Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Ha ha ha...anyway its been swell.daddy issues red flags all around
prob had a promiscuous past you bedwench
slores go that way
Let me know when you post your experiences I would be interested to see your insights.Honestly you hunt what you know how to catch I'm strictly black women to but I like latins and domincans as well. And I feel you women do what they do I just don't want them abusing me thats it . Like I said in my last post how long can you say women anit shyt? And im the type i dont like
to complain I'm real nonchalant about a lot if things . At thus stage in my life I can say that I don't have a hear that a women can break .
Forgot to add: I am not trying to give advice and make myself a relationship guru. I share my opinions and like to be in a dynamic of introspection....you think that being unyielding and treating women with a closed fist would result in success with relationships...if that's been working for you, post your results.again why dont you stfu, ive been posting here since day 1 there is a reason i have the most daps on this forum and the most daps in this thread. YOu don't know me, or my life or my experiences.
Let's see who advice a man should take. A man whose actually been with numerous women or a woman whose only advice is to shame man
go post in the ladies random thots thread thot
I don't sit on a high horse buddy, I simply bring my female perspective, you can continue to ignore me.
I was never speaking to him in the first place. He's had a problem with me from the beginning. If my intention was to derail the thread I wouldn't have wrote what I wrote. This add on was supposed to be part of my other post.you guys went back and forth. you kept telling him to ignore you. he eventually did that and stopped replying to you. you had the last word. now you're still trying to get his (and our) attention?
please just stop derailing the thread.
I am not looking for daps and an entourage...if someone addresses me I will reply. I am not trying to get anyone's attention. You can clearly how long ago I posted. So I don't know why you are replying to me now.
"I'd argue that the majority of women are entirely predictable creatures and respond in the same manner if you put them in the exact same situation as another one, which is why I have four predictive rationalisations for female behaviour that I believe are ironclad:
1. I deserve everything I ever want.
2. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I deserve?
3. It's only wrong when other people do it.
4. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism or punishment of my socially-transgressive choices?
This doesn't come from a place of bitterness, or being 'hurt' by women, but 43 years of repeated observations with every woman that I've known and her interactions with her peers, children and partners. As such, I don't expect a woman to not act like a woman, and they rarely disappoint."
1. I deserve everything I ever want.
2. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I deserve?
3. It's only wrong when other people do it.
4. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism or punishment of my socially-transgressive choices?
This doesn't come from a place of bitterness, or being 'hurt' by women, but 43 years of repeated observations with every woman that I've known and her interactions with her peers, children and partners. As such, I don't expect a woman to not act like a woman, and they rarely disappoint."
As a woman on a male dominated forum, I don't feel the need to be apart of everything. I understand Yups POV, but this thread isn't to ward off women as much as it is to build up men (at least to me). But we all have our differing stances on things, and thats ok. I think out of respect, I am less likely to freely post in here given the purpose of the thread. So I lurk and keep my commentary to myself unless someone asks for it. 
The simpler you keep it, the better. I think a lot of problems come from 2 huge mistakes that men make. 1)Dealing with women that don't particularly like them and 2) trying to turn a bad girl into an angel.
Mistake 1 is obvious. She won't deal with you unless you throw some benefits in, such as spending money on her, taking her to dinner, etc. You see this girl and you like her so much that you feel you must have her by any means necessary. She's not responding to your natural personality/conversation, so you decide to ramp it up and throw in dinner or trips or some such nonsense. Maybe you break out your fancy car to show her you have money. This is how men end up in the simp category. It's important to accept that certain women just don't like you, and to move on and focus on the ones that do. That game-playing will get you caught up in the end.
The next issue is similar but has it's own set of issues. The girl in question may actually like us, but then again, she likes everybody. We know the girl's history, but we choose to ignore it because we think we can 'game her' into loyalty. It doesn't work that way. You'll be finding a few surprises on her phone or facebook a couple of months down the line.
Mistake 1 is obvious. She won't deal with you unless you throw some benefits in, such as spending money on her, taking her to dinner, etc. You see this girl and you like her so much that you feel you must have her by any means necessary. She's not responding to your natural personality/conversation, so you decide to ramp it up and throw in dinner or trips or some such nonsense. Maybe you break out your fancy car to show her you have money. This is how men end up in the simp category. It's important to accept that certain women just don't like you, and to move on and focus on the ones that do. That game-playing will get you caught up in the end.
The next issue is similar but has it's own set of issues. The girl in question may actually like us, but then again, she likes everybody. We know the girl's history, but we choose to ignore it because we think we can 'game her' into loyalty. It doesn't work that way. You'll be finding a few surprises on her phone or facebook a couple of months down the line.
If you don't know me then I guess my post does not apply to you.
great points and i think in both cases it's us making the mistake of defining ourselves and our worth on what other people feel about us (the first example) or making our happiness conditional on how others feel (the second one). either way we surrender the control to someone else. when you start to shapeshift who you are to appease the girl, you'll either get tired of role playing and slip up or even worse, lose yourself.
once you truly accept you can't control who likes you or how others feel, their core beliefs or will power, once you fully surrender to that concept and just focus on what you can control (your feelings and your happiness, etc) and just let people be what they want to be, let them choose and you just roll with what fits into your cypher, it's like the whole game opens up to you. But a lot of us aren't willing to make the sacrifice. some p*ssy you could have had if you played her game will have to be left alone. some woman you could have dated if you switched up will have to be let go. not everyone is willing to turn down p*ssy. a lot of us are looking for a quick way to trick a chick into giving it up (cheating the game). not realizing that by taking the long way (being true to the game), yeah, it might take a little longer initially, and you might give up some p*ssy along the way, but once you get to a certain point, p*ssy will actually be chasing you.
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Yup said:
Well no need to aplogize I speake for self when I say it coo for a female to step in sometimes. Even if she is just saying the "typical" stuff . Hell even patrice had females that were "Sick" on his shows so ...I do what I do cause its only so long you can shyt talk about women. You have to go indepth in my opinion on how to be successful with the opposite gender. I mean what you really gon do become a monk? I like womenb...but I dont love them. I think its women out here that have that potential but they just have a ton of vaginal horseshyt you have to undo . As patrice said on the Black Phillip show one time " we could change the way they think and how they look at men if we just APPLIED ourselves but we lazy" .