Winter is Coming

[Dameon Farrow]

But some of you nikkas face automatically scowl and body language tighten up when you see black women so the interaction is fukked from the start

Hahahaha this is probably a lot of it. Folks can pick up on certain vibes whether you know you are exuding them or not.

To actually speak on it....my experiences have been positive for the most part. Like overwhelmingly....I will say there was a time where this sista was cold with me and super nice to this white lady who came up behind me at this sub joint once. But that or even anything close to it very rarely happens. I pulled up at a Rally once and a sista was hitting me with the before I even got my payment to her. I hit her with the in return. That fresh shave and haircut gets their mind's right.

 

[Elle Driver]

No, I see good men and bad men. I see more bad men in the group of dudes that have the hood mentality than those who do not have it.

Exactly, you see things in black and white. You have a limited scope of understanding.

 

[Elle Driver]

It's not even about the hood vs the burbs. There are nerds in the hood. I got cousin who's an engineer who's from the hood. It's nikkas vs black folks

Stop this nonsense.

 

[Blackout]

Exactly, you see things in black and white. You have a limited scope of understanding.

No I dont. You have never seen me say that the only types of black men are hood black men and black nerds.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Yes.

Okay, no.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

most of the young men on the American side of my family look like that and they don't beat women

That's all fine and dandy but logic dictates that the guys who have the most access to women in a certain group would in fact be the same ones doing most of the damage in relationships. In laymens, guys without girlfriends aren't beating women.

I don't know how much p*ssy nerds are getting but taking a look at the 100 inmates vs 100 college student thread, you would think otherwise.

 

[Serious]

I think people are blaming the bad guys because they have the most access to Black Women, or the belief that they do.

It's the belief...
But the tables turn the older and more successful a man gets. That doesn't mean he has to resort to women his age, that are viewed as "washed up and ran through", It just means the dating pool allows him to be more selective to also include younger women, who are looking for stability, which young men can't provide...

Essentially the cycle works itself out....

 

[Blackout]

How so
There's successful asian men, who are losing out to average white dudes....

They are doing it too yet our people are still doing it.

Is the solution to stop women from making their own decisions because good men know what's good for them?

The solution of women going with good men is a good thing is it not?

 

[At30wecashout]

or you know actually relating to one another learning and enjoying sex.

Be attracted to the vision, the mind, the energy, the conversation. The sexual fluids Time to level up boo. Women are changing. ....it's what we do.

:punksaysgo: Naaaaaaaah. I wanna be able to just show up to places and know I can catch fish. This era lets me leverage independence to ask women to do the things that used to annoy me. Picking places to eat...driving across town to see them, etc. I think you are onto something.

I might have to soften my stance on single mothers, because they tend to do all that extra shyt when a dude has potential. Little does she know

 

[Blackout]

I'm not low key defending it. I'm from the hood, I grew up in the hood, I'm a hood chick.

 

[wet landscapes]

That's all fine and dandy but logic dictates that the guy who have the most access to womenin a certain group would in fact be the ones doing the most damage. In laymens, Guys without girlfriends aren't beating women.

instead of trying to pin abuse on one group of men
why don't you just not fukk with abuse at all, regardless of whos doing it

 

[Elle Driver]

That's all fine and dandy but logic dictates that the guys who have the most access to women in a certain group would in fact be the same ones doing the most of the damage. In laymens, Guys without girlfriends aren't beating women.

According to what? Where the fukk do you guys come up with this shyt?

Where did the hood mentality come from? The hood? Did it spring up out thin hair?

 

[Matt504]

The solution of women going with good men is a good thing is it not?

What is a "good man" and what is a "Bad man"?

 

[Blackout]

Where did the hood mentality come from? The hood? Did it spring up out thin hair?

I know where it needs to go. Out of the black community.

 

[Dwolf]

Cosign?

Can I live tho