Here's another aspect that doesn't directly deal with women, but every man needs to know. YOU are directly responsible for your happiness. Make sure you don't have hate in your heart because that will apply a buzzsaw right to your happiness. One of the ways that you will diminish your happiness is to hang around a bunch of unhappy people, because moods and philosophies are infectious. You keep hanging around and you will begin to adopt their mindsets. Something important to keep in mind is that you might not like how a lot of modern women act, but never hate women. Just recognize what any particular woman you're dealing with is and treat her accordingly. If she doesn't have the proper characteristics for something positive, don't deal with her. Remember, YOU are responsible for your happiness and no one else and it's you who choose who you invite in your presence or not.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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gonna vent about some dumb shyt that happened last night 
had a date that was going fine until the very end, we were bar-hopping towards her place, the last stop we made she ran into some friends and one of these alpha bros started hitting on her and told me "i dont think its gonnna work out between you two" i gave him the 
and asked if she wanted to leave but she said no 
we kissed and i bounced. i dont know if i should bother reaching out again, shyt left a bad taste in my mouth but i know i shouldnt care that much
had a date that was going fine until the very end, we were bar-hopping towards her place, the last stop we made she ran into some friends and one of these alpha bros started hitting on her and told me "i dont think its gonnna work out between you two" i gave him the and asked if she wanted to leave but she said no we kissed and i bounced. i dont know if i should bother reaching out again, shyt left a bad taste in my mouth but i know i shouldnt care that muchwas this the first or 2nd date?gonna vent about some dumb shyt that happened last night
2nd, but the first was about a month ago, i never followed up and she just reached out to me last week. i basically quit the dating scene when classes started in september so i dont have any other options right now either, which is making things worse
I'm like you brush
do you regret not reaching out to her first after the first date?
you should still throw her to the bushes for that disrespect but a month gap in between dates is a long time, was she trying to get a free meal?
i regretted it but it wasnt a big deal, i had pretty much forgotten about her by the time she contacted me, i have too much other shyt going on
she's in investment banking and makes six figures, do women like that try to get free meals out of students
she reached out to me for the first date too and seemed into me, but i guess that could have changed as the night went on
I wouldn't let that go so easily but it would be hardwho reached out for the 2nd date?
Malikthegod
opposite of mediocre
Thoughts on giving your GIRL (not chick you're fukking or tryna bag, but someone you're in a relationship with) money? Mine asked me for some bread the other day and I didn't know how to feel about it because chicks have never outright have asked me for bread before. I let her hold it because for the most part she cooperates with your boy and it was a nominal amount, but I don't want her to think this is world vision and I'm about to sponsor her activities.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
If yall in a serious relationship, an you know she would give or have given yoy money when you needed it or ask then i dont see a problem with it
you do it if it feels right.
George Gooney
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@Astroslik If you wanna text ole girl again then go ahead. If she ignores your text then you know what to do. She could be just busy and forgot or shy. No need to let uncertainties plague your mind. A lot of negroes pushing that foolish pride shtick on you. It's not that serious. text her if YOU want to.
what i'm kicking isn't about pride and ego at all. it's about logic. if you tell a chick to text you and if she is feeling you, she will text you. if a chick is not feeling you, texting her will not convince her to feel you.
George Gooney
AA GANG AA GANG AA GANG
Honestly breh I owe an apology to you(even though I wasn't trying to come at you disrespectfully). I don't even know how I didn't read that he asked her to text him. I just thought she didn't respond to one of his texts in time. But to be fair I've been in situations where I've asked a girl to text me and couldn't or rather didn't(but did much later on). How much time has passed since this went down? He shouldn't be so caught up on one chick to begin with though. Options is the keyword @Astroslik.@gonzo8402 @Turbulent @George Gooney
brehs i decided to remove all doubt and text her saying i had a good time. The reason i did this is she is super shy and conservative so she won't make the first move.. Anyways
She replied back saying she had a great time with me and enjoyed my company and i'm a sweetheart. Multiple smiley texts
She wants to make plans for our next date
shouts out to @gonzo8402 because i like to remove all doubt as well. We like to do fun shyt (we went bowling before)so i offered to do go kart racing at a legit go kart place (60mph+) and she's really excited. not sure what to do after though.
She's about to turn 25 and i'm only 21 bout to turn 22 on wednesday
. I'm so used to 19-20 year olds it's time
brehs i decided to remove all doubt and text her saying i had a good time. The reason i did this is she is super shy and conservative so she won't make the first move.. Anyways
She replied back saying she had a great time with me and enjoyed my company and i'm a sweetheart. Multiple smiley texts
She wants to make plans for our next date shouts out to @gonzo8402 because i like to remove all doubt as well. We like to do fun shyt (we went bowling before)so i offered to do go kart racing at a legit go kart place (60mph+) and she's really excited. not sure what to do after though.She's about to turn 25 and i'm only 21 bout to turn 22 on wednesday
. I'm so used to 19-20 year olds it's time