Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CanesMiamiLakers]

You only in the friend zone if you dont aggressively go after the puss thats being thrown at you

That boy got every excuse not to take that p*ssy lol I wish a chick would say I'm a nice guy. I would've of told her great it shouldn't be any problems with us then

 

[Beerus]

This L streak is really starting to get to me
I mean fukk come on
I mean shyt I tried to play it off by playing bball today, won 3 straight matches cuz a skinny nikka was guarding me, but when I played 4 other games some big nikka was guarding me(i play center) and I got shut down like a bytch and we lost 4 straight and last year that nikka couldn't do shyt to me

It's not even really bout her it could have been anyone else I really fukking hate losing breh
Her cancelling on me and now that 4 losing streak naw man this shyt ain't fukking right my sunday all fukked up, maybe I should just join the army so i can just leave it all b.

 

[RealAssanova]

This L streak is really starting to get to me
I mean fukk come on
I mean shyt I tried to play it off by playing bball today, won 3 straight matches cuz a skinny nikka was guarding me, but when I played 4 other games some big nikka was guarding me(i play center) and I got shut down like a bytch and we lost 4 straight and last year that nikka couldn't do shyt to me

It's not even really bout her it could have been anyone else I really fukking hate losing breh
Her cancelling on me and now that 4 losing streak naw man this shyt ain't fukking right my sunday all fukked up, maybe I should just join the army so i can just leave it all b.

nikka, what the fukk did i say on friday?

 

[kevm3]

Was up on Afro Romance for a minute, scooped up a lil something. Dated a few months now, she say its time for us to be officially BF and GF.

So I go on Afro Romance a few days ago, to terminate my account and look at my old messages with her and see her profile was active on the same day. I confront her about it, she say she doesn't reply, she just looks at the messages when she is bored and wants to laugh at the stuff they say.

At this point I'm hot as a tea kettle, I flip on her (verbally) and she gets upset at me for not believing her. She offers me her password so I can go and check it, i don't do it tho. But she keeps saying over and over she hasn't replied to anyone since we been together and she loves me etc. She then deletes her profile and apologies to me

I dunno brehs...The hood that brought me up said never trust anyone. I don't see the difference here.

you were right in not going for that. She initiates the relationship with you but also tries to leave the door open to chop it up with other dudes?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I met a chick off tinder a few weeks ago.....we clicked and I enjoy her company. First date I took her out to eat then we chilled in my car and talked which led to me her sucking my dikk and me eating her p*ssy and just as I was about to hit it was time for me to go DJ. 2nd date I can tell she had her guard up in terms of having sex....She just wasn't bout it, almost like teasing me because she got caught slipping on the 1st date. 3rd time we chilled I hit, she fell as asleep in my bed....

She's cool but she's so much younger than me. She's 21....I'm 28. I've dated women my age, older women, women younger than me so age gap is just whatever.... She basically told me she wants a relationship with me the other night but I was like we've only known each other a few weeks. To be honest I think a girl would have to be extraordinary for me to say yeah I'm exclusive so I kinda feel bad now that she's already at that point. I still mess with other joints despite us talking, texting, face timing every day. I just think you need to know a person for while before committing and I'm not even close to that point. Funny, when you're young all it takes is a piece of paper saying "do you want to go with me, yes or no" to end up bf and gf. lol

She actually prompted that how much should you have in common with someone you're dating/your significant other question from a few weeks ago that I posted here. Even tho I enjoy her company she's so much different than me that it's a cause for concern if I ever were to take it further a while from now or just meeting another girl who's similar to her in lack of common interests. It's cool to have differences because it's intriguing and you learn to love and do different activities but at at some point I think you wonder how much each person is compromising for the sake of a relationship. It's not an issue now but sometimes I wonder if it just makes more sense to be with someone who has more similar interest. More often than not I make a reference to something and she's never heard of it........I'm pretty sure there's a girl out there I can (just a wild example) go to a game with and enjoy listening to NaS with, talk music, movies with for hours without feeling like she's compromising much of who she is just because I make her happy (and/or vice versa). I just think it'd be cool to have a chick who I'd spend hours with talking about something we both like.....haven't had that in a while......We both do workout tho.....She's a really cute girl tho.

In some ways it seems like this is probably why relationships fail......seems like many people have chemistry but truly aren't compatible interest wise so they fake it or just don't compromise at all, both which can lead towards resentment. I want to ask some of my friends how much they have in common with their significant others, I'm curious. This isn't shyt men normally talk about.......I feel a lot of times we're so focused on smashing but maybe we miss little shyt like this. It's easy to take chemistry and the spark you feel talking to someone you're comfortable with and just run with it....



Today I was Djing and a chick walked up to me and started twerking, gave me her number......it can just be too easy at times. I've come to realize that women are all about how you make them feel........and when you're performing anything, as a DJ, as an actor, rapper you can give that feeling to make them feel something for you. It's quite amazing. I've come to understand it a lot more recently.....

blurry pic but yeah that's me grabbing her weave.....I grabbed the ass too I need that She has a child tho

 

[92Inc]

I met a chick off tinder a few weeks ago.....we clicked and I enjoy her company. First date I took her out to eat then we chilled in my car and talked which led to me her sucking my dikk and me eating her p*ssy and just as I was about to hit it was time for me to go DJ. 2nd date I can tell she had her guard up in terms of having sex....She just wasn't bout it, almost like teasing me because she got caught slipping on the 1st date. 3rd time we chilled I hit, she fell as asleep in my bed....

She's cool but she's so much younger than me. She's 21....I'm 28. I've dated women my age, older women, women younger than me so age gap is just whatever.... She basically told me she wants a relationship with me the other night but I was like we've only known each other a few weeks. To be honest I think a girl would have to be extraordinary for me to say yeah I'm exclusive so I kinda feel bad now that she's already at that point. I still mess with other joints despite us talking, texting, face timing every day. I just think you need to know a person for while before committing and I'm not even close to that point. Funny, when you're young all it takes is a piece of paper saying "do you want to go with me, yes or no" to end up bf and gf. lol

She actually prompted that how much should you have in common with someone you're dating/your significant other question from a few weeks ago that I posted here. Even tho I enjoy her company she's so much different than me that it's a cause for concern if I ever were to take it further a while from now or just meeting another girl who's similar to her in lack of common interests. It's cool to have differences because it's intriguing and you learn to love and do different activities but at at some point I think you wonder how much each person is compromising for the sake of a relationship. It's not an issue now but sometimes I wonder if it just makes more sense to be with someone who has more similar interest. More often than not I make a reference to something and she's never heard of it........I'm pretty sure there's a girl out there I can (just a wild example) go to a game with and enjoy listening to NaS with, talk music, movies with for hours without feeling like she's compromising much of who she is just because I make her happy (and/or vice versa). I just think it'd be cool to have a chick who I'd spend hours with talking about something we both like.....haven't had that in a while......We both do workout tho.....She's a really cute girl tho.

In some ways it seems like this is probably why relationships fail......seems like many people have chemistry but truly aren't compatible interest wise so they fake it or just don't compromise at all, both which can lead towards resentment. I want to ask some of my friends how much they have in common with their significant others, I'm curious. This isn't shyt men normally talk about.......I feel a lot of times we're so focused on smashing but maybe we miss little shyt like this. It's easy to take chemistry and the spark you feel talking to someone you're comfortable with and just run with it....



Today I was Djing and a chick walked up to me and started twerking, gave me her number......it can just be too easy at times. I've come to realize that women are all about how you make them feel........and when you're performing anything, as a DJ, as an actor, rapper you can give that feeling to make them feel something for you. It's quite amazing. I've come to understand it a lot more recently.....

blurry pic but yeah that's me grabbing her weave.....I grabbed the ass too I need that She has a child tho

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Them online dating sites seem like trouble

 

[Rich Spirit]

Them online dating sites seem like trouble

I heard Tinder is a gold mine

 

[EnzoG]

So the chick i spoke about last week decided to hit me up last night told her i found her attractive(something i never got to tell her last week) I told her i wanted to see her she said she was too tired i told her we could hang out tonight. This morning she called me at 8:30 saying in a demanding way(she asked what i was doing today before she said this) that she wants to go the movies(going to see Think like a Man Too not a kevin hart fan btw which i told her ) which I had no problem with in going. Further into our convo. she asked how i was different from other black guy's which lowkey had me because she should've noticed how i was different from other black guys. Also, she told me she doesn't like to chase after guys she likes it the other way around (not really my forte). Any tips on how to improve on this second outing with her?

 

[karim]

So the chick i spoke about last week decided to hit me up last night told her i found her attractive(something i never got to tell her last week) I told her i wanted to see her she said she was too tired i told her we could hang out tonight. This morning she called me at 8:30 saying in a demanding way(she asked what i was doing today before she said this) that she wants to go the movies(going to see Think like a Man Too not a kevin hart fan btw which i told her ) which I had no problem with in going. Further into our convo. she asked how i was different from other black guy's which lowkey had me because she should've noticed how i was different from other black guys. Also, she told me she doesn't like to chase after guys she likes it the other way around (not really my forte). Any tips on how to improve on this second outing with her?

do not pay for her at the movies, she initiated it, so it's not like you invited her. don't chase after her. try to make a move, if she's blocking you tske a bit of a distance until she comes to you, then try to make another move. if she blocks you again, bushes.

 

[Astroslik]

I heard Tinder is a gold mine

you need a Facebook tho huh?

 

[Rich Spirit]

you need a Facebook tho huh?

Yea, if u don't have one u can always create a dummy profile

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

It's nothing wrong with paying for a date U just gotta know where u stand wigh the chick. I don't pay after the 3rd date especially if I ain't fukk yet.
8ball said it beat "I'll take them hoes out and get em something to eat but any real nikka will just to drill baby" that's my motto movies dinner and p*ssy

 

[Beerus]

lol
Saw chick at work today(one that cancelled date on me last sunday and said we could go some other day) and she pratically ignored me
I ain't do shyt but respond to her text.
Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: yeah sure.
Her:Thank you, soo sorry.
Me: Lol it's ok.

Now she ain't even try to acknowledge me?
nikkas did I do something wrong there?
Anyways that if she gon act crazy like that

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

lol
Saw chick at work today(one that cancelled date on me last sunday and said we could go some other day) and she pratically ignored me
I ain't do shyt but respond to her text.
Her: excuse for not being able to chill, blah blah blah we could go some other day for sure.
Me: yeah sure.
Her:Thank you, soo sorry.
Me: Lol it's ok.

Now she ain't even try to acknowledge me?
nikkas did I do something wrong there?
Anyways that if she gon act crazy like that

Take the hint and keep it moving. She not interested in you anymore.