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Is It Worth It For A Man Over The Age Of 35 To Date New Prospective Lovers?
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Bruh this is all fine and dandy but life ain’t this perfect story where things always align the way you want to. What if you cuffed a shorty at 23 and then y’all grow apart in your mid-30’s...how does your advice help in that situation? It doesn’t. We talking about NOW “could’ve”, “would’ve”, and “should’ve” have no place in “now”. On top of that part of finding wifey is knowing yourself and being secure in who you are and what you like...not everyone comes to that place in life at the same time.
Lastly, you are presently in an environment where you have “forced congregation” with females meaning that you are apart of a co-ed institution that places you in situations where you HAVE TO socialize with females. Once you out of school that shyt is goooooooooone and if you ain’t careful you’ll find yourself in the club every weekend trying to recreate the experience. I respect your opinion but I feel like you have not lived enough life to be telling nikkas 14 years your elder like @DatLBCGuy562 that they don’t make sense. Be humble. Use more phrases like “I don’t understand” and “please explain to me how”.
- Peace Brother.
Tell em.
I ran into the same problems. The last woman I was with forced me to choose between my purpose and her.
I can't just up and leave to go to France while trying to build a legacy. Go find a broke fucboi to do that sh*t with.
Preach!
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SheWantTheD
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Dude assumed something about and I explained how he was wrong, I wasn't coming at him like I have more wisdom then him. And if y'all grow up apart then y'all grow apart, nothing in this life is promised. But OP spent his years up until his late 40s chasing p*ssy not commitment. He knows the number of available quality women goes down as women age. Everyone knows that. If he was in a long-term relationship and they broke up in his 40s, I wouldn't have said it's his fault for chasing ass.
And I did tell him the kind of women he'll be able to find that he wants... ie what you described. A woman who has been in a long-term relationship and it ended in her late 30s, early 40s whatever. I even told him he can find some quality women in their early 30s, I didn't just say boo hoo your loss for playing the game so long.
And as for the other thing you said, I don't even hit the club like that or party every weekend. And I get choosing signs everywhere I go, and I ain't even pressed on it. If the attention were to go away, I'd be fine. My self-esteem and self-confidence isn't based on women wanting me or finding me attractive.
I ain't on social media posting pictures of myself seeking validation or nothing like that.
Monogamy taking L's
None of this shyt is a science and people will swear to you these metrics make sense
WTF is "building" anyway
With all the spending aim at women, you'd be lucky not to spend more than you bring in each month
Kids cost a million dollars to raise, off rip
Be pro marriage and kids, but, don't act like you got it figured out
So, at 27, 28, women aren't gonna have baggage?
Women been through a gang of shyt before 21, nowadays.
None of this shyt is a science and people will swear to you these metrics make sense
WTF is "building" anyway
With all the spending aim at women, you'd be lucky not to spend more than you bring in each month
Kids cost a million dollars to raise, off rip
Be pro marriage and kids, but, don't act like you got it figured out
So, at 27, 28, women aren't gonna have baggage?
Women been through a gang of shyt before 21, nowadays.
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And it's not even on the friges
Women on average want this
Again, nobody actually sat down and figure out of these expectations even make any sense
I'm scared into marriage/kids so I won't be "the old man in the club"
My Dad is 50 summin', close to a million in worth, divorced for 15 years and his youngest child about to graduate college
At some point a wife won't save you from loneliness
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SheWantTheD
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Of course they are, but it ain't the same as them in their late 30s.Monogamy taking L's
None of this shyt is a science and people will swear to you these metrics make sense
WTF is "building" anyway
With all the spending aim at women, you'd be lucky not to spend more than you bring in each month
Kids cost a million dollars to raise, off rip
Be pro marriage and kids, but, don't act like you got it figured out
So, at 27, 28, women aren't gonna have baggage?
Plus at 26-27, I can cop me a shorty straight outta college at 22.
SheWantTheD
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What now? Most people aren't making a million dollars in their lifetimeMonogamy taking L's
None of this shyt is a science and people will swear to you these metrics make sense
WTF is "building" anyway
With all the spending aim at women, you'd be lucky not to spend more than you bring in each month
Kids cost a million dollars to raise, off rip
Be pro marriage and kids, but, don't act like you got it figured out
So, at 27, 28, women aren't gonna have baggage?
Kids cost on average from when they are born to 18 around 100k, not a million
Christ..He referred to woman as having "fish tunnels" but we're the bitter ones. If you don't LIKE women just have sex with them and move on don't try to pull someone into a emotional relationship.
You have a college degree, house and a career, nikka I would hope so, you're 40 years old
Some of y’all (men and women) are just down syndrome stupid.
No reading comprehension.
Logical fallacies all over the place.
We gotta do better as a collective.
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The thought of dating in my late 30's puts me into a very depressed state. By that age most women have already live their PYT years and are bitter/jaded. And dating anything below 30 at that age seems like too much of a hassle. For me my best dating years were mid 20s. At that age there are still a good amount of women who have their youthful beauty and are maturing out of their young and dumb phase.
What now? Most people aren't making a million dollars in their lifetime
Kids cost on average from when they are born to 18 around 100k, not a million
That number was wasn't exact, of course
Keep in mind the value of the dollar and you paying for college.
Plus, kids now "need" smartphones, tablets, laptops, etc.
It was 300k in the 70's, they were including stuff like typewriters
How much does it cost to raise a child? New data shows well over $1 million
You not gonna be able to raise kids in a apartment and UBER everywhere
Two cars and house? With rent and home prices/values? That's a third of the cost
Alot of those $200k numbers leave a lot out of stuff out..but, you won't find anything saying you can raise a kid on $100k over 18 years
Million-dollar babies: The cost of raising a child - Today's Parent
I don't get what any of this means based on the point I was making--I really don't
Women don't stop having baggage the earlier they get married
Really, no one should be married before 30 nowadays
Your brain doesn't stop growing until you 27 and most people will only be a year removed from their parents paying their health insurance
