Winter is Coming

[Knuckles Red]

Gtfoh boi THere were never any true matriarchal tribes in africa. There was matriarchal inheritance and people who claim their mother's lineage but that was only due to polygamy.

I hate when black feminist spew this dumb fukk shyt

THE AKA, CENTRAL AFRICAN REPUBLIC AND DEMOCRATIC REPUBLIC OF CONGO
The menfolk of the Aka people in Africa’s Congo Basin have been described as the ‘best dads in the world’ with the paternally minded pygmies playing with their babies at least five times as often as men from other societies. While women hunt, the men cook. Cots are unheard of (couples never leave babies lying unattended) and if one Aka parent smacks an infant, the other views it as grounds for divorce. Most staggering of all, Aka fathers offer their nipples as pacifiers to their babies when mum isn’t around. Somebody send a note to Fathers 4 Justice now…

source: Meet the pioneers of role reversal

 

[keepemup]

I have never had a bad experience with a fast food worker.

 

[How Sway?]

East Africans be hard as hell man...if you aint East african yourself good luck.

I'm trying to talk to this introverted Ethiopian chick right now but its gonna be hard as hell . just going to have to be patient i guess

Truth be told, only reason I gave EA's any props whatsoever in that post is because I've met a few ok Ethio women but I tend to avoid East Africans in general, very racist people. Dont like them.

dude, a brotha will have an easier time trying to bag a white chick than an East African chick.

Yeah a lot of em are real attractive but thats it.

 

[PeridotPuss]

A nikka with money is no prize imo

Focus on earning and investing your own money brehettes financial freedom is priceless

Always insist to pay for your portion of all dates, activities or bills.

Always keep your finances seperate, never talk about how much you make, always have emergency money.

Don't plot on which nikka looks like he's balling....it's a set up go prepare for a meeting or get a cert or some shyt. His money not your money and your money the only money that counts

 

[Elle Driver]

Say what you want but domestic violence ain't cool. One time when I was six, my mom and dad got into it. He threw her on the bed with rage and was about to harm her then I ran in, started hitting him, got flung half way across the room and he stopped and walked out the room and just sat in the chair in shock. From that day forward, I never seen and heard of my dad laying a finger on my mom. I think a lot of brothas need to think about your children or potential children when thinking about a harming a woman. It's not just the woman you hurt, it's the children as well. I know some women are psychologically insane but you got to throw that 10 ft in the bushes if that's the case.

They need to think about not harming someone they so-called love, period.

Access to guns in this country is ridiculous. The mere fact that someone could go and purchase a gun from a store (and the onus is on the owner of the store to do a background check) and just go on is a scary thought to me. shyt is terrifying. Then the amount of women who end up in domestic violence/family shelters and end up leaving with their husband/boyfriend/partner a day later just shows how big of an issue it really is. But it's swept under the rug for obvious reasons.

 

[MoonGoddess]

I concur.

 

[Couth]

i concur.

And continue to pay his pockets while you're at it

 

[#1 pick]

They need to think about not harming someone they so-called love, period.

Access to guns in this country is ridiculous. The mere fact that someone could go and purchase a gun from a store (and the onus is on the owner of the store to do a background check) and just go on is a scary thought to me. shyt is terrifying. Then the amount of women who end up in domestic violence/family shelters and end up leaving with their husband/boyfriend/partner a day later just shows how big of an issue it really is. But it's swept under the rug for obvious reasons.

It's one of those issues that's constant in the white community but Blacks are also doing this as well but because this is still a dominate white man's crime, Whites aren't going to change the laws that much for this.

We have to face the facts, a majority of Black America is too unhealthy mentally to be in relationship. This isn't the 1960's, there isn't a community to discipline out of line nikkas and the laws will throw you in jail for trying to protect the woman or you can get shot. Same with women who abuse men.

 

[PeridotPuss]

i concur.

And continue to pay his pockets while you're at it

are you implying women should support men financially?

 

[Buckeye Fever]

When she has an attitude, and you still say "have a great day" and as you walk away, she looks at you like

 

[Elle Driver]

It's one of those issues that's constant in the white community but Blacks are also doing this as well but because this is still a dominate white man's crime, Whites aren't going to change the laws that much for this.

We have to face the facts, a majority of Black America is too unhealthy mentally to be in relationship. This isn't the 1960's, there isn't a community to discipline out of line nikkas and the laws will throw you in jail for trying to protect the woman or you can get shot. Same with women who abuse men.

With Jim Crow, there was a sense of community because we were fighting a common enemy and had a common goal and cause. Now, with the "War on Drugs", domestic violence issues were only more amplified. And a lot of blacks talk that "pull yourself up from the boot straps" and respectability politics nonsense, so they don't see it as an issue. Broken families, broken communities, no jobs, all the wealth that we were accumulating seemingly disappeared. Domestic violence is a by product of the War on Drugs, it's wreaking havoc in our communities. The black community doesn't see it as an issue because it's black women's issue, and they're always considered secondary (much like women's rights). I think they go hand in hand.

 

[#1 pick]

With Jim Crow, there was a sense of community because we were fighting a common enemy and had a common goal and cause. Now, with the "War on Drugs", domestic violence issues were only more amplified. And a lot of blacks talk that "pull yourself up from the boot straps" and respectability politics nonsense, so they don't see it as an issue. Broken families, broken communities, no jobs, all the wealth that we were accumulating seemingly disappeared. Domestic violence is a by product of the War on Drugs, it's wreaking havoc in our communities. The black community doesn't see it as an issue because it's black women's issue, and they're always considered secondary (much like women's rights). I think they go hand in hand.

Agreed.

 

[Elle Driver]

Which is exactly why Im happy that my sisters never went with hood dudes.

One went with a good black man and the other went with a black nerd and they are doing fine.

Black nerds and seemingly good black men can be abusive as well.

 

[Elle Driver]

you getta get over it dude, there's nothing you can do to make women shift what they find attractive

they know damn well the dudes they call lames and friendzone, arent the same ones killing them in relationships

Stop it. Any man can be abusive, y'all just assume because a dude is unsuspecting and a so-called good guy he won't abuse his woman. Gtfo with that nonsense.

 

[Blackout]

Black nerds and seemingly good black men can be abusive as well.

I never said that they can't be.

I said that they are less likely to be abusive compared to other men.

It's like you guys don't even read my posts and just skim through it lol.