Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CanesMiamiLakers]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/387940/Just-Jane-Woman-I-love-cheated-with-around-20-other-guys

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I’ve always accepted that she’s a private person – but now I know differently.

We’ve been talking about her moving in after going out for five years, but one of my mates said he needed to have a chat with me.

He told me that she’s cheated on me loads of times while we’ve been together.

It seems everyone knew except me – but no-one wanted to tell me the truth.

Now she is about to move in, my pal said he thought I should know.

I was absolutely broken-hearted and very angry.

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I went round to her flat and demanded she tell me the truth about what she’s been up to.

She was in total denial at first and was adamant that she had not been seeing anyone else.

And she tried to blame my pals by saying none of them liked her and they’d been trying to break us up from day one.

But I wouldn’t accept that and finally she admitted that she had cheated on me.

I thought she was going to say once or twice.

But I almost fell over when she finally admitted to sleeping with about 20 other guys during the five years she’s been with me.

She says she loves me and promises that she’ll change.

I love her too and want to believe her – but can I? She’s a great woman and I’ve always felt very happy with her.

We get on better than I have done with any other woman and sex with her is incredible. But now I’m so confused.

Would I be a total idiot to continue our plans for her to move in or should I just end our relationship now?

Bad enough dude even has to ask, but check out the first sentence in Jane's reply.

I would bet she does love him. But hoes will be hoes

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

Work on ya pipe game fellas it's not guaranteed she'll stay but it gives u a chance

 

[Motife43]

http://www.thecoli.com/posts/9136479/

Update on the chick from that post. Since making that post I've been texting her less. shyt, has her befuddled. lol

She just came up to me...

Her: Motife, you ain't text me all day.
Me: shyt, you can text too
Her: Women gotta do all the work these days
Me:

As I've read thru this thread the past few weeks I've seen a lot of it is stuff i know about when dealing with women. But, it's always good to get an outside perspective and reminder of staying away from simping and staying firm on being a real man. Salutes to everybody dropping knowledge

 

[kevm3]

It's amazing how women have clouds of delusional positive affirmations surrounding them. They are 'awesome' no matter what. They even have a movement where we need to stop 'fat-shaming'. In other words, women don't have to bring ANYTHING to the table and we're supposed to give them praise. The stuff is getting so nonsensical, it is mind-boggling.

 

[DaRealness]

LMAO! "I suggest you do neither." THIS bytch. LMAO.

I know, right?! Jane is something else.

I would bet she does love him. But hoes will be hoes

Loves him so much she sleeps around with 20 dudes and probably even more throughout their relationship and doesn't even bother to do it discreetly considering the whole world knew about it before he did making him a laughingstock. Typical example of a 'nice guy' ignoring the humiliation and being played by a chick who doesn't give a shyt about him but smiles and gives him good sex once in a while. That isn't love at all. He probably would have paid all the bills and given her a big weekly allowance if he let her move in with him too.

Twenty other dikks all up in her over five years? She has to get the and that's not even a debate.

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's amazing how women have clouds of delusional positive affirmations surrounding them. They are 'awesome' no matter what. They even have a movement where we need to stop 'fat-shaming'. In other words, women don't have to bring ANYTHING to the table and we're supposed to give them praise. The stuff is getting so nonsensical, it is mind-boggling.

Patrice O'Neal: "I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing; and no matter what a woman is, is a wonderful thing." Taken from his interview with Marc Maron.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs, since women want you to spit by saying stuff like "oooo its hot", "do you know what time it is?", "ooo im so tired", "what isle did you find that", etc.

How do you distinguish between them being friendly and wanting you to spit?

@kevm3

 

[kevm3]

Brehs, since women want you to spit by saying stuff like "oooo its hot", "do you know what time it is?", "ooo im so tired", "what isle did you find that", etc.

How do you distinguish between them being friendly and wanting you to spit?

@kevm3

Stop spending so much time trying to read signals and just converse. If she likes you, it'll be obivous. She'll actually be engaged in the conversation and not giving you those cold, one word answers.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Stop spending so much time trying to read signals and just converse. If she likes you, it'll be obivous. She'll actually be engaged in the conversation and not giving you those cold, one word answers.

Im just asking to see if females im not tryna spit at are feeling me.
I'll be passing up somebody at the job and they'll be like "ooo lord im tired". I just be wondering if they feeling me or they just wanna make random convo.

Thats all im saying breh

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Stop spending so much time trying to read signals and just converse. If she likes you, it'll be obivous. She'll actually be engaged in the conversation and not giving you those cold, one word answers.

Im just asking to see if females im not tryna spit at are feeling me.
I'll be passing up somebody at the job and they'll be like "ooo lord im tired". I just be wondering if they feeling me or they just wanna make random convo.

Thats all im saying breh

 

[kevm3]

Im just asking to see if females im not tryna spit at are feeling me.
I'll be passing up somebody at the job and they'll be like "ooo lord im tired". I just be wondering if they feeling me or they just wanna make random convo.

Thats all im saying breh

Im just asking to see if females im not tryna spit at are feeling me.
I'll be passing up somebody at the job and they'll be like "ooo lord im tired". I just be wondering if they feeling me or they just wanna make random convo.

Thats all im saying breh

Im just asking to see if females im not tryna spit at are feeling me.
I'll be passing up somebody at the job and they'll be like "ooo lord im tired". I just be wondering if they feeling me or they just wanna make random convo.

Thats all im saying breh

Yeah i see where you're coming from. In reality, none of us can read minds, so spending all this time wondering if she's giving this or that magical signal is a waste. Talk to her, see if the convo flows. If she's cold, then move on. Take the mind reading attempts out of your program and you'll be much better off.

 

[Atlrocafella]

http://www.thecoli.com/posts/9136479/

Update on the chick from that post. Since making that post I've been texting her less. shyt, has her befuddled. lol

She just came up to me...

Her: Motife, you ain't text me all day.
Me: shyt, you can text too
Her: Women gotta do all the work these days
Me:

As I've read thru this thread the past few weeks I've seen a lot of it is stuff i know about when dealing with women. But, it's always good to get an outside perspective and reminder of staying away from simping and staying firm on being a real man. Salutes to everybody dropping knowledge

You stood firm and didn't allow yourself to keep chasing her ass around.

Actually today, I ran into a chick who stopped texting me out of the blue after everything was cool. I amused myself and asked her "hey, did I do or say something to upset you?, cause you kind of just stopped responding to me", I could see it in her face that she was looking for some lie to make up..

her: Oh..umm my phone, well I lost all my numbers so I haven't been responding to anyone.

me: Oh Ok

her: You still have my number? Just text me and say "hey this is ......"

me: Sure

these heauxs will lie to your face when confronted, I don't even get mad, I just laugh at the shyt these days

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yeah i see where you're coming from. In reality, none of us can read minds, so spending all this time wondering if she's giving this or that magical signal is a waste. Talk to her, see if the convo flows. If she's cold, then move on. Take the mind reading attempts out of your program and you'll be much better off.

I feel u on that but these are chicks i don't want.
Just wondering what chicks at work like me

 

[TheArchitect]

Brehs, since women want you to spit by saying stuff like "oooo its hot", "do you know what time it is?", "ooo im so tired", "what isle did you find that", etc.

How do you distinguish between them being friendly and wanting you to spit?

@kevm3

I've always had this problem.....

 

[Turbulent]

I feel u on that but these are chicks i don't want.
Just wondering what chicks at work like me

if you don't want them why are you so bent on figuring out if they like you? this is some female type shyt breh.