Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Urbanmiracle]

no nikka you were childish for thinking "doing shyt for her = she's gonna stay with me" but it's starting to become clear to me that you aren't mature enough to grasp the concept of doing shyt because you genuinely want to do it, not because you expect something in return that's just setting yourself up for L's

and i never said having emotions means you aren't a man, but having this "i want to get back at her" shyt you got going on SCREAMS female cuz that's shyt that they typically do when they're emotionally distraught

I did those things out of love, but i do see your point. Every second is more of "fukk this bytch" than "i want her back". Time heals all

 

[OaklandCertified]

Have any of you guys ever smashed the chick that did you wrong later in life? Well that's what I went through a few days ago.

I ran into a chick I dealt with 5 years back. Seen her at this event i attended for a mutual friend. I had forgotten that we shared the acquaintance until my friend mentioned it. I really didn't care if she showed up or not. Well long story short I used to simp over this chick and she used and discarded me like it was nothing. Ever since then I've been down with the #HOH movement. So since she played me, I have stepped my game up tremendously. I'm talking better body, career on track, well traveled..etc. Her not so much. Heard she was pregnant (didnt keep the baby) in a relationship with a deadbeat who stole from her, and all of her friends and family.

We get to the spot where the event is being held and she's already there. I heard from another friend that she had asked if I was there when she first arrived. So I was greeting everyone there and saw her sitting down by herself. So I go over and give her the friendliest hug I could, while she tried to savor the embrace. She wanted to talk but my friend called me over to meet some people. I'm having a great time mingling n not pay her any mind. My friend tells me that she has been watching me the whole night. I laughed, but I didn't care, there were so many fine women there. So I guess she got tired and approached me. She said "are you gon come back over here or not" so I decide to hear what she had to say. Drink in hand I follow her outside. I don't remember what the fukk she was talking about, I just remember i started to feel the drink, and started thinkING she still looked good as fukk. I instantly got horny looking at her in that form fitting dress she had on. She was blabbing about something and I interrupted her mid sentence like " let's get out of here" I wanted to knock it out in the car but she says she didn't stay too far.

So we get to the house, strip, and started going at it. It dawned on me that this was the bytch I was madly in love with, and the chick who shytted on me, and I didn't give a single fukk about her now. It's like it made me angry and I started to fukk her like she was a worthless piece of shyt. After we finished she wanted me to stay but I was like nah. I hit my friend and he told me the party was still going on so I went back. She hit me a lot after that but I ignored the bytch. I wasn't after revenge but that shyt felt great.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Next monday im start a quick lil gems on "BEING A MAN...KNOW YOUR WORTH" thread. I hope all tha brehs embrace it with open arms . This thread wont have anything to do with woman ...I just wanna focus on the brehs making each other better...I dont know how a postive thread is going to fair on the coli thoe ... Im pretty sure a lot of us have some life experiences that can be passed down that others could benfit from.

 

[Turbulent]

Have any of you guys ever smashed the chick that did you wrong later in life? Well that's what I went through a few days ago.

I ran into a chick I dealt with 5 years back. Seen her at this event i attended for a mutual friend. I had forgotten that we shared the acquaintance until my friend mentioned it. I really didn't care if she showed up or not. Well long story short I used to simp over this chick and she used and discarded me like it was nothing. Ever since then I've been down with the #HOH movement. So since she played me, I have stepped my game up tremendously. I'm talking better body, career on track, well traveled..etc. Her not so much. Heard she was pregnant (didnt keep the baby) in a relationship with a deadbeat who stole from her, and all of her friends and family.

We get to the spot where the event is being held and she's already there. I heard from another friend that she had asked if I was there when she first arrived. So I was greeting everyone there and saw her sitting down by herself. So I go over and give her the friendliest hug I could, while she tried to savor the embrace. She wanted to talk but my friend called me over to meet some people. I'm having a great time mingling n not pay her any mind. My friend tells me that she has been watching me the whole night. I laughed, but I didn't care, there were so many fine women there. So I guess she got tired and approached me. She said "are you gon come back over here or not" so I decide to hear what she had to say. Drink in hand I follow her outside. I don't remember what the fukk she was talking about, I just remember i started to feel the drink, and started thinkING she still looked good as fukk. I instantly got horny looking at her in that form fitting dress she had on. She was blabbing about something and I interrupted her mid sentence like " let's get out of here" I wanted to knock it out in the car but she says she didn't stay too far.

So we get to the house, strip, and started going at it. It dawned on me that this was the bytch I was madly in love with, and the chick who shytted on me, and I didn't give a single fukk about her now. It's like it made me angry and I started to fukk her like she was a worthless piece of shyt. After we finished she wanted me to stay but I was like nah. I hit my friend and he told me the party was still going on so I went back. She hit me a lot after that but I ignored the bytch. I wasn't after revenge but that shyt felt great.

it's the ciiiiircle of life...

 

[CityGuy]

So we get to the house, strip, and started going at it. It dawned on me that this was the bytch I was madly in love with, and the chick who shytted on me, and I didn't give a single fukk about her now. It's like it made me angry and I started to fukk her like she was a worthless piece of shyt. After we finished she wanted me to stay but I was like nah. I hit my friend and he told me the party was still going on so I went back. She hit me a lot after that but I ignored the bytch. I wasn't after revenge but that shyt felt great.

daps my dude

 

[MikelArteta]

Have any of you guys ever smashed the chick that did you wrong later in life? Well that's what I went through a few days ago.

I ran into a chick I dealt with 5 years back. Seen her at this event i attended for a mutual friend. I had forgotten that we shared the acquaintance until my friend mentioned it. I really didn't care if she showed up or not. Well long story short I used to simp over this chick and she used and discarded me like it was nothing. Ever since then I've been down with the #HOH movement. So since she played me, I have stepped my game up tremendously. I'm talking better body, career on track, well traveled..etc. Her not so much. Heard she was pregnant (didnt keep the baby) in a relationship with a deadbeat who stole from her, and all of her friends and family.

We get to the spot where the event is being held and she's already there. I heard from another friend that she had asked if I was there when she first arrived. So I was greeting everyone there and saw her sitting down by herself. So I go over and give her the friendliest hug I could, while she tried to savor the embrace. She wanted to talk but my friend called me over to meet some people. I'm having a great time mingling n not pay her any mind. My friend tells me that she has been watching me the whole night. I laughed, but I didn't care, there were so many fine women there. So I guess she got tired and approached me. She said "are you gon come back over here or not" so I decide to hear what she had to say. Drink in hand I follow her outside. I don't remember what the fukk she was talking about, I just remember i started to feel the drink, and started thinkING she still looked good as fukk. I instantly got horny looking at her in that form fitting dress she had on. She was blabbing about something and I interrupted her mid sentence like " let's get out of here" I wanted to knock it out in the car but she says she didn't stay too far.

So we get to the house, strip, and started going at it. It dawned on me that this was the bytch I was madly in love with, and the chick who shytted on me, and I didn't give a single fukk about her now. It's like it made me angry and I started to fukk her like she was a worthless piece of shyt. After we finished she wanted me to stay but I was like nah. I hit my friend and he told me the party was still going on so I went back. She hit me a lot after that but I ignored the bytch. I wasn't after revenge but that shyt felt great.

its like the end of forgetting sarah marshall, when she comes back sucking his dikk and dude remembers everythign she did to him and is like screw this

you won!!

 

[Youseenmywork]

Link the thread bruh.



Breh, i bet she will hit u up out of the blue. This is after she finds out that the grass isn't greener on the other side. DO NOT ENTERTAIN HER! Ignore all attempts at communication. Like the brothers in the thread mentioned before, use the delete and block method.

How do you link the thread im still kinda new to this bloging stuff?

 

[Ohene]

dont be petty breh go drop her key and then

y not just throw em away

 

[Fatboi1]

y not just throw em away

 

[CrossBones]

Here's a secret man. The more you give a woman what she says she wants, the less happy she gets.

thats a lot like something I heard before: the more special you treat a girl, the less special you seem to her. and the less special you treat her, then more likely she will see you as someone special. that is, if theres an attraction already there

when you do a lot for someone (mainly women) you dont actually impress them, you do just the opposite. theyll feel like youre trying to gain their validation. youll look like youre trying too hard and it comes out as desperate/forced/manipulative to a woman. even if for whatever reason none of that was your intention, it wont matter. youve struck out once made yourself look lesser to her. wrong move. now youre catering to her. and thats real weak for a man. thats the mistake that men are making today

its like this, if shorty cant keep up with you and your needs, then you need to toss her to the bushes. its very simple. dont look at it like, I did such and such for her all the time, I looked out, and I stayed down with her when things were rough, etc etc. see thats what we look for in a woman, but thats not necessarily what a woman is looking for in a man.

fukk what they say, look at what theyre doing to see what I mean.

 

[Fatboi1]

thats a lot like something I heard before: the more special you treat a girl, the less special you seem to her. and the less special you treat her, then more likely she will see you as someone special. that is, if theres an attraction already there

when you do a lot for someone (mainly women) you dont actually impress them, you do just the opposite. theyll feel like youre trying to gain their validation. youll look like youre trying too hard and it comes out as desperate/forced/manipulative to a woman. even if for whatever reason none of that was your intention, it wont matter. youve struck out once made yourself look lesser to her. wrong move. now youre catering to her. and thats real weak for a man. thats the mistake that men are making today

its like this, if shorty cant keep up with you and your needs, then you need to toss her to the bushes. its very simple. dont look at it like, I did such and such for her all the time, I looked out, and I stayed down with her when things were rough, etc etc. see thats what we look for in a woman, but thats not necessarily what a woman is looking for in a man.

fukk what they say, look at what theyre doing to see what I mean.

So if a chick caught a flat out in the middle of the boondocks and her cell phone battery is dying and she calls you for aid, don't go help her?

Let AAA do the job, that way she'll look at them as less special??

 

[MikelArteta]

See me I'm someone who has always had a heart for others I look at it like this . what I do for someone I expect nothing in return, if you have my phone number and need my help and I'm not busy I will help. Regardless if your a guy or a girl, I'm not doing it to get some puzzy or to be in your good graces.

So if a chick caught a flat out in the middle of the boondocks and her cell phone battery is dying and she calls you for aid, don't go help her?

Let AAA do the job, that way she'll look at them as less special??

 

[Fatboi1]

See me I'm someone who has always had a heart for others I look at it like this . what I do for someone I expect nothing in return, if you have my phone number and need my help and I'm not busy I will help. Regardless if your a guy or a girl, I'm not doing it to get some puzzy or to be in your good graces.

but what if it's a chick you're talking to and you want p*ssy but not in return for doing her a favor in this instance? :lupe;

 

[MikelArteta]

Women can't hold sex over me.

All I'm saying do stuff because you want to not expecting anything in return.

White knights do things expecting sex, dates etc.

but what if it's a chick you're talking to and you want p*ssy but not in return for doing her a favor in this instance? :lupe;

 

[kevm3]

Exactly. There's a vast difference between being stuck out in the middle of nowhere and a woman coming from the club calling you at 2 in the morning and being like drop me off at this person's house. One is genuine need and the other is flat-out disrespectful.