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I have man blogs I check that have to do with women and trying to understand them as a creature . I am amazed at how well some of these guys game is trump tight along with their understand of women. I come across this GEM on one of the sites I frequent www.sosuave.net.


I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.

I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.

I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be - most women have issues.) But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL **** her that next day.

Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I **** her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I **** her because now it's "my fault." Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've ****ed her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bull**** story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.

I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women **** all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude *****es in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could **** just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I ****ed them.

Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.

Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NO...because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and **** LOTS AND LOTS of women! It's evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man...so the top man ****s lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.

You might say, "But...but...I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!

I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those *****s out there without getting any play. (You *****es know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)

* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)
 

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My friend, she recently stopped talking to me and going off on me. I tried letting her realize her faults and that's when I started to see how obvious it is to not even try to argue with women.
I really wanted to help her, brehs. I tried because I care.

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This is my fault for being so naive and not calling her out first and foremost from the beginning. We've been friends for 5 years. She would always only talk about her, not how I am or what I think. Asking me questions helping her figure out the guys she liked. Cutting me off when I want to figure out the chicks I'm into.

Simply, I told her some stuff from this thread and tested the methods. Y'all stay showing me how true this shyt is.

She tried playing it off, reversing it on me, still trying to play it off. In the end she said "It sounds like you don't wanna be friends anymore." Notice how she is using a suggestion, on what she FEELS I think, not actually even trying to interpret what I am saying.

I upload this to show you, how easily these girls will use you.


ive said it before and ill say it again, male and females cannot be friends.

And its not just because of one person having attraction for the other, its that mainly what a man considers a friend a female can rarely be. Females don't want to hear about your problems, females don't want to be there when your life is in shambles, females just don't want to hang out and pay their fare share. once they start to date you are non existent, only when they need money, or a favor they pop up
 

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they got indians too.

These hoes man :bryan:More and more i'm starting to think, women are really out'chea to milk dudes of their resources and don't want a man. Femininity today is as rare as dinosaur fossils. WWI and WWII women would wait for their husbands to return from war yet today, if you don't text a chick back within a certain time frame, she onto another dude. The women of today man :mindblown: i feel like i'm going against my natural desires of loving and taking care of a woman that i appreciate. I feel like i can't love no woman out here cuz if i do, i'll suffer. Its like when it comes to women and dating, its all a game and nothing more. You either play to win or lose...which is really fukked up if u ask me.
Thats some real shyt breh:salute:
 

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I have man blogs I check that have to do with women and trying to understand them as a creature . I am amazed at how well some of these guys game is trump tight along with their understand of women. I come across this GEM on one of the sites I frequent www.sosuave.net.


I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.

I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.

I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be - most women have issues.) But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL **** her that next day.

Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I **** her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I **** her because now it's "my fault." Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've ****ed her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bull**** story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.

I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women **** all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude *****es in social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could **** just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I ****ed them.

Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.

Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NO...because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and **** LOTS AND LOTS of women! It's evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man...so the top man ****s lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.

You might say, "But...but...I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!

I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those *****s out there without getting any play. (You *****es know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)

* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)

ive read this before :wow:

id say this is true for 96% of women, there is still the rare say virgin, or the rare woman who has never cheated emotionally or physically, but this is like winning a lotto ticket it seems in these days.

That I know off, i've only been cheated on twice in my life, however i have dated women that when it ended a week or two later a guy that i knew was around them they were now dating, so who knows.

And that loyalty quote like i always said before, its just like say in pulp fiction how marcellus wallace was trying to kill butch, they were fihting to the death etc., marcellus ends up getting sodomized and butch could have been like this dude was trying to kill me :ehh:, but he remembered that he is the one who messed up the deal they had and went back and saved him, you can save your enemy from a burning building and he will be indebted to you for life, you can save a single mother adn her 4 kids from poverty and domestic abuse fall in love with her and she'll cheat on you and take half.

 

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The most common element is the 'no guilt' part. A rare few of them feel guilt, but most of them don't feel guilt until they are caught. Then they begin the tearworks or maybe try to flip it on you like 'how could yo spy on me?'

I mean the game is so routine it's almost laughable.
 

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The most common element is the 'no guilt' part. A rare few of them feel guilt, but most of them don't feel guilt until they are caught. Then they begin the tearworks or maybe try to flip it on you like 'how could yo spy on me?'

I mean the game is so routine it's almost laughable.

females don't want to feel guilt it eats them up why they always deflect, they cheated on you, you get blamed for not being there, not going to vegas with them, working hard to provide, treating them bad. They dump you they will offer you friendship to relieve the guilt like hey we can still be friends nad hang out :heh:
 

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you are too worried about what these girls want/are thinking/are feeling. you're not worried enough about what you want.

what do you want from her? keep it real with yourself. and if you don't want anything, why are you entertaining her?

:whoa:
Im not focused on what she wants.
At one point I wanted w future with her but after she fukked up, all I wanna do is hit and fukk with her head. :yeshrug: I love being :demonic:
 

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females don't want to feel guilt it eats them up why they always deflect, they cheated on you, you get blamed for not being there, not going to vegas with them, working hard to provide, treating them bad. They dump you they will offer you friendship to relieve the guilt like hey we can still be friends nad hang out :heh:

You aint never lied, my ex once told me that she think she cheated bc her horoscope sign is prone to freedom of expression:comeon:

"I still want to have you in my life and be friends":comeon:

(After 3 weeks of no contact) "Hey stranger, are you avoiding me? ":comeon:
 

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You aint never lied, my ex once told me that she think she cheated bc her horoscope sign is prone to freedom of expression:comeon:

"I still want to have you in my life and be friends":comeon:

(After 3 weeks of no contact) "Hey stranger, are you avoiding me? ":comeon:

:mjlol:

As of a few days ago im done with even trying on females.
If the hoe want me to hit then Ima know fir sure if not then fukk it :yeshrug:
Im done tryna understand and reason with these broads in this decade.

If the pxxsy comes to me it comes to me; if not then :yeshrug: ima just focus in shyt about myself and jack off if I have to :steviej:
 

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As of a few days ago im done with even trying on females.
If the hoe want me to hit then Ima know fir sure if not then fukk it :yeshrug:
Im done tryna understand and reason with these broads in this decade.

If the pxxsy comes to me it comes to me; if not then :yeshrug: ima just focus in shyt about myself and jack off if I have to :steviej:

I learned it's about balance, you can focus on yourself and still kick it to females who get in where they fit in. Women who know you're a catch will do the work
 
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