Was I wrong here brehs?
Went to a suburb lifetime (primarily Middle Aged white club) because it was close to where I was.
Set up to bench in the cage because I had to attempt a weight I've never gone at
There's a late 40 something dude in the squat rack next to me doing curls
I unrack the weight and go to press
Dude comes over to the cage right as I lift off and grabs a 10lb plate off my rack. (He has plenty on his)
I complete my lift and take off my headphones. I was hot. .. almost whiffed the liftoff because he came outta nowhere
Seemed like shytty etiquette more than disrespect based on how he reacted when I got his attention so I tried to be as nice as I was able
I confronted him and asked if he'd be cool if I crossed over and grabbed a plate or two off his rack while he was mid set.
He had the

back pedal shyt going apologizing profusely because he might have thought I was gonna smash him. He left almost immediately after apologizing for the 1000th time
After I calmed down I felt like I went kinda too hard at him for his bad etiquette, I completed the lift even with the distraction.