Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

One of the problems I see with a lot of men is EGO. If your girl really left you what would you REALLY miss about her ? Some of you would say the routine(whichs is what women miss)but its really an ego thing cause with men its a possession thing. Its like if you have 5 watches but you only wear one but somebody steals one of the other ones it going to make you mad cause its just a possession thing like even if you not wearing them you dont w a nt nobody else to have them its boils down to possession. Dont let your ego get in the way .

when i used to sleep around etc. the only thing i missed from my exes was sleeping with them, the only thing that bugged me was knowing other guys were sleeping with them

and for many folks its the same thing when a relationship ends, its just mainly wah i cant have her anymore someone else will.Like having a house you put so much work into being foreclosed , more times than not your relationship was crap anyways and your girl was horible

 

[Youseenmywork]

Its amazing how women only wanna give up they vagina when it starts to depreciate like a Ford Taurus....

 

[NerdNash]

It ain't easy, but like you said, you notice things like her hanging with shady friends. In this thread, it seems like we say kick her to the curb to everything, but as dudes are finding out, when the little signals pop up, as much as we'd like for them not to be true, it is what it is. More times than not, we know what happens next. When a woman starts acting a certain way, aka distant, busy, etc., she's getting ready to check out.

Honestly, I wouldn't ditch her right now because of the emotional attachment you have for her and your daughter, but keep on watching the signals and emotionally prepare yourself that if she were to walk out, you won't be devastated. See how it plays out, but be prepared for her walking or you discovering something.

I keep saying focus on things other than women and to find completion outside of women, because in this day and age, women are transitory. She could be smiling and hugging you today and ice cold tomorrow.

U just dropped a supreme gem. That's what Ima do. Ima just ride the wave and be prepared for the pump fake....if it's a wrap Ima let her call it.

 

[Jesus]

Approached 3 women, one was non responsive, gave the other two my number. One called and wants to meet tomorrow. Haven't heard from second one yet. This was all on Saturday night. Might just stick with giving my number out instead of getting it.

 

[kevm3]

What most men miss about their exes is something that doesn't exist anymore. For example, they miss that laughter and warmth and hanging out all the time that was prevalent when the relationship first started, which has been replaced with emotional distance, coldness or maybe nonstop anger and nagging. When she peels off, I bet you what you think about were the great times, which were more times than not, in the beginning of the relationship. They start imagining what they could have done to change it back to 'the way it was.' Maybe your experiences are different, but I find that once she's emotionally 'somewhere else', you can't really change it back to the lovely days, especially by pleading and begging. If she wants to go, let her go and keep on enjoying life. Really ain't no use to stopping a woman from being where she wants to be.

Now I'm not saying to have some ice-cold heart and look at women as nothing but playthings... it's more along the lines of mentally preparing yourself and not getting overly attached, because a lot of women are simply transient and are always scanning for the next best deal. You could have done everything for her, but as soon as something that gets her feeling different comes along, she starts sending those feelers out and she could be gone in a heartbeat. You can end up crying and being angry over it or you can say no big deal and keep on enjoying life. I'd rather do the latter. No use in giving a huge emotional reaction to the disloyal.

 

[Jahmal]

I still want that companionship. I'm 31. I running out of time. Maybe there's a girl out there that will like me for me

Who am I kidding? I'm fukked.

I won't be out of my financial situation for at least 10 years, my mental problems are lifelong and my physical health I dunno. The docs don't know what is wrong with me or why I lost 30 lbs in a year. I could be dying. Who the fukk knows.

I don't wanna be alone for a decade and be 40 and stuck with some fat ugly bytch that is infertile cuz she's too old.

I need to find somebody in the next few years. I dunno if that's possible though....

Sounds like you've acquired a House In Virginia. Drink lots of lemon juice breh

 

[Red Omega]

The times I've been dumped or attempted to be dumped

Picture on the dresser removed
No longer called baby
When I'd call the tone of voice would change and can I call you later.

Text msgs went to one word and I always had to intiaite

Dang breh I remember that picture off the dresser day like it was yesterday. I questioned her on it and her excuse was "I hate how I look in that picture."

Few weeks later we were done for good, crazy.

 

[RealAssanova]

honestly brehs its kind of disgusting now

if i stop posting and end up like jodi arias dead boyfriend, remember me

and no there isnt any me deleting messages to show hey look at me type ish

Spoiler

its funny when they all start acting like this, you start to see her in a different light. The hoe desperate as shyt.

 

[RealAssanova]

I've never been wrong

years ago i was dating a girl, she always ended every phone call with I love you reincar. She ended up going on vacation, called me every day when on vacation then it stopped. When she finally called again she never said I loved you. I was like , she came back told me cheated on me on vacay that was the end of that


Another time talked to this chick all the same, would text me all day long. 4 days went by with not a peep from her, then through text I got the we need the talk. I already knew it was over

then the story i mentioned above the dresser part, picture of me and this chick kissing was always on her dresser, i was there like every week sleeping over etc., one day i go there and its no longer on the dresser, she was "cleaning", i felt something was up and yep had them thangs dropped on me.

Now im the type if i feel a girl is going distant etc. i just say , it may be hardcore but i delete her number and get on with my life. Last girl I messed with earlier in this year I did that, and now 6 months later she won't leave me alone (i still will never utter another word to her). I took the power away, what women expect is for a guy to be like is there anything wrong?, i havent heard from you in awhile are you ok? I love you so much/like you so much how do you feel about me.

Honestly as a man if you are smart on your game and pick up the signs you should never get dumped again. I've never met a woman who just dumps a guy like that, its a thought out process.

a girl i was fukkin with last summer...i knew she was into me heavy. Met her in africa and we both live in Toronto. We talked while i was back in Toronto and she was still out there but gradually the convo's stopped and i never bothered. I was horny one november evening and did a hail mary and asked her if she wanted to kick it that weekend, and she said she might be going to a party but will let me kno. She never did and i never bothered hitting her up. This taught me a valuable lesson that..if your gut instinct is telling you not to do something, 9/10's its right and you shouldn't..cuz you'll just regret it after.

Fast forward to this past may, we see each other at a party. Sure enough she ain't too happy to see me, purposely avoiding me and all that shyt. I was happy she was as i wasn't really interested in talking to her anyway. End of the party, me and my boy walking to my whip and she was too with her sis. I get in the car and sure enough 2 mins i get a whatsapp msg from her talmbout "realassanova, is that you?"

i start laughin at her nerve and don't bother replyin till 4pm next day. I hope she got the message. I just couldn't believe shorty still had my number especially since we didn't speak for about 7 months and i deleted her number.

@Emperor_ReinScarf preaches the truth. Convo's used to be almost regular and whatever reason, it began to fade. I never questioned it nor did i care. Life goes on.

 

[360dagod]

i've never approached a woman, i'm not even lying.

The only women in my life I felt like i had to approach cracked after a month

I've lucked into so much p*ssy...lol

Approaching a female is almost a new experience for me

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah man the little signs you may overlook then when you look back.
Was staring you right in the face.

Dang breh I remember that picture off the dresser day like it was yesterday. I questioned her on it and her excuse was "I hate how I look in that picture."

Few weeks later we were done for good, crazy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup its just like you had a great date with a girl, you text n get no reply you know she got it. You sit back know its ov r you wait a few days say f it and send a text only to not get a reply again.

Should have went with your gut.

Most guys can tell when its over or done. Bit there like what's wrong and she will say nothing qne kiss and smile to calm your fears.

a girl i was fukkin with last summer...i knew she was into me heavy. Met her in africa and we both live in Toronto. We talked while i was back in Toronto and she was still out there but gradually the convo's stopped and i never bothered. I was horny one november evening and did a hail mary and asked her if she wanted to kick it that weekend, and she said she might be going to a party but will let me kno. She never did and i never bothered hitting her up. This taught me a valuable lesson that..if your gut instinct is telling you not to do something, 9/10's its right and you shouldn't..cuz you'll just regret it after.

Fast forward to this past may, we see each other at a party. Sure enough she ain't too happy to see me, purposely avoiding me and all that shyt. I was happy she was as i wasn't really interested in talking to her anyway. End of the party, me and my boy walking to my whip and she was too with her sis. I get in the car and sure enough 2 mins i get a whatsapp msg from her talmbout "realassanova, is that you?"

i start laughin at her nerve and don't bother replyin till 4pm next day. I hope she got the message. I just couldn't believe shorty still had my number especially since we didn't speak for about 7 months and i deleted her number.

@Emperor_ReinScarf preaches the truth. Convo's used to be almost regular and whatever reason, it began to fade. I never questioned it nor did i care. Life goes on.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I've lucked into so much p*ssy...lol

Approaching a female is almost a new experience for me

Not me ive always had to approach ...yeah ive had females that just like me but they were crazy as shyt . Im into quality as well you have to really catch my eye for me to approach. Im not out here talking to every girl I dont have the time. From my experience women dont approach cause they cant handle the rejection they dish out ...and if they do approach they know a lot of guys WONT turn them down or away
...unless they butt ugly. Ive had to work for mines but by no means when I feel the BS with a puticular female I go cold then im ghost on they ass.

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." - Robert Dinero from the movie heat

 

[MikelArteta]

I've never approached a chick.

I'm either extremely lucky or extremely blessed.

I've never even asked a chick for sex or made the first movem

Not me ive always had to approach ...yeah ive had females that just like me but they were crazy as shyt . Im into quality as well you have to really catch my eye for me to approach. Im not out here talking to every girl I dont have the time. From my experience women dont approach cause they cant handle the rejection they dish out ...and if they do approach they know a lot of guys WONT turn them down or away
...unless they butt ugly. Ive had to work for mines but by no means when I feel the BS with a puticular female I go cold then im ghost on they ass.

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." - Robert Dinero from the movie heat

 

[Bless't]

That's why you never give 100% to a woman and always prepare yourself for her walking out at any moment.

Remember when we said to focus on things other than women? That's exactly the reason why. If you aren't providing a drama circus, she'll potentially get bored and walk out.

And really, none of these women are worth providing a drama circus for. Who wants to constantly fight and stress just to keep the company of a woman?

The more completion you find in life without depending on another, the better.

This. Exactly this. I hate to be cold and indifferent towards women... but everyone in this thread that is single should just do whatever the fukk you want to do. Period. Until a certain woman shows you true investment, time, effort, mutual attraction and affection... you should not give two shyts about them. Let them prove to you why it is they should be in your life. And if they eventually do show true and honest affinity towards you, then you can start building. Until then... fukk 'em all.