Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was the type of guy that for better or for worse Im always in my head . Since I was young I always liked to know why thing are the way that they are ...and are there any possible solutions?

Its the same with women from the time I was in highschool one question always botherd me "why cant I get the women I want instead of just settling for who likes me and what dose it take?" (as ive gotten older in my experience these women that "just like you have something wrong with them and ive had bad experience with these women). I a real nonchalant guy you could sit in a room with me and you want know if I like you or not .

When it comes to communicating I can be harsh Ive been know to cutt women up with my words I like honesty shyt ...I really do. Ill say things like ..."You dont have any children or you DIDNT keep any children" So I can say ive probaly talked my way out of dealings with many women cause I just w a nt be righteous and me looking in the mirror and being honest about myself and my life means more to me than most in this thread would understsnd. On the flip side I like to make people laugh and im always up for a philosophical conversation that can stimulate my mind and make me think outside the box.

Now days it all about self improvement and yes that means even with women . The hardest part for me to swallow is looking in a womens eyes and her not knowing what a man truly goes threw to be desirable not just with women but his overall life.
 

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Approaching women is much like working in sales. Not being outcome dependent is one of the main keys to success. Guys are visually stimulated vs women who generally have to be "activated". What I mean by that is you have to get her emotionally involved in the conversation. Much like people who buy stuff generally have an emotional attachment to the product. In fact, why do you think the women's sections of stores are always bigger than the men's?

Building non-attachment to an outcome comes from having hobbies, interests, etc outside of women. When you're actually doing something, the less you care about what others think about you. At the same time, in order to get women you have to speak to women. Your initial goal if you're starting out shouldn't be to sleep with her the same night. Take a few weeks and just strike up conversations with random women. Act like you're looking for a place to eat, complement her on what she is wearing, practice with a female cashier, etc.

Another huge key is to be physical in all your interactions. I know for many this is the hardest part, but it's a must. If you're not comfortable you can start off by just doing a high five for example when she tells you something about her self. Even if you're not really that interested in it, it will begin the "activation" process.

Lastly read up on masculine and feminine energy. We're all ruled by the same yin yang forces. Obviously women are more on the feminine side, but both sides exist in every person man or women. There is a sort of balancing act going on and being totally ruled by one side to the exclusion of the other can cause problems. When you see charismatic "likable" people, usually there is a harmony internally in them.
 
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^^^^^^^^^^ Thats what im talkin bout guys coming in here with in depth insight and some form of solution that guys can work on . To me we all can use a tune up. Practice in activities that dont involve women even with men. Ive alwaysed had this theory that you first have to understand men , then yourself ...then women :manny:
 
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Ayo brehs can a woman sense of humor reveal some clues to her personality?

My question to you is when did women need to be funny ? :sas1: IMO most men dont register a women personality till after sex. Then we care if she can read ...what are her future plans ...why anit she married if she such a catch ...etc
 
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See me being 30 ive learned that 9/10 when women jokes its shot at men. Not like comedian funny men at times can be comedian funny . Women jokes a lot of times come from making fun of men and what is perceived to be what a man is lacking ...from my experience . Also women being funny is just another way of playin you ...but I could be wrong I just havent met a women that is THAT funny :manny: Were im laughting at her jokes.
 

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finally told the girl i was messing with early in the year, that she disrespected me and i have no intention of me continuing one word replies, of course she poured her heart out bla bla but to bad,
 

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See me being 30 ive learned that 9/10 when women jokes its shot at men. Not like comedian funny men at times can be comedian funny . Women jokes a lot of times come from making fun of men and what is perceived to be what a man is lacking ...from my experience . Also women being funny is just another way of playin you ...but I could be wrong I just havent met a women that is THAT funny :manny: Were im laughting at her jokes.
I'm 30 as well,I took it as a shot.She even admit it was "shade" and the whole thing started because I said I rather watch educational programming then reality tv. She said "nobody watches that boring stuff" I said I ain't everybody.Full moon got women acting crazy
 
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