Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thars why I'd never get serious with a woman with a lot of sexual partners or lovers, she will always compare you to that ole bad boy thug who gave her tingles

Wife who admits she let fantasies of past lovers from her 20s ruin marriage to her husband of 40 years




    • Angela Neustatter has often questioned what life would have been like had she married another man
    • Husband Olly felt crowded out by memories of her past lovers
    • Exhausted by raising two, growing sons while doing up a wreck of a house, sex felt more a chore than a delight with her husband
    • She says there is no denying that her past lovers have made her question her commitment to him
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-let-fantasies-past-lovers-ruin-marriage.html
 
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How to not sound boring during texts?

Need some help.. This girl gave me her number Saturday inside the club .. I didn't even have to do any work..

We were talking half the day yesterday. She initiated the first text .. Guess got tired of waiting for me to text her.. But I think by the end of the night, I might have bored her.. Cause I was just asking her the typical questions like what kinda girl she is etc etc

I want her to validate herself so that it comes off that I'm the one deciding that If she's worth it and not the other way around. Most of the time, the guy does all the chasing and smothers the girl to the point where she thinks he is desperate. And that just kills of the attraction ..

How quickly should I ask her to come out?
 

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How to not sound boring during texts?

Need some help.. This girl gave me her number Saturday inside the club .. I didn't even have to do any work..

We were talking half the day yesterday. She initiated the first text .. Guess got tired of waiting for me to text her.. But I think by the end of the night, I might have bored her.. Cause I was just asking her the typical questions like what kinda girl she is etc etc

I want her to validate herself so that it comes off that I'm the one deciding that If she's worth it and not the other way around. Most of the time, the guy does all the chasing and smothers the girl to the point where she thinks he is desperate. And that just kills of the attraction ..

How quickly should I ask her to come out?


U are overthinking this..she is just a female...be yourself and let everything else fall in place naturally
 

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Stop worrying if she doesn't like you its smothering if she likes you its aww he's so cute and interested in me


How to not sound boring during texts?

Need some help.. This girl gave me her number Saturday inside the club .. I didn't even have to do any work..

We were talking half the day yesterday. She initiated the first text .. Guess got tired of waiting for me to text her.. But I think by the end of the night, I might have bored her.. Cause I was just asking her the typical questions like what kinda girl she is etc etc

I want her to validate herself so that it comes off that I'm the one deciding that If she's worth it and not the other way around. Most of the time, the guy does all the chasing and smothers the girl to the point where she thinks he is desperate. And that just kills of the attraction ..

How quickly should I ask her to come out?
 

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Remember when I told you to dump a hot girl once in a life to build immunity, ans people laughed and all that. But the weakness of many men is a hot woman. Hot women get away with so much and will test you over and over again, and because she's hot yo, you say nothing you take it etc. Etc.

But when you have that immunity, when you can look back ans be like I tossed a hot girl aside for less than this you come out on top, ans many times they can't believe it the first time in their lives they've been rejected
 

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How to not sound boring during texts?

Need some help.. This girl gave me her number Saturday inside the club .. I didn't even have to do any work..

We were talking half the day yesterday. She initiated the first text .. Guess got tired of waiting for me to text her.. But I think by the end of the night, I might have bored her.. Cause I was just asking her the typical questions like what kinda girl she is etc etc

I want her to validate herself so that it comes off that I'm the one deciding that If she's worth it and not the other way around. Most of the time, the guy does all the chasing and smothers the girl to the point where she thinks he is desperate. And that just kills of the attraction ..

How quickly should I ask her to come out?
anything from interests,past experiences,politics? just seem interested in shyt she tells you like :leon: crack some jokes be sarcasric and playful women love that shyt.
but dont overthink text convos because ultimately they are meaningless face to face interact and compatibility is the only thing thats holds any weight. you can have a million text messages full of "lol" and "aww" yet be awkward as fuk around eachother and vice versa
 

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:snoop: I'm afflicted with the oneitis right now. :to: Can't keep my mind off this chick.
I went through this at the beginning of the year :snoop:

I gave her the bushes though and went through a drought, it was well worth it though :ehh:
 
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Stop worrying if she doesn't like you its smothering if she likes you its aww he's so cute and interested in me

anything from interests,past experiences,politics? just seem interested in shyt she tells you like :leon: crack some jokes be sarcasric and playful women love that shyt.
but dont overthink text convos because ultimately they are meaningless face to face interact and compatibility is the only thing thats holds any weight. you can have a million text messages full of "lol" and "aww" yet be awkward as fuk around eachother and vice versa

Ya I know face to face interaction is a lot better but these days the girl screens the guy over text and then decides if he's worth it or not.

I want to flip it the other way where she has to validate herself to me that she's worthy to be dating me.

See what I'm saying ?
 

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I went through this at the beginning of the year :snoop:

I gave her the bushes though and went through a drought, it was well worth it though :ehh:
It's worse when she lives in the same house as you. Tonight is her bday so I'm gonna go in her room later. It's sooo hard to ignore.
 

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It's worse when she lives in the same house as you. Tonight is her bday so I'm gonna go in her room later. It's sooo hard to ignore.
:damn: if she ain't giving it up stay out of that room breh.
 

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:damn: if she ain't giving it up stay out of that room breh.
She most likely is. When I'm in there she doesn't mind how late it is nor does she get dressed up. The other night she was only in her panties and a shirt. I'm in bed with her and she just was laying next to me watching the TV. She's my ex girl. :snoop: The most that happens when I'm with her alone is usually me copping a feel here and there but I've been too nervous to grab her or to just go in for a kiss and take it from there. :wow: She's got some tig ole bitties and a nice lil ass. :ohmy1: Her best friend who likes me and who I've been talking to on and off tells me she knows she still wants me and that she said I'd take it if she gave it up to me yadda yadda. I'm being p*ssy. I don't get how I'm nervous around an ex I fukked before. :mindblown:
 

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Ya I know face to face interaction is a lot better but these days the girl screens the guy over text and then decides if he's worth it or not.

I want to flip it the other way where she has to validate herself to me that she's worthy to be dating me.

See what I'm saying ?

if a girl likes you there is nothing you have to do, just show yourself as a quality man.
 
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