, this chick was on some "I gotta migrane, order me some food"

So many thoughts was going through my head

(...."why she asking me to just order her some food out the blue?"..)
(..."what kind of simp does she take me for?"..)


(..."would I be ordering for her and her dude?")

I decided that Imma see how this hoe acts tonight, so I hit her with the

"well you go ahead and handle your crises now,


and we will eat and drink later tonight"

She hits me back

"you know what it's cool, I'll order it myself"

I'm like "why the you know what, it's cool"


she hit me back: "It's ok wenzel dashington...I gotta migrane lets not"




fast forward to the bar where we are watching the Ivory Coast v Japan game.

My boy didn't tell me he was bringing his handsome friend along, I thought it would be his usual CAC boys.

She arrives and is all like "we sitting away from everyone, you mind if I set over there (next to the handsome friend)



I probably should have been more alpha, but I dont really care where this hoe sits, I hit her with the

the night progress, I did wat I said I was gonna do in the text, and what usually goes down, I spend my money. She is close to the guy and all, but not in a manner that was extremely disrespectful to me, besides she's not my hoe anyway, so what could I do. I wouldn't be surprised if they exchanged #'s.

This nikkas game was so weak, he told the hoe she looks like Viola Davis

But this chick obviously thrives off attention and he was giving her some, I was giving her very little trying to show that I'm disaffected by her.


we get drunk, she sings karaoke, and she starts to stink up the joint, not only on the mic but her strong African musk starts to kick in(even tho I can ride with it)

Anyway, handsome dude leaves. My boy and his girl, who is sisters with the girl in question, and us call it a night.

This hoe was "like why don't you drop wenzel dashington off, and come through"



In my mind I'm like

(..."why she telling him what to do instead of his girl? Drop me off?! He practically lives with yall, if he's gunna come through, I'm sure he will")

Anyway, I wasted money on this girl, it seems like she's got too many games, and I'm about done spending dollars on her. She costed me $150 at the bar last night

charge that l to the game. we all got to learn. need to make fast or these women will use you as a meal ticket. Two girl i've been speaking to recently throwing both of them in the bushes wasting my time

 

[EA]

$150 though?!

@Wenzel Dashington you're a nicer guy than I am. I'd say just keep it moving and take the L. It happens to all of us.

 

[Jesus]

Lol last woman I've spent money on was momma for dinner last week unless we counting condoms. Learning lesson for us all though... I have gladly ended my simp ways

 

[TRY GOD]

@EA thats what my friend was saying in the car. He was pissed at his girl (he was pissed at her all day apperently), and called to tell her he wasn't coming over. His girl was mad as hell at that.

My friend: "wenzel, your a nice guy, it pisses me of that she used you with no intention of actually wanting to be with you"

Me: "No need to be mad at your girl bro, It was my fault for being a simp, tricking out my money"

My friend:" You coming up with excuses for her, shows how much of a gentleman you are. Besides, my girl had to be complicit in knowing her sister was not going to take you serious"

Me:

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

so I've just been used for my money brehs, and it doesn't feel good.


I've been going out with this chick every weekend, and of course I've been buying the drinks and stuff.

But the thing is, I never applied full court pressure in regards to closing her out. I've been playing it cool, probably too cool. I'm not thirsty for p*ssy more so just affection. I like being in the company of fine women.

I've grinded on her donk numerous times, and we have kissed, etc. So she knows That I'm feeling her. I send her texts that she hardly responds to. I'm sure she probably got a man or at least someone beating them hoe cakes down

On one of the dates she was like "I got a dude", to which I replied "what that gotta do with me? That aint my problem."
After she told me that tho, I've been side eyeing her ever since.

so finally yesterday early afternoon, I hit her up on the "are we gonna go out tip"...

Her first reply back, this chick was on some "I gotta migrane, order me some food"

So many thoughts was going through my head

(...."why she asking me to just order her some food out the blue?"..)
(..."what kind of simp does she take me for?"..)


(..."would I be ordering for her and her dude?")

I decided that Imma see how this hoe acts tonight, so I hit her with the

"well you go ahead and handle your crises now,


and we will eat and drink later tonight"

She hits me back

"you know what it's cool, I'll order it myself"

I'm like "why the you know what, it's cool"


she hit me back: "It's ok wenzel dashington...I gotta migrane lets not"




fast forward to the bar where we are watching the Ivory Coast v Japan game.

My boy didn't tell me he was bringing his handsome friend along, I thought it would be his usual CAC boys.

She arrives and is all like "we sitting away from everyone, you mind if I set over there (next to the handsome friend)



I probably should have been more alpha, but I dont really care where this hoe sits, I hit her with the

the night progress, I did wat I said I was gonna do in the text, and what usually goes down, I spend my money. She is close to the guy and all, but not in a manner that was extremely disrespectful to me, besides she's not my hoe anyway, so what could I do. I wouldn't be surprised if they exchanged #'s.

This nikkas game was so weak, he told the hoe she looks like Viola Davis

But this chick obviously thrives off attention and he was giving her some, I was giving her very little trying to show that I'm disaffected by her.


we get drunk, she sings karaoke, and she starts to stink up the joint, not only on the mic but her strong African musk starts to kick in(even tho I can ride with it)

Anyway, handsome dude leaves. My boy and his girl, who is sisters with the girl in question, and us call it a night.

This hoe was "like why don't you drop wenzel dashington off, and come through"



In my mind I'm like

(..."why she telling him what to do instead of his girl? Drop me off?! He practically lives with yall, if he's gunna come through, I'm sure he will")

Anyway, I wasted money on this girl, it seems like she's got too many games, and I'm about done spending dollars on her. She costed me $150 at the bar last night

I've never heard more of a sucker story in my life. U need a hug my G she played played u for free meals and drinks. You should never pay just to be in a women's presence and she doesn't respect u. Now u have to try to smash cause it already sounds like u deep in the hole.

 

[Steezy]

damn she said I gotta migraine order me food... at one point fukk all that playa I don't care shyt , you gotta be a man first and let no woman play you that hard.. she woulda been cut off asap . Matta fact I met this fine ass chick (in atl so whole bother plane of fine) and we kickin it..she say she hungry so off course I say let's hit bww and catch a braves game. we get there and this bish ordering drinks and like 20 wings i ain't say shyt tho , just stuck with my 5 piece & water

BUT she said my friend just text me and said could you get me a ten piece but don't worry we'll put this on two seperate orders I look her at like we ? we bish? I just met yo ass...I ain't cause a scene cause like I said I ain't know her ass...just said I'll be right back..walked to my car and drove home playing that new pee wee longway : didn't even pay for my food I was so disgusted at her actions.



but as of tonight going out to the braves game with my old socialite chick..she say she gotta thang for Jason heyward she love to lay and rub on a nikka but she playing games too she wasn't even fat though and got In crazy shape but still butta soft with the same ole ass so ima let her stay

 

[TRY GOD]

I've never heard more of a sucker story in my life. U need a hug my G she played played u for free meals and drinks. You should never pay just to be in a women's presence and she doesn't respect u. Now u have to try to smash cause it already sounds like u deep in the hole.

I'm just gunna fall back bruh.

Ironically, I'm a student of the game, I know all the things to say and do. following body language, scenarios, etc. I see how my boys, and men in general apply the game (so wack, but it works...) I listen to Tariq Nasheed. I even knew that these simpish moves would result in this.

My problem is that even though I do know the game, very well, I think it's all corny. even though I can't eat without playing the game like everybody else, I just hate the manufactured interactions. I just wanna be my self. I don't want to talk about nothing, I don't want to cupcake, I don't wanna do none of the shyt espoused in the courting ritual.

I admit, my mouthpeice needs ALOT of improvement, but thats only because I choose not to do/say they usual shyt a regular nikka would do/say, even though I know it will work. Thats just not me to be fake just to get some wet.

again I'm more of a student of the game, and not a practitioner. I knew exactly what would happen, and it did happen. I just will make sure I never do it again.

I guess I was hoping things would be different.

 

[Turbulent]

I'm just gunna fall back bruh.

Ironically, I'm a student of the game, I know all the things to say and do. following body language, scenarios, etc. I see how my boys, and men in general apply the game (so wack, but it works...) I listen to Tariq Nasheed. I even knew that these simpish moves would result in this.

My problem is that even though I do know the game, very well, I think it's all corny. even though I can't eat without playing the game like everything else, I just hate the manufactured interactions. I just wanna be my self. I don't want to talk about nothing, I don't want to cupcake, I don't wanna do none of the shyt espoused in the courting ritual.

I admit, my mouthpeice needs ALOT of improvement, but thats only because I choose not to do/say they usual shyt a regular nikka would do/say, even though I know it will work. Thats just not me to be fake just to get some wet.

again I'm more of a student of the game, and not a practitioner. I new exactly what would happen, and it did happen. I just will make sure I never do it again.

i feel what you're saying but here's where you're wrong. you say you don't want to play the game and yet you still pay for her company. trick money and attention on her so of course you end up playing yourself. if you like being in her company, why not tell her to come through at this or that place without buying her drinks? why not let her buy her own drinks and food? i'm thinking you suspect she wouldn't spend the time with you if you didn't spend money on her. you established a routine with her eventhough she told you she had a man and then tried to switch it up on her. so again how are you not playing the game? it's like a dude who has a smut and the smut is like "i like spending time sleeping with him anyway..." but then one day out of the blue, the smut tries to switch it up on the guy talking about "where is this going?". i know i'm being a little harsh on you but i gotta keep it 100 cause we're all helping eachother out over here. i think all that "i don't even care to fukk, i like being in the company of fine women" and "i know the game, i'm just above that shyt" is BS. you might be sincere when you say it but deep down i think that's just a way to protect your ego...

 

[TRY GOD]

I do need a hug tho, It don't feel good to get used for your money, and know it brehs

 

[TRY GOD]

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i feel what you're saying but here's where you're wrong. you say you don't want to play the game and yet you still pay for her company. trick money and attention on her so of course you end up playing yourself. if you like being in her company, why not tell her to come through at this or that place without buying her drinks? why not let her buy her own drinks and food? i'm thinking you suspect she wouldn't spend the time with you if you didn't spend money on her. you established a routine with her eventhough she told you she had a man and then tried to switch it up on her. so again how are you not playing the game? it's like a dude who has a smut and the smut is like "i like spending time sleeping with him anyway..." but then one day out of the blue, the smut tries to switch it up on the guy talking about "where is this going?". i know i'm being a little harsh on you but i gotta keep it 100 cause we're all helping eachother out over here. i think all that "i don't even care to fukk, i like being in the company of fine women" and "i know the game, i'm just above that shyt" is BS. you might be sincere when you say it but deep down i think that's just a way to protect your ego...

Nah I feel you breh, and you are right. In fact I welcome more harsher critiques.

I see what you are saying about the "game" talk, and you are generally correct. Of course I want the wet, but honestly I'm not out specifically for it. I'm in a peculiar life situation. I'm a walking example of "closed mouths don't get fed." because I chose not to abide by the rules of the game, I very rarely get chicks.

Don't get it twisted, I was going to get at those cheeks the first night, and with more aggression, even now I'm sure I still could get them (even though I don't want to see her at all)

but you are right breh, I established a routine of tricking my money away, simply cause I was lonely and wanted company more than anything. She saw that I wasn't aggressive, and still not aggressive enough to get at those cheeks, and she said "so you gunna get me this shyt, and you aint tryna beat? fukk it I'm hungry." The final test was the "Migrane test"