Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rich Spirit]

There was this chick who works out at my gym and recently started working there. Pretty brown skin and with a nice tall athletic body. She always talking to me and such.

One day when she was working ,we were talking for like 10 minutes I ended up giving her my number when it started getting busy at the gym. Did I mess up by giving instead of getting the number? My phone was in the car. She never hit me up. Then today she tried to convo with me and I'm just giving her lukewarm convo. She asked what's wrong and I gave her some bs and KIM.

So according to the article I'm supposed to ask her why she didn't contact me and then get her number?

My approach I just forgetting the whole ordeal is a defeatist attitude?

Chime in your opinions....

Don't show that you're bothered that she didn't hit you up. There's a lot of reasons that she probably didn't hit you up, but you shouldn't keep those things in your mind. If you see her around say whats up, chop it up a lil bit then get on with your workout and if she wants to talk to you outside the gym, then she'll hit you up.

Honestly i wouldn't ask her why you aint call me.

 

[Jesus]

So I played it right. Just saw the article's perspective interesting. In the past I'd be a pursuing ass nikka with decent success but I'm older and know my worth. I'd rather start up with a new chick than chase with the current one. Funk being the thirsty dude who she talks about with her girls.

 

[kevm3]

i agree
I think men are quick to "next" aka walk away because they have dealt with enough women in life to realize if a woman is distant or showing the signs to walk away with your head held high.

I know for me I'm 29, i've messed with enough women, and the majority follow the same script, if they flake, to busy, the txt and phone calls stop, there getting distant. I know its time for me to prepare for teh end.

After the first few times the hope of her "coming around", she's just "going through things everythign will be fine shortly" are just

And yep while your doing everything, playing these back and forth games there is a guy out there who can jus send a 2am text i'm coming over and have her in the palm of his eyes

That's the problem with a lot of those PUAs. They elevate sex to such a high level, that they are willing to do anything and suffer anything to get it. If you are truly a prize, why reward your time and effort to a woman who shows no interest in you or is highly disrespectful? Maybe she hits you down the line with some sympathy attention because you're so persistent or because you're a fall back option and she's in a drought and unable to deal with the dudes she really wants to deal with, but are you so low value that you will accept anything you can get?

Here's something from the article

A Don Juan is always in complete control of his emotions. He doesn’t get mad when a girl fails to return his call. He doesn’t become depressed when she breaks the date. He doesn’t get jealous when she flirts with some other guy. He doesn’t become irate when she doesn’t show up at the restaurant or she shows up late.

He doesn’t react in any of these ways because he EXPECTS these little annoyances to occur. He understands that women are flaky. Women are moody. Women are illogical and very inconsistent. (Especially women with low to moderate initial interest.)

So these broads can ignore calls, break dates, ignore texts, say they'll come out but not show up, and yet they still get a chance? What's the incentive for that woman to ever act better then? There is none. As you get older, you will realize that this broad that is icing you out is enthusiastic about another dude, and she won't break dates with him, nor exhibit any of that sort of behavior. She'll rush over there... even if she does manage to be with you for a little while. You are over here spending months suffering for this broad, putting up with her disrespect, you get her attention for a while, but then when that dude she really wants comes around, she's gone at the speed of light, so ultimately, what did you put all that effort forth for?

Why accept the B-level or C-level experience if you really believe yourself to be the prize? I'd much rather spend my time and efforts on that woman who is giving me the A-level experience and is enthusiastic for my attention. I agree with him in not getting irate or emotional, but my solution is to simply move on and can the uninterested girl. If you truly feel yourself a prize, you won't have to convince someone and beg for them to accept you or accept any price less than your worth.He's essentially saying the attention of these women are so valuable, it's worth putting up with getting treated like trash in order to be in their presence, which is pretty much how a lot of these women act towards these dudes that treat them like trash. We call them out on it, so why would you willingly subject yourself to the same level of disrespect? Maybe you'll be able to change her? lol.

In summation, you may get more quantity by suffering the bad behavior of women, but me personally, I'm much more interested in quality. Dealing with the opposite sex should be a pleasurable experience, not something akin to going to work. Just about every man here should have experienced the difference between an interested woman and an uninterested one. The former is so much easier to deal with

 

[DaRealness]

I'll expand on it later, but that 'Don Juan' article for the most part is a load of bollocks.

 

[Turbulent]

i respectfully disagree with the article. if a man has that many options like the article suggests, why would he spend a minute more pursuing a woman making him pass tests when the next one is waiting for a chance to ride his dikk? if she's making him pass tests, doesn't that imply that he has to prove his worthiness of the p*ssy? that means the p*ssy might be above him. why would a chick want to fukk with a dude below her?

 

[Motife43]

i respectfully disagree with the article. if a man has that many options like the article suggests, why would he spend a minute more pursuing a woman making him pass tests when the next one is waiting for a chance to ride his dikk? if she's making him pass tests, doesn't that imply that he has to prove his worthiness of the p*ssy? that means the p*ssy might be above him. why would a chick want to fukk with a dude below her?

I'm with all of yall who disagreed with the article. It had some good pointers, but there's no need to deal with BS with the amount of options out here. I can see dealing with stuff, if you like the chick a lot and feel you can Christian Okoye your way thru the obstacles, go for it. But, then again that's totally against what it means to be a man who stands his ground and knows exactly what he wants. GYBB (Get ya balls back, word to Dante Nero) brehs! Otherwise,and know there's other fish in the sea, that is.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't mean to be harsh but whatever. I'd advise every man here not to wife, marry, get serious with a woman from a broken family. I can look back at all my relationships, the lengths, the dramas, the disrespects and the majority of them were women from broken families. These women don't know how to love a man or be in a functional non drama filled relationship, because they have never seen it themselves.

I've been around the block with women and almost all of these ones shared the same characteristics, most were hot. All were promiscuous, all dated "horrible men" in the past, ala drug dealers, abusers, cheaters, guys who treated em like dung but ALL STAYED, mostly all had a abortion/abortions on their record, did drugs, fathers were not in their lives at all and they had no respect and were emotional disturbed (depressed, etc.). If they can't respect the man who gave birth to them how do you think they would respect you? None of these broads will submit to a man unless you cause unearth amount of drama. None of these broads would know a good man if it hit em in the face.

if you want drama, stress, emotional up and highs then jump right in, I refuse to be some white knight, or rescuer, you can be that guy who sits around and builds them up, they will kick you to the curb as you remind them of when they were down and some next dude will say thanks for all you did ill take it from here.

As I get older broken women are into the single mother category for me :kony:, some women accept broken men because women like to fix men, they want to blabber to the wolfpack how he was a cheater, player, abuser but her love bla bla changed him, they want to tame the wild stallion. And on the other side most women want a man who has everything in order, you ask broads and there like oh he has to have a job, his own place, good money etc. etc. etc., so why must we men accept these broken ass b*tches that bring nothing but stress to the table?:

 

[EQ.]

Don't show that you're bothered that she didn't hit you up. There's a lot of reasons that she probably didn't hit you up, but you shouldn't keep those things in your mind. If you see her around say whats up, chop it up a lil bit then get on with your workout and if she wants to talk to you outside the gym, then she'll hit you up.

Honestly i wouldn't ask her why you aint call me.

Yep. Honestly, i hand my number to females instead of taking their numbers. As long as you make your intentions known/clear the absolute worst thing she can do is not call Saves me so much time because if she does call/text it's understood that we are doing things my way and not her goofy bird brain way.

 

[Fatboi1]

My ex is making me weak That peanut butter drop skin looking so damn right. she's right downstairs now, her room is good now and she been cool with me touchy Feely with her. She let me grab her, play in her hair, hug her and.she be asking me to kiss her wheni come in the house to which i kind of ignore.

 

[karim]

My ex is making me weak That peanut butter drop skin looking so damn right. she's right downstairs now, her room is good now and she been cool with me touchy Feely with her. She let me grab her, play in her hair, hug her and.she be asking me to kiss her wheni come in the house to which i kind of ignore.

get manipulated by your exes brehs

 

[Fatboi1]

get manipulated by your exes brehs

she not getting nothing from me but hard dikk and bubblegum.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

My ex is making me weak That peanut butter drop skin looking so damn right. she's right downstairs now, her room is good now and she been cool with me touchy Feely with her. She let me grab her, play in her hair, hug her and.she be asking me to kiss her wheni come in the house to which i kind of ignore.

Don't do it, man.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Just thinking back and @the stuff u do when u moving to fast and thinking with your dikk.

 

[onelastdeath]

Just thinking back and @the stuff u do when u moving to fast and thinking with your dikk.

 

[360dagod]

Just thinking back and @the stuff u do when u moving to fast and thinking with your dikk.

When the hormones start flowing, shyt gets real hectic..

Pre-nut clog and post nut clarity