Why do some men act like talking to women is rocket science?

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The way some guys talk about these things, you'd think that the shyt was rocket science.

All that strategizing and vested emotional and financial energy.. muhfukkas could've built empires if they directed all that energy towards something that's more productive.
 

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Reading body language is what it comes down to. Some people just can't read the signs.
For some people, like myself, if you have self esteem issues it doesn't matter how handsome you are, you'll always struggle talking to women because you're not comfortable with yourself.
No one likes rejection. That alone stops men from talking to a woman who may be feeling you but for woman reasons won't tell you.
 

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It's more than that. Dudes who live on their own, have money, work out, dress sharp, and even have a good convo, still have stumbling blocks.

It's status and unpredictability that turns to entertainment. Bottom line.
 

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It's more than that. Dudes who live on their own, have money, work out, dress sharp, and even have a good convo, still have stumbling blocks.

It's status and unpredictability that turns to entertainment. Bottom line.

No they don't man. That's simply not true :what:
Those dudes you names with those attributes and accomplishments are gettin laid :what:
 

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The way some guys talk about these things, you'd think that the shyt was rocket science.

All that strategizing and vested emotional and financial energy.. muhfukkas could've built empires if they directed all that energy towards something that's more productive.

C'mon fam.

You think cats really spending that amount of time on it? If a dude spends a couple hours a week on figuring out how to bag chicks, yall saying he wasting time and energy.

Dude could be hustling 10 hours a day, 7 days a week, but if he spends 20-30 minutes here and there talking about game, then he could have built an empire with that time.

Building an empire takes 50-60 hours a week at the least. Let brehs do what they want in their free time.
 

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You ain't getting a Martin Lawrence type extrovert with the Tupac energy. It never happens like that. If anything, you should be less judgmental with brehs who ain't social butterflies.


You don't have to be a social butterfly, babe

But the levels of social anxiety among today's young men is weird.

Like, they really have to figure out what is causing this mental health pandemic.

Shti is weird.
 

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You don't have to be a social butterfly, babe

But the levels of social anxiety among today's young men is weird.

Like, they really have to figure out what is causing this mental health pandemic.

Shti is weird.

The cause of rejection and the fact that rejection will hamper their chances for their next attempt. As in, social media put people on blast and fukk it up, on top of people refusing to helping those dudes out.
 
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