Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Brotha said in his past he would have been quick to reschedule, etc., which means he actually has experience going through similar situations in the past and saw how they turned out. More likely those women he let put him on the backburner initially continually did that throughout his interactions with them. Where are all those women he rescheduled with now? Are they with him right now? Doubt it. So apparently he didn't miss out on that super hidden gem.

How you start with a woman is how you finish. You let her come in disrespecting your time, then she will continue to do it. There is some small chance that maybe she just fell asleep, but from my personal experience, I know how women love to give the runarounds and have all these excuses when it comes time to make a move if they're really not trying to make that move.

Bottom line is that a lot of women like to do indirect things, and she could either be testing to see what she could get away with or she didn't care for him all that much. I don't understand how you just 'forget' or just fall asleep when you're supposed to be meeting someone unless he invited her out at like 10 at night. If she really just fell asleep like that, she should have texted him immediately on some, "I can't believe I fell asleep! I'm so sorry!" She waited until the next time she saw him to apologize.

What I know is more times than not, if a woman really wants to make a move with a dude, she is almost always available and doesn't have these little excuses. She'd be so excited about spending time with him, she wouldn't even dare think about falling asleep or she'd make sure he knew immediately if she couldn't make it because she wouldn't want him taking it the wrong way.

It's those situations where you are probably one man among many she is dealing with that she is comfortable doing stuff like that. He trusted his gut instinct in this case. Maybe she really did just 'fall asleep', but oh well. Next time she'll have to learn to be more cordial and user her alarm.

yup
ive never in all my life had a girl fall asleep or miss out on a date with me when she was really into me.

i was just reading this story at work today and it just proves the point im trying to get across
http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html

Standen says she met Gonzalez on vacation at the Club Amigo resort in Guardalavaca in April 2010, where he worked as an entertainer. The two fell in love and she travelled back and forth 10 times to be with him. She married him in January 2012 and filed for sponsorship.

when a women is into you it doesn't matter if you live on the other side of the world she will do whatever she can to be with you, so if a woman in your damn city near you, doesn't even view spending a night with you as valuable that she fell asleep

 

[Yup]

the same way a chick doesn't owe you sex after you took her out on a few dates, the same way you don't owe a chick a relationship after you fukked a few times. never let a chick shame you/guilt trip you/and don't let her talk to you about "what's right/fair" or that type of shyt. don't cheat yourself out of happiness if you don't feel her like that. keep it real with her, be honest as to what you want, let her work out her own emotions and let her choose what she wants to do.

Quote me where I said that he owed her a reschedule? There was no relationship though or are you talking about yourself. Nobody owes anyone In a relationship people get involved or should get involved as willibg participants. He didn't reschedule so be it...I think this is the same advice that id give any of my girlfriends.

 

[MikelArteta]

And who decides the relevancy of what is said that would be subjective to the individual. Hear me again...no matter the experience we are still limited all of us by the experience that we've had. That is why we learn from each other. You make absolute statements about women not ti mention you put women in a box. Thinking that you know what women must do to be women. When really you are saying what women must do according to men and more specifically according to you.That's the nuance that im trying to allude to.
Its your way or the highway and u have yet to see yoy dis prove so I don't how you can talk about not putting you into box when you claim to know how women behave. Youve made comments about how I look like but have never seen my face. I made my comment based on your comment history on things you yourself have revealed about yourself.

you remind me of a girl i messed with in terms of I told her im never talking to her again and not to contact me yet my phone still buzzes.

I'm not replying to you anymore and that's that continue quoting but don't expect nothing in return.

 

[Turbulent]

Quote me where I said that he owed her a reschedule?

this post isn't about you. where did i say you said that?

 

[Jahmal]

First its one woman...and second, if you don't know what a dialogue consist of differing positions then I don't know what else to tell you.

 

[Yup]

yup
ive never in all my life had a girl fall asleep or miss out on a date with me when she was really into me.

i was just reading this story at work today and it just proves the point im trying to get across
http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html



when a women is into you it doesn't matter if you live on the other side of the world she will do whatever she can to be with you, so if a woman in your damn city near you, doesn't even view spending a night with you as valuable that she fell asleep

Cool you've made your point clear. I would not personally next someone over that and I stand by that.

 

[Yup]

this post isn't about you. where did i say you said that?

Ok

 

[Yup]

Lol...typical.I don't know why you are here though.

 

[Auger]

I don't think you are going to get the discourse you desire on a predominately male Sports and Hip-Hop forum.

Not to demean or even discredit the members that post here, but what exactly was your purpose for signing up here if wasn't for music or sports?

 

[Yup]

yup
ive never in all my life had a girl fall asleep or miss out on a date with me when she was really into me.

i was just reading this story at work today and it just proves the point im trying to get across
http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html



when a women is into you it doesn't matter if you live on the other side of the world she will do whatever she can to be with you, so if a woman in your damn city near you, doesn't even view spending a night with you as valuable that she fell asleep

And? Does every relationship should be based on that you can't use extreme examples to make a point on a normal circumstance. If you would give the girl the boot...that you I am saying that it is not a barometer to determine how into you someone is in my opinion...especially someone you are getting to know for the first time. But I respect his decision...just wanted him to see it from the girls girl's perspective that it could have been harmless.
I personally don't subscribe to this egotistical dating culture. People are human beings.

 

[Yup]

I don't think you are going to get the discourse you desire on a predominately male Sports and Hip-Hop forum.

Not to discredit the members that post here, but what exactly was your purpose for signing up here if wasn't for music or sports?

I chose the locker room..because I like to talk about relationships and life in general and wanted a male perspective. Plenty people post here do they all post in the other forums as well?

 

[Yup]

I don't think you are going to get the discourse you desire on a predominately male Sports and Hip-Hop forum.

Not to demean or even discredit the members that post here, but what exactly was your purpose for signing up here if wasn't for music or sports?

The thing is there are plenty if intelligent conversations that ive had. Its just sone people with nothing relevant who hijack the thread.

 

[Yup]

see this is why I really don't like women posting in this thread

whenever a woman disagrees with what a man says he's scorned, he's bitter, he needs to get over it, he hates women.


As I always say if Chris brown, denzel washington had a date with that chick at 8pm do you think she would have overslept? do you think she would have missed it? HELL NO. Women pull tricks on guys all the time guys they don't view as valuable for her it was just a night out and meh she didn't feel liek going it wasn't important it wasn't vital to her. It's like if I have a job interview i read more into it and i find it pays like 9 dollars a hour, i say screw it and go to sleep and miss the interview, the job wasn't important to me, but if that job was paying 50 a hour you damn well sure i'd be there early lined up because its valuable.

My life isn't short lived. Jesus was only on earth for 33 years, martin luther king jr died at the age of 39, age has nothing to do with experience or learning.

I've seen more in my 29 years than most people have and I don't need a female telling me what she thinks she knows

You don't need a female to tell you what she thinks she knows...lol and you talk about putting people in boxes. Isn't that a silencing tactic? SMH

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Yup do me a big favor when you get the time go to YouTube and watch or listen to the first episode of the black Phillip show and come back here and give an honesty opinion. I want you to see that its not just the men on the coli it black , white , Latino etc of me that feel a ceartin way about women.

And from me to you ... and I hope this dosent go over your ....

http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/

 

[Yup]

@Yup do me a big favor when you get the time go to YouTube and watch or listen to the first episode of the black Phillip show and come back here and give an honesty opinion. I want you to see that its not just the men on the coli it black , white , Latino etc of me that feel a ceartin way about women.

And from me to you ... and I hope this dosent go over your ....

http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/

Ill check it out.