Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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by finding one who has limited experience and is thus less tainted or more impressionable. dont take advantage of it though
I never got this thinking.

It sounds like something a pimp would say.

Okay, lemme get this straight;

Because women are inhertedly stupid and emotionally, we need to get them at 18, 19 years old. That way, we are able to preserve any damage, to our ego, that a woman's past may cause us. And we are now able to shape her world view, in a way we deem fit. Oh, because, we as men are just that much better than women.

:huh:

Mind you, that's not just your post, but, I'm read that plenty of times on SOHH/thecoli.

What? There's no value in a woman's experience (I'm not talking the amount of men she slept with or anything sexual)? We need to be catching them right out of high school?
 

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Cats thought we were being 'bitter' or something when we told them about this, but now they're discovering what it is for themselves. "But you need to be SECURE! You have to have confidence... so don't check her phone." They're finding out real quick why the attitude that is prevalent in this thread is here. Dudes do their best to be a responsible man and these broads end up cheating on him... and then go off complaining why men are dogs.


Stop, right there. He admitted to had already cheated on his wife, before--and assumes he never got caught.

Your reap what you sow.

He probably only started snoopin' because he saw, in her, the things he did. And what kills me is the amount of vengence in his posts. It's like; he just can't see how adultery happens...:hmm: and he was having sex with someone else, some time ago.

That's my main problem with this thread; 80% of what I've read has been on some "He Man Women Haters" tip. Because, the man is always right, the women are wrong--even when they do the exact same thing.
 

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Stop, right there. He admitted to had already cheated on his wife, before--and assumes he never got caught.

Your reap what you sow.

He probably only started snoopin' because he saw, in her, the things he did. And what kills me is the amount of vengence in his posts. It's like; he just can't see how adultery happens...:hmm: and he was having sex with someone else, some time ago.

That's my main problem with this thread; 80% of what I've read has been on some "He Man Women Haters" tip. Because, the man is always right, the women are wrong--even when they do the exact same thing.

Him cheating didn't come up until later on in the thread. In that instance, when details of him cheating got revealed, he has little leg to stand on and ultimately got what he dished out.
Men are far from being perfect, and nobody in this thread even insinuates such. This is a thread in the context of men dealing with women, so there's no need to continually point out men cheating and doing doggish behavior. Society has been pointing out the bad behavior of ment for the longest while promoting women as constant victims of scandalous men. What most men here are pointing out is that the women are nowhere near these angels they've been made out to be and get their hands just as dirty, if not moreso than men... and the repercussions of dealing with the wrong women are severe... unless you want to be paying for another man's child or getting robbed via the court system.
 
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i don't know brehs. i'm kinda getting impatient with dudes who just seem to be stuck in their ways. it's like dudes don't want to improve, they just want a magic trick that will get them the specific p*ssy they want. dudes want to learn how to run game yet they can't even stand (let alone walk). it's like taking a Calculus 2 class yet you never passed high school algebra.

I got an idea im share later in this thread ...ive tossed this idea back and forth. I really do think it would change this thread ...
 

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Those are dudes who don't know how to be single. They are the male versions of those women who always seem to be in abusive relationships because they are scared of being by themselves, so they accept anything that comes along. This kind of stuff happens when you don't fill your life full of interesting people and activities.
 

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about to jumo back on tinder right in time for when uni parties are starting :takedat:
About to eat off these uni thots dont have the face for online dating but at the end of the day it's a numbers:yeshrug: game
 

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Fellas, any of you have homeboys that seem to jump from relationship to relationship sorta like these celebrities be doing

One of my friends is exactly like that. Since his first girlfriend at age 15, he's never been single for longer than a couple months since then and we're 21 now. His whole existence and validity seems to be hinged on being with a girl and he always seems to pick girls with mental issues.
 

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Those are dudes who don't know how to be single. They are the male versions of those women who always seem to be in abusive relationships because they are scared of being by themselves, so they accept anything that comes along. This kind of stuff happens when you don't fill your life full of interesting people and activities.


I went through a phase where I had 3 gfs back to back to back...wasn't because I was afraid to be alone...because I'm an introvert...it was just I connected with some chicks quick and fast...I think a bigger mistake is that I don't know how to end a relationship because I hate failing and I hate letting people down who believe in me
 

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Thought it was healthy to have a healing/reflection process after endings a relationship not to jump into another immediately.
 
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