Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

So if a chick caught a flat out in the middle of the boondocks and her cell phone battery is dying and she calls you for aid, don't go help her?

Let AAA do the job, that way she'll look at them as less special??

is she going to go out of her way to show her appreciation to AAA for what they did, or is just she going to get in her car and drive away?




and if someone else helped her out, what do you think will happen, its all going to turn into a brazzers scene right then and there just because?


is she even going to be sending them candies and flowers for the help?



so did them helping her make them all that special? I think you see my point.



and thats not even a favor or treating some one as theyre special as much as it is aiding someone you know who is in distress. Im not sure how you even got to that point out of what I said. my thing wasnt even about all that, as it more relates to being in a relationship with a woman and deciding to treat her in a certain light. but just remember, that the more you go out of your way to do all sorts of nice, thoughtful things for her, the cheaper it becomes. the more you compliment, the more you agree, the more you open up to her, the more you listen to every little complaint she has, the more sensitive to her you become, the more and more she thinks that youre just really a nice guy, in fact, youre mr dependable. youre always there, and youll always help her. you always adore her and youre always there cheering up when you see her. youre like a little puppy dog.




remember, dependable is "boring." being "nice" is being manipulative. and thats fine, since as a man, you dont even have to do all that. thats NOT what theyre looking for


you go out like shes so special and youre always doing things for her, and youre telling her that your time is hers whenever she wants it. that youll pay for her way. you come across as if you have no backbone, so in turn youre bending over backward so she'll always be happy. youll put your jacket down over a puddle so her shoes dont have to get wet like everybody elses. then you can pick up your soggy coat from the dirty street and watch her go on about her way. but its all good, thats the nice thing to do, to treat her as special. if you want to, go ahead, see how that works out

 

[CrossBones]

women theyre just people, theyre not above or below us. so you dont have to treat them as if theyre more important than you. you cant even have life without one or the other, so already none is more important

check this out, this reminded of something a while back. back when I was first going to university, I had a friend who knew some girls in the caribbean students association. he met this girl at one of the parties and exchanged numbers with her. he finds out she had a man already so he deads that. in like two weeks later, guess what he hears from her in a text? "can I borrow 100 dollars?" thats it, thats all it said. the audacity. she was still with her man too.


so, does anyone think that if my friend gave her the money it would have endeared him to her, and it wouldve turned into something serious? now its all good and that 100 made the difference? or would she just look at this stranger that she barely knows as a sucker? or she would have left her man just because he did her that favor? how important is it to do things for them?


does anyone think that she'd just spend it and stay with her man?

maybe theyd spend it together?

and as I recall, she did not leave her man, despite him not giving her the money she needed ...


I suggest that you handle a woman like its all good and its all regular. you dont go out of your way to do some dumb shyt just because shes a woman. you dont compromise your integrity and you dont step out of your square and make yourself look bad doing things for her. keep your respect because its worth more than you think.


as always, you let her decide if shes feeling you or not, but you cant gift her/lie to her/be nice to her in order to get her to be more into you.


shyt, they say that women know within seconds if she wants you or not. if she decides in less than a minute of just meeting you if she fukks with you, why do all this unnecessary work?


and to add that, if youre in a relationship with her, then she already knows what youre like and shes obviously down with it. so why go out of your way to make her like you or to make her stay? thats the kind of thinking Im talking about. she either does or doesnt fukk with you its not your issue.

 

[kevm3]

I honestly find it preferable to ignore even considering 'what women want' and how they perceive this or that, because if you give them what they really respond to, you'll essentially devolve into a sociopath, and you are sacrificing your character and uniqueness for something that isn't worth much. If a woman starts taking your generosity for granted, after warning her once, you'll have to kick her to the curb.

It's important not to let the pursuit of the opposite sex change who you are. Morphing into some faux bad boy in order to give the ladies 'what they want' is extremely corny. A lot of the reason things are so messed up in this day and age is that women are surrounded by shape-shifting dudes who are willing to always give her 'what she wants', whether it's the so-called non-chalant 'alpha male' facade these PUAs put up or this cater and cuddle, simped out behavior these 'nice guys' utilize. Men are doing all of this shifting and adjusting for what prize? A vagina 27 other guys already dumped inside of ahead of you?

You kick it with some woman, and if she isn't feeling you, you should not start thinking of some magical routines or what you need to do to win her over. Simply think, "Oh well" and move on about your day. Simplicity is truly beautiful, as is not compromising who you are.

 

[Turbulent]

I honestly find it preferable to ignore even considering 'what women want' and how they perceive this or that, because if you give them what they really respond to, you'll essentially devolve into a sociopath, and you are sacrificing your character and uniqueness for something that isn't worth much. If a woman starts taking your generosity for granted, after warning her once, you'll have to kick her to the curb.

It's important not to let the pursuit of the opposite sex change who you are. Morphing into some faux bad boy in order to give the ladies 'what they want' is extremely corny. A lot of the reason things are so messed up in this day and age is that women are surrounded by shape-shifting dudes who are willing to always give her 'what she wants', whether it's the so-called non-chalant 'alpha male' facade these PUAs put up or this cater and cuddle, simped out behavior these 'nice guys' utilize. Men are doing all of this shifting and adjusting for what prize? A vagina 27 other guys already dumped inside of ahead of you?

You kick it with some woman, and if she isn't feeling you, you should not start thinking of some magical routines or what you need to do to win her over. Simply think, "Oh well" and move on about your day. Simplicity is truly beautiful, as is not compromising who you are.

i find this to be the crossroad where a lot of us end up at. this is were you decide if you're willing to sacrifice your soul in order to gain some power over others or if you just want to remain yourself. choosing the lightside vs the darkside of the force. once you start understanding the game on a certain level, it's very tempting to use it for greed especially if you have a lot of anger, frustration, etc. it's a personal choice but the one thing i'll say is that when you lose yourself to gain power, you'll never really be satisfied, you'll always want more, want the next high. you really become a addict and a sociopath. and refinding yourself is hard as well.

 

[MikelArteta]

Men would be shocked how just being themselves would get them far in dealing with women.


If a woman likes you for you, the chemistry and comfortability in dealing with her is much better than some corny act you have to put on.

Dudes are so obsessed with puzzy, they will do anything to get it.

I honestly find it preferable to ignore even considering 'what women want' and how they perceive this or that, because if you give them what they really respond to, you'll essentially devolve into a sociopath, and you are sacrificing your character and uniqueness for something that isn't worth much. If a woman starts taking your generosity for granted, after warning her once, you'll have to kick her to the curb.

It's important not to let the pursuit of the opposite sex change who you are. Morphing into some faux bad boy in order to give the ladies 'what they want' is extremely corny. A lot of the reason things are so messed up in this day and age is that women are surrounded by shape-shifting dudes who are willing to always give her 'what she wants', whether it's the so-called non-chalant 'alpha male' facade these PUAs put up or this cater and cuddle, simped out behavior these 'nice guys' utilize. Men are doing all of this shifting and adjusting for what prize? A vagina 27 other guys already dumped inside of ahead of you?

You kick it with some woman, and if she isn't feeling you, you should not start thinking of some magical routines or what you need to do to win her over. Simply think, "Oh well" and move on about your day. Simplicity is truly beautiful, as is not compromising who you are.

 

[Fatboi1]

is she going to go out of her way to show her appreciation to AAA for what they did, or is just she going to get in her car and drive away?




and if someone else helped her out, what do you think will happen, its all going to turn into a brazzers scene right then and there just because?


is she even going to be sending them candies and flowers for the help?



so did them helping her make them all that special? I think you see my point.



and thats not even a favor or treating some one as theyre special as much as it is aiding someone you know who is in distress. Im not sure how you even got to that point out of what I said. my thing wasnt even about all that, as it more relates to being in a relationship with a woman and deciding to treat her in a certain light. but just remember, that the more you go out of your way to do all sorts of nice, thoughtful things for her, the cheaper it becomes. the more you compliment, the more you agree, the more you open up to her, the more you listen to every little complaint she has, the more sensitive to her you become, the more and more she thinks that youre just really a nice guy, in fact, youre mr dependable. youre always there, and youll always help her. you always adore her and youre always there cheering up when you see her. youre like a little puppy dog.




remember, dependable is "boring." being "nice" is being manipulative. and thats fine, since as a man, you dont even have to do all that. thats NOT what theyre looking for


you go out like shes so special and youre always doing things for her, and youre telling her that your time is hers whenever she wants it. that youll pay for her way. you come across as if you have no backbone, so in turn youre bending over backward so she'll always be happy. youll put your jacket down over a puddle so her shoes dont have to get wet like everybody elses. then you can pick up your soggy coat from the dirty street and watch her go on about her way. but its all good, thats the nice thing to do, to treat her as special. if you want to, go ahead, see how that works out

I was breh. Relax.

 

[CrossBones]

I was breh. Relax.

lol but really though, you know how it goes. women are independent now. we shouldnt patronize them and try to be the hero. its almost insulting. they dont "need a man." so do them a favor, and let them walk on their own. if she cant swim .... you know the rest

 

[Clark Wayne]

yep
i used to buy like 90 dollar jeans, 130 dollar shoes latest fashion, every video game system etc.

now i'd rather cop 3 jeans for 90, cheap shoes from the nike outlet, still got my old ass ps3 i'd rather spend fruggally and travel

I'm getting to be the same way. I've recently been selling all my old shyt on Craigslist. All those old things that hold no value to me anymore, so why keep them. Still got my PS3 and don't plan on upgrading to a PS4 until at the earliest 2016 and by then it will be cheaper. Stopped buying games I will hardly ever play.

If I catch a movie, it will usually be a matinee and where I'm at it's only $5. I've never been that into fashion and never felt the need to keep up with the latest trends. I'm only in my early twenties but I've already realized there is so much more valuable stuff I could spend my money on.

 

[MikelArteta]

I cut cable off as well
Just have Netflix and watch whatber TV shows I missed a day later.

I'd rather travel than buy a ps3, or VIP up in the club

I'm getting to be the same way. I've recently been selling all my old shyt on Craigslist. All those old things that hold no value to me anymore, so why keep them. Still got my PS3 and don't plan on upgrading to a PS4 until at the earliest 2016 and by then it will be cheaper. Stopped buying games I will hardly ever play.

If I catch a movie, it will usually be a matinee and where I'm at it's only $5. I've never been that into fashion and never felt the need to keep up with the latest trends. I'm only in my early twenties but I've already realized there is so much more valuable stuff I could spend my money on.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Ohene]

That's pretty much the crux of the matter. Women keep saying they can't find a decent dude to marry because all black men are gay, in prison or aren't making enough money, but for some odd reason we're not having a population crisis. Some how, some way these women are ending up pregnant still. So what does that tell you? Either they are lying about not behing able to find 'decent dudes', or they are allowing low-lifes and losers to impregnate them.

You ever notice how it is always at the age of 30 that these women want to find this decent dude to settle down with, which is the age where their fertility starts to decline, their looks start to fade, and they probably already have 2 or 3 kids?

Here's a secret man. The more you give a woman what she says she wants, the less happy she gets. I mean we've given women their so-called equal rights and more freedom and they are actually LESS happy.

When it comes to human decency, don't ever let some broad rob you of yours. Just be very skeptical of your dealings with them... and this is exactly why you never toss your real homies to the side over some broad. There's a lot of dudes that toss their potnas aside once they got them a lil woman, and as soon as that woman does them wrong, they try to come back. Real talk, it's difficult to raise a family... which is why you may have to end up leaving this country to find a more suitable culture. This culture is poisonous towards family-rearing.

I personally think its the more you give a woman what she wants...the more she wants lol.

You got to bring them into a state of complacency; satisfaction. Make them feel lucky enough to take what they can get from you (especially when it comes to time/emotion)

 

[Ohene]

i find this to be the crossroad where a lot of us end up at. this is were you decide if you're willing to sacrifice your soul in order to gain some power over others or if you just want to remain yourself. choosing the lightside vs the darkside of the force. once you start understanding the game on a certain level, it's very tempting to use it for greed especially if you have a lot of anger, frustration, etc. it's a personal choice but the one thing i'll say is that when you lose yourself to gain power, you'll never really be satisfied, you'll always want more, want the next high. you really become a addict and a sociopath. and refinding yourself is hard as well.

very true

 

[EQ.]

I personally think its the more you give a woman what she wants...the more she wants lol.

You got to bring them into a state of complacency; satisfaction. Make them feel lucky enough to take what they can get from you (especially when it comes to time/emotion)

yup.which circles back to the whole focusing on yourself mantra. the universe is at times a play on polarity,the more you chase females the less likely you'll win em over but if trust yourself to focus on self growth/improvement,you will give off the most peculiar aura. A supreme sense of calm and comfort in your own skin,which in my opinion is more valuable than any swag,car,jewelry,vagina out here.

 

[Road20]

jesus you sound like an emotional ass female in this post nikka, typed out some ole "she dont appreciate me " soundin shyt, then you had to nerve to say "i want to get back at her " soundin like a woman scorned :smhcraig:

you're an adult, get over it and move the fukk on billions of bytches walkin around in you in here cryin over ONE


just remembered why i dont visit this thread that often anymore if a bytch aint tryna be with you, then aint gon happen, no amount of "good gestures" are gonna get her for you, thinking otherwise is delusional and childish

Damn nikka are you always this abrasive.

 

[T-K-G]

Damn nikka are you always this abrasive.

i am online and in person people appreciate the honesty tho