Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DANJ!]

I've realized over time that if you ever want shyt to work, just look at your social media. Women will be in a relationship for years with the same nikka, and the only reason you know that is her status updates, which are 80% negative and 20% decent. If you're heading toward or over 30, this is what you have to be with any woman who is at the "I got baggage" age. Otherwise, your best bet is to meet a cool ass 21 year old who hasn't gone thru enough bullshyt yet. fukkin' around with a chick over 30, this is what you have to contend with:

*The fact that she's been treated like shyt numerous times and still hasn't learned her lesson.
*The party/club life which is still intriguing because she doesn't wanna believe she's gettin' old.
*That nikka who she swears is a piece of shyt/disrespectful/she can't stand... who's only a call/text away.
*The words that will never match the actions, because it's easier to say she's tired of games than to refrain from playing games herself.

You gotta be that nikka she complains about constantly... cause that's the only nikka that seems to keep his woman.

I've learned all from trial and error... every time I've started to get genuinely interested and expressed that interest, shyt has gone all downhill from there. The one time I decided to do that "act like you don't give a fukk, it'll make her like you more" was with a 23 year old who really just wanted me to be good to her. Because unlike these ones in my age group, she hasn't been plagued by years of emotional wreckage... yet. Now I couldn't get her back if I tried, so I'm out here dealin' with these old-ass idiots who only react to apathy.

 

[Kenny West]

I've realized over time that if you ever want shyt to work, just look at your social media. Women will be in a relationship for years with the same nikka, and the only reason you know that is her status updates, which are 80% negative and 20% decent. If you're heading toward or over 30, this is what you have to be with any woman who is at the "I got baggage" age. Otherwise, your best bet is to meet a cool ass 21 year old who hasn't gone thru enough bullshyt yet. fukkin' around with a chick over 30, this is what you have to contend with:

*The fact that she's been treated like shyt numerous times and still hasn't learned her lesson.
*The party/club life which is still intriguing because she doesn't wanna believe she's gettin' old.
*That nikka who she swears is a piece of shyt/disrespectful/she can't stand... who's only a call/text away.
*The words that will never match the actions, because it's easier to say she's tired of games than to refrain from playing games herself.

You gotta be that nikka she complains about constantly... cause that's the only nikka that seems to keep his woman.

I've learned all from trial and error... every time I've started to get genuinely interested and expressed that interest, shyt has gone all downhill from there. The one time I decided to do that "act like you don't give a fukk, it'll make her like you more" was with a 23 year old who really just wanted me to be good to her. Because unlike these ones in my age group, she hasn't been plagued by years of emotional wreckage... yet. Now I couldn't get her back if I tried, so I'm out here dealin' with these old-ass idiots who only react to apathy.

I peeped the bolded back in High School and haven't looked back since.

Women in a relationship with a good man: Disappears from social media for a good 3-4 months only to re-appear once she's mad at him/after their first fight. Then they make up and all is quiet until one day "Relationship status: Single"

Women in relationship with bad dude: bytches about him 5/7 days of the week. Positive status every so often after they made up. Spends most of her time trying to catch him cheating and remains faithful.

And @ underlined: Trill trill talk.. I learned that from trial and error myself. Statements of intent/interest and poof, gone with the wind.

 

[MikelArteta]

I've realized over time that if you ever want shyt to work, just look at your social media. Women will be in a relationship for years with the same nikka, and the only reason you know that is her status updates, which are 80% negative and 20% decent. If you're heading toward or over 30, this is what you have to be with any woman who is at the "I got baggage" age. Otherwise, your best bet is to meet a cool ass 21 year old who hasn't gone thru enough bullshyt yet. fukkin' around with a chick over 30, this is what you have to contend with:

*The fact that she's been treated like shyt numerous times and still hasn't learned her lesson.
*The party/club life which is still intriguing because she doesn't wanna believe she's gettin' old.
*That nikka who she swears is a piece of shyt/disrespectful/she can't stand... who's only a call/text away.
*The words that will never match the actions, because it's easier to say she's tired of games than to refrain from playing games herself.

You gotta be that nikka she complains about constantly... cause that's the only nikka that seems to keep his woman.

I've learned all from trial and error... every time I've started to get genuinely interested and expressed that interest, shyt has gone all downhill from there. The one time I decided to do that "act like you don't give a fukk, it'll make her like you more" was with a 23 year old who really just wanted me to be good to her. Because unlike these ones in my age group, she hasn't been plagued by years of emotional wreckage... yet. Now I couldn't get her back if I tried, so I'm out here dealin' with these old-ass idiots who only react to apathy.

if you find the rare woman then this doesn't apply but for the majority yup. The rare woman you can just be yourself and it will click and you don't have to play games to raise her emotional interest.

but for the majority yup exactly what you said @kevm3 has said before its "better to be a womans problem"

Many women just want to be that woman who tames a bad boy, or a cheater etc., if you sit back and listen to women they will complain about their exes, you ever notice its never the good guy ex they had and trust me they had a good ex, its always the cheater who they dated for over 3 years, the guy with no ambition but they kept running back to.

I'm at the point in my life i refuse to change for anyone though, if the interest level dies so be it, hell i've been engaged before and been through everything with women, a broad being distant and me cutting her off won't bother me in the latest bit.

 

[MikelArteta]

welp blocked her on fb/tinder deleted her number and textes.

Took me 2 weeks. I like if I can't get it popping within 2 weeks then its

Got 2 new targets tho off tinder and off work already in the chamber now i just got to start the process and while im at it still get more of em to get in the chamber in case these 2 don't come through.

smart
the number 1 thing as aman who have to have is as kevm3 would say a quick boot

if a woman isn't showing interest etc. of you in the beginning stop wasting your time.

when a woman likes you and wants tos ee you and spend time with you , you literally don't have to do nothing.

 

[DANJ!]

if you find the rare woman then this doesn't apply but for the majority yup. The rare woman you can just be yourself and it will click and you don't have to play games to raise her emotional interest.

but for the majority yup exactly what you said @kevm3 has said before its "better to be a womans problem"

Many women just want to be that woman who tames a bad boy, or a cheater etc., if you sit back and listen to women they will complain about their exes, you ever notice its never the good guy ex they had and trust me they had a good ex, its always the cheater who they dated for over 3 years, the guy with no ambition but they kept running back to.

I'm at the point in my life i refuse to change for anyone though, if the interest level dies so be it, hell i've been engaged before and been through everything with women, a broad being distant and me cutting her off won't bother me in the latest bit.

Yep... I realized that once she knows you like her, it's dead. She wants them games, the challenge to see if she can convert a nikka who doesn't give a fukk to actually care. I know a girl I was chillin' with for a second, known her for years, and she had an ex that she swore she'd never fukk with again. He sent her a pic of another girl suckin' his dikk which infuriated her and completely killed any feelings she had for him... it was the ultimate disrespect and she could never even be his friend again...

Guess what...

Even the foulest shyt in the world might be just what you need for these damaged broads. Because it's a boost to their own ego that someone can treat her like shyt, but her p*ssy just might get a nikka to stay the night. Even if it's just that night. Then it's back to weeks of drama and competition with other women to get his full attention, which she's never gonna get.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep... I realized that once she knows you like her, there's no challenge. She wants them games, the challenge to see if she can convert a nikka who doesn't give a fukk to actually care. I know a girl I was chillin' with for a second, known her for years, and she had an ex that she swore she'd never fukk with again. He sent her a pic of another girl suckin' his dikk which infuriated her and completely killed any feelings she had for him... it was the ultimate disrespect and she could never even be his friend again...

Guess what...

Even the foulest shyt in the world might be just what you need for these damaged broads. Because it's a shot to their own ego that someone can treat them like shyt, but her p*ssy just might get a nikka to stay the night. Even if it's just that night. Then it's back to weeks of drama and competition with other women to get a nikka's full attention that she's never gonna get.

i always when women cut off a guy, its just their emotions talking.

I have no problem cutting off people no matter how hot they are, or are history and never looking back, for most women they can't do it. Like i mentioned my last ex got distant with me and disrespected me I cut her off, this was months and months ago, just the other day she sent me a text that i deleted. Women can't fathom that a guy saying no mas and not looking back because they are so used to controlling dudes with their vagina etc.

If there is one thing I developed over the years due to experiences and wisdom is to never ever look back, there are to many women out there.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's why i always say if a woman is breaking up with you, just agree with everything and never contact her again or reply to her texts etc.

I think we just need some space - yep your right

I'm just going through alot in life and I just need to be single I hope you understand - oh totally i agree

its me not you - yep your right

You're a great guy but its just not working - oh i agree

we are probably better as friends - You're right (even though i never stay friends with exes)

women expect you to fight for her even when they break up with you, to validate in their mind that they are special and were worth it as a girlfriend. When I was younger and dumber, i'd be like but I love you, but what we have is special bla bla

And then I got older and wiser and smarter and every time it could be weeks, months or even years ill get a text or a email, or when i had fb a fb message fishing for how im doing, or how they made a mistake .

 

[kevm3]

I've realized over time that if you ever want shyt to work, just look at your social media. Women will be in a relationship for years with the same nikka, and the only reason you know that is her status updates, which are 80% negative and 20% decent. If you're heading toward or over 30, this is what you have to be with any woman who is at the "I got baggage" age. Otherwise, your best bet is to meet a cool ass 21 year old who hasn't gone thru enough bullshyt yet. fukkin' around with a chick over 30, this is what you have to contend with:

*The fact that she's been treated like shyt numerous times and still hasn't learned her lesson.
*The party/club life which is still intriguing because she doesn't wanna believe she's gettin' old.
*That nikka who she swears is a piece of shyt/disrespectful/she can't stand... who's only a call/text away.
*The words that will never match the actions, because it's easier to say she's tired of games than to refrain from playing games herself.

You gotta be that nikka she complains about constantly... cause that's the only nikka that seems to keep his woman.

I've learned all from trial and error... every time I've started to get genuinely interested and expressed that interest, shyt has gone all downhill from there. The one time I decided to do that "act like you don't give a fukk, it'll make her like you more" was with a 23 year old who really just wanted me to be good to her. Because unlike these ones in my age group, she hasn't been plagued by years of emotional wreckage... yet. Now I couldn't get her back if I tried, so I'm out here dealin' with these old-ass idiots who only react to apathy.

That's what's so backwards about modern dating. If you want to enjoy yourself, it's like you can't even enjoy yourself. Women love that apathy and you acting like they are irrelevant. Even if you are feigning that to keep them interested, you're essentially neutering your emotions. Who really wants to treat their S/O like they don't matter? But if you don't, she gets bored and disappears. It's like you have to keep the drama circus going at all times and act like your woman is easily replaceable to keep her around. How is that fun or entertaining? That's why I say focus on other things, because you nearly have to be a sociopath to keep women interested in this day and age. I don't have the energy or desire to be a drama clown, nor to keep someone around me who I have to treat with indifference if not contempt to keep them acting decently.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I wanna talk about something that has been on my mind . I've be thinking about how talking to women that it's ...easy to get the vagina from is detrimental to a man. I feel as men we don't get know better from situations like that and it a chance you could get the women pregnant and I know nobody wants that. I just have the mind set that iron sharpens iron and you have to talk to those women that is some form of challenge . This make your conversation as a man a lot better . I see in this thread is guys are scared to take a L but this says more about you maturity than it dose about the women . Its plenty of men in this thread that could learn to communicate better not just with women but just overall I know I could. It's something I ginuwinley wanna get better at . So if you talk to women and be out and about go approach the women you scared to death to approach only thing she can say is no or I'm taken . Make sure you observe your ego and always strive to see were you can get better as a man . Iron sharpens Irons brehs.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Take the class... not to learn how to 'spit game at broads', but more because you've identified a weakness in yourself, which is not being as outspoken as you need to be. Life is about way more than pulling women, and as a man, if you see a weakness in yourself, approach it directly. the side benefit is that you will also be more successful with women due to your increased conversational skills.

That's a slept on gem

 

[TheArchitect]

smart
the number 1 thing as aman who have to have is as kevm3 would say a quick boot

if a woman isn't showing interest etc. of you in the beginning stop wasting your time.

when a woman likes you and wants tos ee you and spend time with you , you literally don't have to do nothing.

If I don't have one good attribute towards women, it's THAT. I was actually known for being the "cut-em-off-quick" type for a period of time. It was even looked at as somewhat of a flaw, since that may have lost me some p*ssy due to not "playing" the corny-ass game. Whatever...

 

[MikelArteta]

If I don't have one good attribute towards women, it's THAT. I was actually known for being the "cut-em-off-quick" type for a period of time. It was even looked at as somewhat of a flaw, since that may have lost me some p*ssy due to not "playing" the corny-ass game. Whatever...

its the one thing i have developed throughout the years. Most men at a womans call because of puzzy will take the disrespect and go back etc.

I refuse to, chicks may even label me as the "nice guy" bla bla but when its time your phone may ring or light up, you may get a new message but it wont be from me

 

[kevm3]

exactly. he ain't missing out. it's all about respect and peace of mind at the end of the day.

 

[EnzoG]

Its slowly starting to get to the point where general conversation turns to downright sex talk for me at my job I have a few coworkers who love touching and flirting with me today I asked this chick when she was getting her car back she told me she got it back today. I jokingly asked her when are we going to hang next thing you know I'm running my finger across her boobs she told me to put her number in my phone but I never did. Before I left today another female whom I consider a cool friend started rubbing on my stomach while I was leaving I did the same to her she started left saying how soft her body was i asked was her ass soft she told me to touch it which I did idk what potential I've stumbled upon given I'm awkward but damn it weird how general conversation can turn into sex talk

 

[New Username]

Spoiler

I need some advice.

I met this girl at my bro college my freshman year. She was a senior at the time and graduated the next semester. Our conversations were brief and lasted no longer than a couple minutes. Fast forwarding to the present. My bro told me she asked how I was and what I been up to. I found her Facebook, added her and she messaged me(she initiated the conversation). Her first message was her saying she was wondering who (blank name) was and seen it was me and asked me about how was I, what I was doing, do I still visit her old school etc.

We exchanged a couple messages so far. She 22/23 on her way to becoming a full time elementary school teacher. She a Christian, don't drink, and mostly listen to gospel and rnb.

How should I play this out? I'm looking for some cues to see where our convo would lead to and whether she is into me or not. I'm kind of oblivious at cues sometimes.

I'm not necessarily trying to smash. I want her, she has potential and rare compared to the hoes I deal with on a daily basis