wish you well dating is not easy.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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wish you well dating is not easy.
you know what i noticed and always wonder
look at female r&b songs and then look at r&b songs sung by male singers
female r&b songs are always bashing dudes, calling them cheaters, how easy he can be replaced, how hes a liar, how he broke my heart , how he's ungrateful etc.
songs from males are about how much they love their chick, how she's special, lets get married and make kids, im giving you my all etc.
i mean im coming home from work today and turn on the radio and that beyonce song
How I'll never ever find a man like you. You got me twisted. You must not know 'bout me. You must not know 'bout me. I can have another you in a minute
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look at female r&b songs and then look at r&b songs sung by male singers
female r&b songs are always bashing dudes, calling them cheaters, how easy he can be replaced, how hes a liar, how he broke my heart , how he's ungrateful etc.
songs from males are about how much they love their chick, how she's special, lets get married and make kids, im giving you my all etc.
i mean im coming home from work today and turn on the radio and that beyonce song
How I'll never ever find a man like you. You got me twisted. You must not know 'bout me. You must not know 'bout me. I can have another you in a minute
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Been wanting to get at this girl at my job for sometime now (different department) . She's a bad yellowbone , nice body, hella cool to talk to. She told me last month that she had a man and been seeing him for seven years. I was thinking,time to move on but she told me he was planning to move back to North Carolina where he has a farm at. She's not going with him unless he puts a ring on it.
Fast forward to now: She's been low-key flirting with me for the past two weeks. I wanna see what's up and ask her out but I don't wanna feel like a rebound . Afterall, she was with that country boy for seven years.
I think homeboy had commitment issues because she looks like a catch to me
all women do nowadays, whether its keeping exes on facebooks, still texting them, following on instagram etc.,
i keep telling folks about sexual soul ties but no one wants to listen. When a woman sleeps with a guy that emotional tie that is formed many can't cut the cord.
I don't talk to any exes or women I've had sexual relations with, i don't need that past baggage or reminders in my life. Women love to though because the majority of the time they ended the relationship, and /or they actually think these dudes who got their nut off actually are friends or care about them.
Been wanting to get at this girl at my job for sometime now (different department) . She's a bad yellowbone , nice body, hella cool to talk to. She told me last month that she had a man and been seeing him for seven years. I was thinking,
Fast forward to now: She's been low-key flirting with me for the past two weeks. I wanna see what's up and ask her out but I don't wanna feel like a rebound . Afterall, she was with that country boy for seven years.
I think homeboy had commitment issues because she looks like a catch to me
mess withw omen in relationships that you work with breh.
1. neer mess withw omen at work even if its in a different department
2. so she had a man and suddenly broke up with him after 7 years, prob just using him to make you jealous
3. all women seem like a catch as first, even teh hood rat thot, won't tell you she's a hoodrat thot, you'll think wow she's great what a gem i can't believe im so lucky to have met her, all those other dudes must have treated her so horribly. Then you slowly realize why she is isngle.
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
Having been single and celibate for nearly 12 months after a long term relationship, I've learned a lot just by listening and having conversations with people in different types of situations.
The main thing I've realised is that you're at your most "attractive" state when girls learn that you've recently broken up...until they realise that you're not moping around feeling sorry for yourself (at least not outwardly). I think this is because girls find the fact that you can catch feelings for a someone to the point that you're publicly miserable without them attractive since they want to be in a situation where a guy can fall for them to that degree.
I've noticed that once you say "actually, I'm doing alright and I'm moving on" they begin to create reasons as to why you could move on so quickly after a break up and usually, those reasons they come up with put you in a bad light. "Why are you being so cold?" or "You were with her for so long, how comes you didn't love her?" have been the responses I've heard the most. I think the thought of a guy not being attached to the point that they lose all public decency intimidates a lot of girls because it only highlights that they can easily be replaced.
The main thing I've realised is that you're at your most "attractive" state when girls learn that you've recently broken up...until they realise that you're not moping around feeling sorry for yourself (at least not outwardly). I think this is because girls find the fact that you can catch feelings for a someone to the point that you're publicly miserable without them attractive since they want to be in a situation where a guy can fall for them to that degree.
I've noticed that once you say "actually, I'm doing alright and I'm moving on" they begin to create reasons as to why you could move on so quickly after a break up and usually, those reasons they come up with put you in a bad light. "Why are you being so cold?" or "You were with her for so long, how comes you didn't love her?" have been the responses I've heard the most. I think the thought of a guy not being attached to the point that they lose all public decency intimidates a lot of girls because it only highlights that they can easily be replaced.
Thanks for the responses. @Turbulent @Emperor_ReinScarf . Normally I'm like 
when it comes to dating co-workers. It's so common to do so actually at my current gig so I was reconsidering . However, I was talking to one girl there the other week and three chicks on the other side of the department were looking at us like 
There isn't much out here at all where I live, plus I'm 33 and work full time which makes it worse in being able to meet people.
I've been looking at these meetup socials I've been getting emails for more and more lately
why not?if you value your job, i advise against it but at the end of the day you're grown. if you do choose to go forward, don't simp or act like a hoe, take control of the relationship and keep records (emails, texts, things that were said and dates, etc).
There isn't much out here at all where I live, plus I'm 33 and work full time which makes it worse in being able to meet people.
I've been looking at these meetup socials I've been getting emails for more and more lately
I got a few self help books today..
I've come to grips with the fact that my obsessive perfectionist attitude along with my anxiety issues has demolished my self esteem and confidence...
Basically I allowed my job to take over my brain and it slowly fukked me up mentally....And my introverted nature dosent help
Sometimes you just gotta be real about yourself and try to right certain situations
I've come to grips with the fact that my obsessive perfectionist attitude along with my anxiety issues has demolished my self esteem and confidence...
Basically I allowed my job to take over my brain and it slowly fukked me up mentally....And my introverted nature dosent help
Sometimes you just gotta be real about yourself and try to right certain situations
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
I've realized I might one of those dudes who just jump from relationship to relationship without any time to be by myself and learn myself. This time I'm going to be single for a long duration before I start to commit again. Also I'm learning that just because I was there for her, my ex didn't value or appreciate the things I've done for her. Just because you're there for them don't mean shyt. That reality kinda took me for a spin because I grew up thinking that if you're with someone, you do what you can to be happy. But in this era of selfishness, it's all about what makes YOU happy no matter the cost of the other person. I know people change but I dunno. I'm just chillin at this moment
that's the toughest one to deal with...
That's why I'm all for ceasing contact permanently...
Unless you save my moms or something, don't talk to me
Most Women don't care or appreciate what you did for them. The quicker you realize this the better off you will be in doing things you don't want to do.
I can think of all the things I've did in my life sacrificed over and over, the things I bought, when a chick was on her deathbed the only one there, no place to stay opened up my home rent free, basically built chicks up from nothing working min wage to 50k a year gigs and in the end I got nothing, not a thank you, not loyalty, just treatable STDs, a broken heart and yeses wasted.
In everything there is a valuable lesson, don't do things expecting anything in return do it because you want to.
You'll sit back and think of everything you did and the next nucca comes in and does nothing but gets loyalty, respect etc. Etc.
I keep telling folks don't be friends with exes cut of the head of the snake if she doesn't appreciate you, if you are the only one sacrificing doing things and you don't want to do it stop and get out
I can think of all the things I've did in my life sacrificed over and over, the things I bought, when a chick was on her deathbed the only one there, no place to stay opened up my home rent free, basically built chicks up from nothing working min wage to 50k a year gigs and in the end I got nothing, not a thank you, not loyalty, just treatable STDs, a broken heart and yeses wasted.
In everything there is a valuable lesson, don't do things expecting anything in return do it because you want to.
You'll sit back and think of everything you did and the next nucca comes in and does nothing but gets loyalty, respect etc. Etc.
I keep telling folks don't be friends with exes cut of the head of the snake if she doesn't appreciate you, if you are the only one sacrificing doing things and you don't want to do it stop and get out
Workout if you dont. Smoke weed alone and get in your thoughts bro. Self awareness leads to confidence to managing issues better.
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
Some of these older women (40+) are on their second childhood steez
word to Nas.
On a sidenote I thought I would post this here, as a matter of fact this entire album could apply to this thread.
word to Nas.On a sidenote I thought I would post this here, as a matter of fact this entire album could apply to this thread.
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man i overthink things way too much, I hate being such a thinker, when Im alone with my thoughts shyt goes wild, frustrating glad I have a woman who has patience with me, real talk she has never done anything foul, and she is always there for me to talk to, i just need to do it instead of letting my mind going wild and then flipping on her
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