So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[Gold]

@Anwulika
I thought you said i was lying bout naija girls tho

only some tho. All the girls I've dated have never been with a white man.

 

[Gold]

You know what you need to do breh

I want it to be one way.... but you keep telling me it's the other way

 

[Larry Lambo]

I hate when black men say shyt like this. When I look around where I live I see average to below average Asian (South Asian Indian Pakistani) women driving around the latest audis Benz bmw etc bought by their husbands. They didn't need to look like a bollywood movie star to get a man who was making enough money to buy them nice cars and have them living on homes that are owened.


Do you know why? Because there are plenty of Asian men who can provide.

You dudes in here talking about these women not having the looks are just admitting that there are so few black men who can provide that that they can leverage that.

Y'all ever get tired of being underachievers?

If you saw the special you would have known that one of the girls was talking about requiring a guy to be 6'5" and that she needed to be a little more open minded about dating men shorter than "ideal". Those women were picky in terms of looks and swagger, and would not have just accepted the average looking nerd making $150K.

As far as average looking Asian/Indian women pulling men with money, their culture is completely different. People are pressured into getting married and a lot of times the parents set things up. Even if that doesn't happen it is strongly expected for a person to get married. A lot of ugly guys end up with good looking girls as well. I can't imagine living in a world that you are forced to get married with whoever is available. I wonder if these guys utilize escorts on the side.

Regardless, you are arguing about unattractive women not being able to pull wealthy men. In Western culture that's pretty much the standard. If a woman is not very good looking she's gonna have a tough time pulling successful men. Sorry, that's the way it goes. Maybe she can get a geek with no swagger, but yall don't want that anyways.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I hate when black men say shyt like this. When I look around where I live I see average to below average Asian (South Asian Indian Pakistani) women driving around the latest audis Benz bmw etc bought by their husbands. They didn't need to look like a bollywood movie star to get a man who was making enough money to buy them nice cars and have them living on homes that are owened.


Do you know why? Because there are plenty of Asian men who can provide.

You dudes in here talking about these women not having the looks are just admitting that there are so few black men who can provide that that they can leverage that.

Y'all ever get tired of being underachievers?

some of yall arent worthy of being provided for

 

[The Mad Titan]

@LadySimone last post making her message count 6,666

 

[The Maverick]

As a man, you know where you stand in life very early too. The onus is on men to approach, so dudes find out very quickly where they fit in the hegemony. The same can't be said for women. They've "had" the most eligible of men, but they've never kept them. Combine that with the pitfalls that come with being a black man in a non-black world, and yeah, men are going to be very discerning when it comes time to settle down.

Truly amazing women are at a premium in this world, and are often times quickly snatched. Seems a lot of women are finding out where they stand.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Dawg,....black men are not more employed and not paid better than black women.
That is a bonafide lie,...black women are jn the economic pole position in America on purpose.
So, this country can gain access to a matriarch based economy and spending they perpetrated to use as a economic buffer and stimulus.
All this black guys make more than black women shyt is old ass baby boomer numbers.
nikkaz not even going to college like that a d then trying to say we do is a lie, too.
Not to mention, we going to college and then getting employed with great salaries....they need to stop lying.
Art Barr

Based on the US Government statistics the average black male makes $35K a year, versus $32K for women. I'm just going with the data.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

So you guys aren't all 6 feet6 certs and 6 figures slutting out average women but waiting on a dime who can cook fuvk and speak Portuguese?

Interesting.

Back for more, eh?

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Momma told me I can't be no broke boy

Ballin almost 23 years old boy

In next few months I garuntee I be on boy

I don't want black women fukk them hoes boy

So I smile



- blackierobinson

 

[yates]

One example out of many. The fact is that naija girls are more loyal to naija men compared to many African countries.

Lol i know brehette, im just getting my on lol.

I know a lot nigerian women in relationships with men from other african countries tho. Do you only date nigerian men ?

 

[iBrowse]

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[Stranger In Paradise]

"..settling down for them.."

Nah-- got too much snowboarding left to do.

If those women in the Essence video ain't up for an
adventure.... can't be bothered with 'em

 

[Diondon]

30 pages over the same sh*t. This is f*ckin' simple:

The section of the country that has one of the highest if not the highest college attendance rates: black women

The section of the country that has one of the lowest if not the lowest college attendance rates: black men

In 2015 the odds are 3:1 that a black male on average earns less than his female counterpart. A successful black woman is gonna have to settle for someone beneath her level on average. There's only 10,000 or so professional black athletes, and a handful of black ceos, probably less than 10,000 midsize companies owned/ran by black males, so there's MILLIONS of educated black women out there who are kind of f*cked So either settle for someone below your status level or marry outside your race, but for Pete's sake stop makin' 30 page threads about the same sh*t

That's kinda how I feel about it at this point. And dating a guy that makes less than you isn't the end of the world
But for God's sake STFU about this shyt
I always say life is like a poker game. You should cash in your chips when you have a winning hand
Hold on to your cards too long and the house wins

 

[badtguy]

Exactly. They want that type of man, but fail to realize he will not be able to shower them with the time and attention they so desire.

Breh alot of chicks esp black ones are dumb, white women are complete hoes. So I wouldn't even consider them. White people are number one in infidelity escorts, swingers cukhold etc. They just stay together for the benefit of power and structure they can build.

black women are naive, the chick I'm dating now is educated but retarded as hell.

She said she likes my drive and ambition outside physical stuff. But gets irritated when I'm reviewing work material.

Sometimes she won't wake me up to start on a work project, she would rather fall asleep next to me.

 

[badtguy]

Black men don't have the lowest attendance rates in america hispanic men do please state facts rubbish