Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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a woman's whole game is to get you to believe you need her to get laid. she wants you to believe that you'll never get p*ssy again if you don't get it from her. this is why they hate promiscuous girls. this is why they don't want you to hang out with your non-simp male friends. this is why they don't want you to have too much free time. because all these things could remind you that you don't need them to get puss. all these things could wake you up from the spell. all these things dilute her power.

if you buy into that belief, you end up thinking you need to impress her, buy her stuff, entertain her, say the wittiest/smoothest shyt to get her number, to get her on a date, to get her to bed. stop being scared of her not liking you. stop wondering if she likes you. stop trying to interpret every movement or word she says. when you do that you're playing her game. her game = her rules = her benefit above everything. the best sign of if a chick likes you or not is if you're fukking her. best sign is if you see her making efforts to spend time with you, where ever when ever. best sign is if she gives you her number with no resistance.

the best sign a chick is feeling you is that she is giving you cooperation (at whatever level you are at with her). if she's not giving you that, it means she's not feeling you on that specific level. what you choose to do after that is up to you. but word of advice, you can't convince a chick to feel you. if you are feeling a chick on a certain level and she doesn't feel the same or doesn't cooperate, i advise to just charge it to the game and move on. the only alternative would be to try to get her to feel the same way by being a player (playing her game). and again, her game = her rules = her benefit above everything...
 

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a woman's whole game is to get you to believe you need her to get laid. she wants you to believe that you'll never get p*ssy again if you don't get it from her. this is why they hate promiscuous girls. this is why they don't want you to hang out with your non-simp male friends. this is why they don't want you to have too much free time. because all these things could remind you that you don't need them to get puss. all these things could wake you up from the spell. all these things dilute her power.

if you buy into that belief, you end up thinking you need to impress her, buy her stuff, entertain her, say the wittiest/smoothest shyt to get her number, to get her on a date, to get her to bed. stop being scared of her not liking you. stop wondering if she likes you. stop trying to interpret every movement or word she says. when you do that you're playing her game. her game = her rules = her benefit above everything. the best sign of if a chick likes you or not is if you're fukking her. best sign is if you see her making efforts to spend time with you, where ever when ever. best sign is if she gives you her number with no resistance.

the best sign a chick is feeling you is that she is giving you cooperation (at whatever level you are at with her). if she's not giving you that, it means she's not feeling you on that specific level. what you choose to do after that is up to you. but word of advice, you can't convince a chick to feel you. if you are feeling a chick on a certain level and she doesn't feel the same or doesn't cooperate, i advise to just charge it to the game and move on. the only alternative would be to try to get her to feel the same way by being a player (playing her game). and again, her game = her rules = her benefit above everything...

spoke about this on the previous page. yesterday me and my friend (spoke about the same friend in this thread before he is :flabbynsick: status) hit the clubs in the smoking area saw these two chicks i made the moves started speaking they were here on holiday. they were both good looking one of them was acting uninterested and shyt noticed this early on anyway night goes on and we still hung with them. noticed shyt weren't going anywhere because of the friend who was uninterested or whatever so i tell my friend lets leave. this nikka fell in love with the chicks :aicmon: and still wanted to pursue these chicks even after i told him shyt weren't going anywhere. I had already taken the L and wanted to keep it moving but this nikka wanted to go dance with again even after shyt was becoming stale and awkward. left that nikka in the club and went home.

I have no problems taking an L we all do but people need to know when to keep shyt moving like you said. it's not hard to know if a chick uninterested and that's when you should keep it moving or else you'll look:flabbynsick: and that when shyt becomes awkward and corny. Make your moves if she's not feeling you:yeshrug: move on
 

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spoke about this on the previous page. yesterday me and my friend (spoke about the same friend in this thread before he is :flabbynsick: status) hit the clubs in the smoking area saw these two chicks i made the moves started speaking they were here on holiday. they were both good looking one of them was acting uninterested and shyt noticed this early on anyway night goes on and we still hung with them. noticed shyt weren't going anywhere because of the friend who was uninterested or whatever so i tell my friend lets leave. this nikka fell in love with the chicks :aicmon: and still wanted to pursue these chicks even after i told him shyt weren't going anywhere. I had already taken the L and wanted to keep it moving but this nikka wanted to go dance with again even after shyt was becoming stale and awkward. left that nikka in the club and went home.

I have no problems taking an L
we all do but people need to know when to keep shyt moving like you said. it's not hard to know if a chick uninterested and that's when you should keep it moving or else you'll look:flabbynsick: and that when shyt becomes awkward and corny. Make your moves if she's not feeling you:yeshrug: move on
that alone already puts you ahead in the game. any interaction with her passed that makes her the prize by default and your friend needs her more than she needs him. this leaves him wide open to get played. it's almost like your friend believe she's his only chance to get laid at that time. she's his only chance at salvation. girl can smell that and they'll use, abuse and discard him like a dude does a smut.
 

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any tips for hitting clubs or bars solo? I need to start doing that shyt think i could do better if i roll solo

Just be who you are like you got 3 homies with you. True, there is a little bit more comfort and hubris if you got a couple partnas with you, but I just had to break out my shell.

I kinda forced myself to go out alone, even though bars/clubs/lounges ain't my thing, outside of that I virtually do everything else alone. So it wasn't to hard of stepping stone. I went to Memphis by myself last Thursday and walked up and down Beale Street and went into Wet Willies. I made conversation with folks, in the most non-creepiest way possible and enjoyed myself.
 

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that alone already puts you ahead in the game. any interaction with her passed that makes her the prize by default and your friend needs her more than she needs him. this leaves him wide open to get played. it's almost like your friend believe she's his only chance to get laid at that time. she's his only chance at salvation. girl can smell that and they'll use, abuse and discard him like a dude does a smut.
my friend is a nice guy but when it comes to women he is :flabbynsick:.
 

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Just be who you are like you got 3 homies with you. True, there is a little bit more comfort and hubris if you got a couple partnas with you, but I just had to break out my shell.

I kinda forced myself to go out alone, even though bars/clubs/lounges ain't my thing, outside of that I virtually do everything else alone. So it wasn't to hard of stepping stone. I went to Memphis by myself last Thursday and walked up and down Beale Street and went into Wet Willies. I made conversation with folks, in the most non-creepiest way possible and enjoyed myself.
:win:. doing shyt alone :blessed:. been scoping the city for a couple months now time for me to put in work.
 

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Damn it.....wtf....

Sooo, back in like 2011 at my old job I meet this cute chick that was working the henna tattoos. She seemed cool, we exchanged numbers, but through a text convo a little later I come to find out she's only like 16 at the time (she looked like a legit 18+ year old), plus she had a boyfriend. So after her getting seemingly upset because I wasn't really trying to chill with a minor and be friends like that (She's a pot smoker like me. I was 28 at the time) much less one with a damn boyfriend, I winded up throwing the number to the bushes. but we were still friends on fb.

Fast forward 3 years later to this morning. She hits me up TOTALLY random this morning like "Hi! Remember me??" So we talk for a little, come to find out, she now lives in the same city as I.:shaq:....
And she's not very far from me at all...:shaq:

So I ask if she lives by herself. She's like no, with her boyfriend.....:dwillhuh:

So now I'm like :what: "fukk you wanna chill with me for if you got your man....?"

It annoys me because I see this as a fukking tease. I'd bang her to high heaven (she's Philipinno and Swedish. Wow,right?:ohhh:) But idk if she's on some corny-ass ultra-friendly type shyt like last time (at lest I THINK she was), or if she has "other motives"...

I'm hoping for the latter...I ain't the one to be one of her "homegirl--I mean BOYS"....:shaq:
 
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nikka I've only went out alone and I'm fresh to the ATL.

My homie came down and he got mad cause I was movin at my own pace.
 

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because she is interested...in your attention.
She was giving rhythm and it was that look in her eye like she wanted to cooperate but she just wanted a little more from me before she gave it up. So i didnt really write her off but i wasnt in the mood to be decoding any riddles.

While we was walking i was like does she want a one night stand? Should i bump into her and grab her ass or what. Cause she acted like she wanted me to say or do something. I also got the hint during the convo that she wanted me to go walmart with her at 2 am.

Its other good looking females that work there. So i was also thinking she proly wants the other females to see me chasing her. Im not about all that show off stuff so i might throw a few flirt comments at her a but if she aint basicly throwing it at me i aint even gonna ask.
 

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:win:. doing shyt alone :blessed:. been scoping the city for a couple months now time for me to put in work.

It's liberating. I really started doing stuff dolo in college in North Carolina, I was from Atlanta and didn't really know anybody when I got there.I been doing it ever since, eat alone, go to Braves/Hawks/Falcons games alone, cruise the city, hit spots alone. It's partly cuz females/homies I deal with be on some "I can't pay" or on some other shyt like wearing got damn camo cargos knowing damn well you aint gettin into the spot smh. But it's whatever. Can't let other people determine YOUR happiness.
 

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She was giving rhythm and it was that look in her eye like she wanted to cooperate but she just wanted a little more from me before she gave it up. So i didnt really write her off but i wasnt in the mood to be decoding any riddles.

While we was walking i was like does she want a one night stand? Should i bump into her and grab her ass or what. Cause she acted like she wanted me to say or do something. I also got the hint during the convo that she wanted me to go walmart with her at 2 am.

Its other good looking females that work there. So i was also thinking she proly wants the other females to see me chasing her. Im not about all that show off stuff so i might throw a few flirt comments at her a but if she aint basicly throwing it at me i aint even gonna ask.
"like she wanted to cooperate but..."see that's the trick of it all in a nutshell. that"s their game. the con. the proverbial carrot dangling infront of your eyes while she's trying to make a jackass out of you. as :patrice: would say, the "implied promise of p*ssy" is what she is using to manipulate you into giving her more energy, time and attention. and she doesn't even need to say a word, all she has to do is get you to believe "if i do ABC she'll let me hit" without her saying these words so you can't blame her afterwards.


what's needed is her cooperation. not her desire to cooperate. her actual cooperation. anything else is just talk. and talk is cheap. you gotta give her the options. she can either cooperate or not cooperate and not get any attention or time from you. if you give her the option to talk her way out of cooperation and still get time and attention from you, she HAS to choose that option.
 

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It's liberating. I really started doing stuff dolo in college in North Carolina, I was from Atlanta and didn't really know anybody when I got there.I been doing it ever since, eat alone, go to Braves/Hawks/Falcons games alone, cruise the city, hit spots alone. It's partly cuz females/homies I deal with be on some "I can't pay" or on some other shyt like wearing got damn camo cargos knowing damn well you aint gettin into the spot smh. But it's whatever. Can't let other people determine YOUR happiness.
true will try soon hopefully next week
 

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Had to let the teacher go, she was looking for a comeup :childplease:. I'm dealing with 2 nurses, I got a feeling that one of the nurses might already have some other nikkaz she's dealing with, but she be talking that shyt i like to hear ::banderas:. The church going nurse is definitely playing her position and doing all the right things to make it appear that she's altogether.


:beli: Well she's off the team, had some random ass number calling me like 1 in the morning, kept sending it to voicemail, but they kept calling. Finally picked up and it was ol girl. I'm like wussup, why you calling me from this number? I hear some nicca in the background saying "Go head and talk to him, since you like texting him at night and shyt".. I'm like who's that? She says it's her boyfriend that she didn't tell me about, I said, "well it looks like you two got some things to talk about, I don't have nothing to do with this :manny:, she tried to explain herself, I cut her off and told her I got to get going, but yall handle that..
 
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