So me and my girl been going thru it for the last few weeks, now she talkin bout she need space
Its a wrap breh..
Tell her to delete your number
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Its a wrap breh..
Tell her to delete your number
She's about to test out another nicca she's interested in, if it doesn't work out, she'll come back to you.So me and my girl been going thru it for the last few weeks, now she talkin bout she need space
cosign this man, my gf and I went through some stuff briefly a couple months back, never was there talk about seperation, we worked as a team and solved the minor issues that were there
CrossBones
Louder than words
hey man, dont waste time throwing compliments to a chick youre not even with or know like that. if shes not moving with you and feeling your approach, then leave her be. talk to other women and keep doing your thing elsewhere, just never stress those dodgy ones. dont pay her no mind. complimenting and flirting with a girl who low key curved you, is like validating to her that you are below her. youre trying to reach her level in her eyes with this sweet talk. you look below her. real talk, it hurts your value and it makes you look thirsty. like you need to grab her attention by basically kissing her ass repeatedly
no woman wants an ass kisser, unless its to friendzone/get favors/play out. its in their nature to use men like that because theyre putting those kinds of sappy, weak vibes out
dont put any energy into complimenting or doing anything with her. move on bruh. 1) because youre better off throwing your bid in to where itll get you the right results and 2) when she sees that youre not interested in her anymore, its her stock that drops in value. (so if she comes back to you, the ball is now in your court.)
the thing about that is youve moved on. when shes wondering why youre not flirting with her no more, she'll realize its because you dont see any value in her anymore. and to be honest, there really isnt. no cooperation means to time, attention, or effort from me.
funny thing is, women are so competitive, that when you do this shes gonna wonder why she isnt so fly anymore and who are you seeing. its crazy, but this will actually make her more open to you and recognize more value in you. and if not, so what. you got other things on the burner
CrossBones
Louder than words
Im just catching up with the thread again, yet I had to say something about this. theres a lot wrong with this pic, but Im mostly going to be ignoring the womans side right now, because its just a given that bytches are gonna do bytch shyt.
she knew he was coming over a long ways to see her, and she knew what he wanted from her (its clearly in her message), and finally she knew if she was going to let him. in the end, all she did was let him come over for a buddy selfie, and played him for a fool. then she played him out again when she posted it up when he left. straight disrespect. thats just what it is when you come weak with a bytch, bruh should of had his radars up
look at him. Im thinking he tried to play sweet with her, when she is nothing like that. for this guy to have such a wrong impression of this girl speaks volumes. for him to front and be mr nice guy to her, when all she wanted was a man to come over and "see her" says everything.
men have to do better than going all out and doing too much for a woman, all just because she showed you some attention. so for him to go out of his way to see this ho, like this is some long lost romance hes going to see, was wrong off top. lets be real there are girls in his city, so he is already doing way too much traveling just to not hit that. then to finally get there and cheese it up with her like theyre close buddies, looks pathetic. do what you came to do. you dont pose for selfies with the jump off. what the hell was he thinking?
he probably went from being the nice guy to trying to mack her. just isnt right at all. he played his hand badly and I can tell that he did it wrong from the beginning. the main problem being, that this is a ho, and he treated her like she was more. that never can work. I think homeboy came real weak and thats why he didnt hit. or if he did, something about his try too hard approach rubbed her the wrong way, so now shes being a bytch about it.
shes wreckless, and loose mouthed to put this picture up to clown him, but all the same, I can tell that the dude failed to assess and take control of this whole situationhe should have said exactly how hes interested in her in the first place, set up a spot where they can meet up at, and made it happen. do what it do. there should be no assuming, or any unspoken of expectations. and definitely no gifts, it makes you look beneath her. this man looks like he brought over a teddy bear and a burned CD to gift a ho into sex. but shes a ho
she was probably down with it in the beginning, but he messed it up coming over there, playing mr cuddle buddy and being mr soft n sensitive all the while trying to be a dog. these hoes are already putting up fronts, lying, and going around with no direction, and they dont want a guy to come over and be the same. I think that he brought in mad estrogen when he should have been a man about the whole thing. you already know that hoes dont respect the "nice guy"
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RealAssanova
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I'mma make it simple for nikkaz. Whenever a girl plays hard to get, doesn't text you, acts hot and cold...just basically ain't making things easy for ya'll...i want ya'll to envision this. There is/are women 20x more sexier than her in your city and around the world that will be on your nuts. I kno its a hard thing to fathom..but trust me when i say that. @Emperor_ReinScarf is a testament to this. When you text/call or out with her, i want ya'll to keep that at the back of your head. Let them bury themselves. Hoes make it easy for us and they don't even realize it. When they play games and shyt, all that says is, she ain't interested and if she is, she ain't worth nothing more than to fukk and dump.
Also, always talk to more than 1 hoe and remember this gem. It will show in your body language and confidence. You'll start to say shyt more freely and not worry about having to lose her or what she'll think of you, because there are sexier women than her. Don't make shyt out to be rocket science. Attraction is meant to be natural, so if you see yourself goin against the grain..stop.
Also, always talk to more than 1 hoe and remember this gem. It will show in your body language and confidence. You'll start to say shyt more freely and not worry about having to lose her or what she'll think of you, because there are sexier women than her. Don't make shyt out to be rocket science. Attraction is meant to be natural, so if you see yourself goin against the grain..stop.
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yup just hit up tinder you'll fnd ten hotter girls in a 5 mile radius.
shes not rare in terms of looks its like a videogame, may not be at walmart but theres eb games, best buy, target etc. just up the road.
im just telling you breh because when i went on vacation last month to vancouver i met this chick whose a model a legit model in magazines 
, its been a month later and my phone is still blown up with texts, im still in her heart , and this chick can literally get any man. This chick lives like 3000 miles away from me yet shes still feeling me, going to come visit me soon and all that, and I'm doing absolutely nothing, not simping, not 
, its what we always say on here, if a chick is REALLY interested in you she will move heave and earth to be in your life in any capacity, all these chicks giving you the cold shoulder etc. cut em off now toss that in the trash today
, its been a month later and my phone is still blown up with texts, im still in her heart , and this chick can literally get any man. This chick lives like 3000 miles away from me yet shes still feeling me, going to come visit me soon and all that, and I'm doing absolutely nothing, not simping, not , its what we always say on here, if a chick is REALLY interested in you she will move heave and earth to be in your life in any capacity, all these chicks giving you the cold shoulder etc. cut em off now toss that in the trash today
So me and my girl been going thru it for the last few weeks, now she talkin bout she need space
women emotionally attach
i wrote about this before in my dump her before she dumps you
Hold up and hear me out. I do not mean just dump her right now, or dump her maybe even ever. What I mean is when the signs
are shown that she is getting ready to dump you, dump her first. Women emotionally detach, weeks, months, even years in advance
before they drop the hammer on their unsuspecting boyfriend. By reading the signs you can come out on top.
Here are a few signs that you should dump her before she dumps you
1. She seems Distant.
If your girl seems distant, drop the hammer and get out now. She always made time for you for the months, years you were dating, now she is always busy,
cancelling plans, short phone calls that used to be long, no longer communicating daily. This is where you sever the ties and come out on top. If your girl no longer contacts you like she
once did you are no longer a priority in her life.
2. She needs Space
Whenever a woman tells you to needs space, run for the hills. In a relationship your partner is either with you or not, if they need space they are basically telling you
they don't want to be with you.
3. The pet names she used to call you stop.
If she used to call you baby all the time, and is now calling you by your government DUMP HER!!. You are now basically a friend don't allow her to be comfortable emotionally detaching from you
DUMP HER NOW.
Many men are so oblivious to the fact, when their gf is distant, no longer loves them anymore they think it just happaned. How can you fall out of love with me so fast, look at all I did bla bla.
Men need to wake up and realize nothing happens that fast, it's why when a women dumps you more than likely it has been plotted for awhile she just finally got to the point where she no longer feels the need
to have you in her life.
Ever notice if you have ever been dumped, you may have texted or talked to your gf every day for years, but once you are dumped just like that you are nothing? Read the signs boys, it's like when soemone is being
phased out at work, they slowly take away responsibilities from you, they slowly treat you different, you think nothing is wrong with then boom the hammer drops. If your eyes were open you would have realized months in advance
what was happening.
eifmp
Looking for a rich woman to take care of me
I have a question for all the COLI folks:
If I catch a woman checking me out...does that give me the right to be more direct that if she hadn't been checking me out?
Also, I catch women checking me out with their husbands/boyfriends. How do I approach that situation?
I need help in these streets out here. I seem to attract unavailable women and I want to push my morals to the left and dive in
If I catch a woman checking me out...does that give me the right to be more direct that if she hadn't been checking me out?
Also, I catch women checking me out with their husbands/boyfriends. How do I approach that situation?
I need help in these streets out here. I seem to attract unavailable women and I want to push my morals to the left and dive in
Well she's off the team, had some random ass number calling me like 1 in the morning, kept sending it to voicemail, but they kept calling. Finally picked up and it was ol girl. I'm like wussup, why you calling me from this number? I hear some nicca in the background saying "Go head and talk to him, since you like texting him at night and shyt".. I'm like who's that? She says it's her boyfriend that she didn't tell me about, I said, "well it looks like you two got some things to talk about, I don't have nothing to do with this
That's what's so sad. "Church-going", but had another dude on the side, and putting you in a position to possibly get killed. It's crazy how that sense works ain't it? You had a feeling that she was dealing with another guy, and it turns out she had a man.
Mordith
H.E.N.R.Y.
CrossBones
Louder than words
SMFH:
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it goes without saying, as we see it time and time again. both of these stories say a lot... as it all really comes down to this: a woman flocks or lays her nest down wherever she sees it as being the most beneficial for her. time doesnt stand still and neither do these women. most are only interested in what you can offer them for the time being, and not so much of who you are with her
"what have you done for me lately" is really the motto. I wouldnt get too attached to any chick these days, as we preach holding down yourself before anyone else, as that makes you straight no matter whats the outcome. instead of flipping out and being mad about what it is, its better to know the truth and to live by it