Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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No man...as much as im hated on this site ...I would never belive that any are ugly. Why do you feel that way about yourself?Hey, it's true
Or that's what I want to believe...
I don't know how you look like but you are mor attractive than you think.
s3ven_LvLs
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Bruh you gotta find an order about yourself. Best way to do that is through physical activity/working out. Women ultimately are looking for leadership. So you have to craft yourself to be
superior than them in some sort of way. Also, keep up with your hygiene and appearance. I promise if you do those two things something is worth your standards will show up. Don't go
looking for women, you gotta find some way to respect yourself first. The only way to do that is through construction.
You should also read the mike tyson undisputed book. Its entertaining and he also explains his mindstate before he found boxing and how he evolved throughout the years. It kinda ends on
a cliffhanger but you can learn alot from it as a whole.
Nevermind.
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if you keep telling yourself
"I'm ugly"
"i'm not attractive"
"I'm just not lucky enough"
"why would a girl even want an ugly dude like me"
don't expect chicks to fukk with you heavy. why would she believe in you when you don't believe in yourself? why would she want to be led by someone who's already defeated? Plus, if you hold that belief strongly, this becomes the only reality you know. so much so that your mind will look for opportunities to re-confirm it. You will subconsciously sabotage yourself so that the belief can remain true. Because if somehow you were proved the opposite, you would have to face that change and change can be stressful. so some people would rather stay in that safe belief even if it's unfavorable. it's almost like a fear of success. the person anticipates failure just to avoid being disappointed.
now this might all be some pseudo-psychology BS or it might be true, who knows. My point is, you choose what you want to believe about yourself. If you think that you have a face that most of society wouldn't find attractive, that's one thing and you may be right or your perception might be distorted. but if you think you're not worthy of these chicks' love, affection, etc then
i guess that's more for the rest of us.
"I'm ugly"
"i'm not attractive"
"I'm just not lucky enough"
"why would a girl even want an ugly dude like me"
don't expect chicks to fukk with you heavy. why would she believe in you when you don't believe in yourself? why would she want to be led by someone who's already defeated? Plus, if you hold that belief strongly, this becomes the only reality you know. so much so that your mind will look for opportunities to re-confirm it. You will subconsciously sabotage yourself so that the belief can remain true. Because if somehow you were proved the opposite, you would have to face that change and change can be stressful. so some people would rather stay in that safe belief even if it's unfavorable. it's almost like a fear of success. the person anticipates failure just to avoid being disappointed.
now this might all be some pseudo-psychology BS or it might be true, who knows. My point is, you choose what you want to believe about yourself. If you think that you have a face that most of society wouldn't find attractive, that's one thing and you may be right or your perception might be distorted. but if you think you're not worthy of these chicks' love, affection, etc then
i guess that's more for the rest of us.
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There is power in the tongue.
if you keep telling yourself
"I'm ugly"
"i'm not attractive"
"I'm just not lucky enough"
"why would a girl even want an ugly dude like me"
don't expect chicks to fukk with you heavy. why would she believe in you when you don't believe in yourself? why would she want to be led by someone who's already defeated? Plus, if you hold that belief strongly, this becomes the only reality you know. so much so that your mind will look for opportunities to re-confirm it. You will subconsciously sabotage yourself so that the belief can remain true. Because if somehow you were proved the opposite, you would have to face that change and change can be stressful. so some people would rather stay in that safe belief even if it's unfavorable. it's almost like a fear of success. the person anticipates failure just to avoid being disappointed.
now this might all be some pseudo-psychology BS or it might be true, who knows. My point is, you choose what you want to believe about yourself. If you think that you have a face that most of society wouldn't find attractive, that's one thing and you may be right or your perception might be distorted. but if you think you're not worthy of these chicks' love, affection, etc then
So I'm not going to post the Tinder picture, but here's the convo with the chick I been telling yall about, she's 23 yrs old, 5'4, about 135-140 pounds:
Jun 13, 8:52 PM
Havent used tinder since.
I wasnt about to let her match with some other cretin they have here. Soon as she said what she was looking for and she liked me, I gave her my number and she started texting me and face timing me. Total $ spent on her? $5 fukking dollars on an ice cream date.
And now she lives 5 mins driving from me so
Jun 13, 8:52 PM
Me: Hi, how are you.
Her: Hi, im not sure how all of this works, but hi
Me: Means we have a mutual interest, I like your hair what brings you to the app?
Her: I cant figure out how to use this app, but thank you my hair is crazy big! But I recently just moved and dont know a lot of ppl. My friends told me about this app and I wanted to try it.
Me: *compliments her being chocolate skinned*What brings you here?
Her: Im from Minnesota, I taught there for 2 yrs then i moved here cause i wanted to teach here. I love it here.
Me: What made you swipe right? ****
Her: At first I thought you were cute, then we matched, and I decided to write you. I assumed u had a little interest in me as well.
Me: Yes, you're really cute.
***other talk about what we do and like etc etc****
Her: well Im just trying to get to know you a little. I want a guy I can trust, who's open, trustworthy, caring, sensitive, smart and tall.
Me: Im all of those.
Her: Is that so? I would like to find out!
Jun 13 9:58 PM
Me: you can text me.
Havent used tinder since.
I wasnt about to let her match with some other cretin they have here. Soon as she said what she was looking for and she liked me, I gave her my number and she started texting me and face timing me. Total $ spent on her? $5 fukking dollars on an ice cream date.
And now she lives 5 mins driving from me so
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DaRealness
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The lyrics to this song are hilarious and so true. Sporty Thievz were dem dudes.
