Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

if you were to have treated her like shyt, she would have been begging to see you...sad but true

That's why I said if you give women what they want, you'll end up acting like a sociopath. Women reward doggish men and then complain about them later in their 30s when their game is falling off and they need to wrap up an emotional and resource provider. The dating scene here in the West is largely screwed up. If you find that one woman you don't need to do circus tricks with, lock that up and never look back.

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly. If they come, cool. If they go, no big deal. I'm going to be enjoying life either way.

And yeah, that "I'm so busy" and they disappear for a week or two is one of those typical signs. It's amazing how similar women act and how accurate the signs are. These broads are never that busy. This is the age of communication and they always have their smart phones by them. The sad thing is they just up and go busy for seemingly no reason. You treat them well, they get bored, meet some other guy, and then they come up with the I'm so busy line.

That's why it's best not to even worry about them. You never can really predict what they will do next, and it seems like the only way to keep them loyal for a little while is to create that circus atmosphere filled with drama, which I'm not keen on doing. I remember talking to my homeboy's cousin, and he even told me he isn't in a relationship with them because the girls never stay with one dude.

yup thats the key no stress. To me it's like planning a roadtrip, i'm headed to my destination anyways, you want to come along and join me towards my destination cool, you want to hop off midway cool, i'm still heading towards my destination regardless. And that's the way I take it with women, they may be excited etc. at the beginning but then they get distant in the car for example and want it sure see ya, no lokoing back no turning back, maybe another chick will join me from the next stop to the end maybe none will, no need to worry.

I'll never be that guy stressing, hoping, putting all my stock in a female.


And yep women always have their smartphones on them, if you are important to them they will reply, they will make time for you, its so easy as you get older and deal with more women to pick up the signs when they get distant. Anytime a chick gets distant its bushes, her being distant shows she's not feeling you like she did before, that she's questioning her feelings and how to let ou down easily. I remember the last girl i dated earlier this year getting distant with me, i picked up on it. the small little signs, i'd call and right away she was oh im busy, can i call you back and she never did. etc. all i did is say , cut the cord, of course thats when they come bck and act like they did nothing wrong .

And yep if you do the whole drama game leveling her emotions up and down, giving her highs like a drug she always comes back to,.

 

[kevm3]

yup thats the key no stress. To me it's like planning a roadtrip, i'm headed to my destination anyways, you want to come along and join me towards my destination cool, you want to hop off midway cool, i'm still heading towards my destination regardless. And that's the way I take it with women, they may be excited etc. at the beginning but then they get distant in the car for example and want it sure see ya, no lokoing back no turning back, maybe another chick will join me from the next stop to the end maybe none will, no need to worry.

I'll never be that guy stressing, hoping, putting all my stock in a female.


And yep women always have their smartphones on them, if you are important to them they will reply, they will make time for you, its so easy as you get older and deal with more women to pick up the signs when they get distant. Anytime a chick gets distant its bushes, her being distant shows she's not feeling you like she did before, that she's questioning her feelings and how to let ou down easily. I remember the last girl i dated earlier this year getting distant with me, i picked up on it. the small little signs, i'd call and right away she was oh im busy, can i call you back and she never did. etc. all i did is say , cut the cord, of course thats when they come bck and act like they did nothing wrong .

And yep if you do the whole drama game leveling her emotions up and down, giving her highs like a drug she always comes back to,.

Exactly, pure waste of time playing into their little game. I'll let the next guy go through the rodeo circus with them. It's not worth arbitrarily adding stress into my life just to keep the company of someone who has a mercenary mindset and is ready to leave at a moment's notice. I agree with you also that you got to punt them when they start playing the busy game. They're already making plans to jump ship if they haven't already, but they'll keep you in the background just in case the move they make isn't going to work out. Maybe in a week she'll come all rejuvenated and cool again, but once they're ready to make a jump on you, 9 times out of 10 it never goes back to how it was, even if she comes back a little while. She's ready for that next thrill and she'll go 'busy' again when the next thrill comes along.

 

[Rich Spirit]

My girl has been acting distant lately

 

[Jesus]

Ain't nothing to cut that bytch off

 

[kevm3]

this is an old school song, but it tells you what the deal is:


"If I'm your lover, won't you make a little time for me."

Honestly, if men started giving women the boot more often when they pull that busy trash, then they'd stop pulling it.

 

[Two Stacks]

I just came to post that wife zone shyt

shyt too accurate....I died at women named Tiffany.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Appealing to women’s logic and relying on deductive reasoning to sort it out is the calling card of a Beta mind. There is nothing more anti-seductive for women than appealing to her reason. Arousal, attraction, sexual tension, subcommunication of desire, all happen indirectly and below the social surface for women.

It’s not that women are incapable of reasoning (hypergamy is one logical bytch) or are crippled by their emotion-based hindbrains, it’s that if you’re asking her how to be more attractive you don’t Get It. It’s in the doing, not the asking.

-Rational male website

 

[MikelArteta]

funny thing my ex just sent me a text "hey"

just deleted it

 

[360dagod]

funny thing my ex just sent me a text "hey"

just deleted it

...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Marriage is no insulation from the sexual marketplace.

The advantages of being single and indefinitely dating non-exclusively (Spinning Plates) or stringing along a series of short term monogamous affairs far outweigh the risks of a lifetime of marriage in which no man should ever expect sex in terms of either genuine desire or even uninspired obligation sex.

In other words, men are entirely powerless to effect any degree of control over their sex lives under the auspices of a now feminine-primary definition of marriage. The only condition under which men have any degree of exercisable control over the their sex life is remaining single and retaining the threat-point of exiting any relationship when that satisfaction declines.

Women fundamentally lack the capacity to appreciate the risks a man must assume in unilaterally relinquishing any degree of control he might’ve been able to realize over his own sex life – and never to expect he could ever even have that control.



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[MikelArteta]

Women arent used to rejection, guys keeping their word etc.

My ex texting me just reminded me of that, I aijt talked to her in months, now I'm supposed to just say hey how are you like everything is ok

When I'm done I'm done, its a privilege and a honor to conversate , spend time with Me once you lodr that privilege well to bad

 

[Bless't]

Marriage is no insulation from the sexual marketplace.

The advantages of being single and indefinitely dating non-exclusively (Spinning Plates) or stringing along a series of short term monogamous affairs far outweigh the risks of a lifetime of marriage in which no man should ever expect sex in terms of either genuine desire or even uninspired obligation sex.

In other words, men are entirely powerless to effect any degree of control over their sex lives under the auspices of a now feminine-primary definition of marriage. The only condition under which men have any degree of exercisable control over the their sex life is remaining single and retaining the threat-point of exiting any relationship when that satisfaction declines.

Women fundamentally lack the capacity to appreciate the risks a man must assume in unilaterally relinquishing any degree of control he might’ve been able to realize over his own sex life – and never to expect he could ever even have that control.



This has been brought to you by the good guy over at the rational male website...pure piff over there .

Thanks for sharing that quote. That was very well put. This is exactly what I think men should be doing nowadays. If you truly come across "the one" and lock her up, cool. If not, have fun outchea, multi task and balance a roster. I hate using that term but keep a revolving door of cool, decent women and dont stress unnecessary bullshyt.

 

[Gus Money]

how long you've been together?:

been busy lately in summer ehh

A little less than a year, about 11 months. We're long distance for the summer and she's been going out with coworkers a lot recently. She moves down here for a new job in a couple weeks so we will see what happens. I'm going to make sure I keep my dignity intact no matter what happens.

 

[MikelArteta]

In my experience many toked a female wants space there is someone new in the picture

A little less than a year, about 11 months. We're long distance for the summer and she's been going out with coworkers a lot recently. She moves down here for a new job in a couple weeks so we will see what happens. I'm going to make sure I keep my dignity intact no matter what happens.