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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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So I met this 41 year old 2 weeks ago at some bar. 2 kids, divorced, eating well off her ex. I was solo and we ended up hooking up that night. She told me if she wasn't on her period, she'd take me home. She was all about this but maybe she was a little drunk.
Anyways, we'd text here and there she was always so enthusiastic calling me "babe" and how her day is amazing blah blah blah. I never got around to calling her. So I text on Friday to say whats up and see if she had plans during for the weekend. Mind you it was during the work day so I wasn't going to call. Plus I planned on calling her that night to see if we can link up
So girl never responds to my question so I kept it moving. So I decide to call her last night to see if she got my text and just to say whats up. Never picks up nor responds.
41 year, 2 kids, divorced; I was just looking to smash. My guess she wanted more out of me which is why she flipped the switch?
did you call her within those 3 days??
Imo,if you called first,then started the texting,you might have gotten better results....
Toss her in the bushes...
These old hoes are still old school in many ways....
That texting shyt only works after you put some verbal work in
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Quick question, brehs. This female I'm talking to is acting kinda weird around one of my male friends(who's easy to be friends with and the only one she's been around). She has told me she has good relationships with the couple of male friends she has(I told her we'll never be serious if she has them)and she has a much of brothers and male cousins.
But when ever she is around this one friend (family gathering, b-day party etc.) she completely avoids him. I not sure I've seen her even say two words to him, though I always here him speak to her. She also does whatever she can to stay away from him, unless she is right next to me. Like at this last party he seems to be walking in her direction and she immediately walks away from the area.
Whenever he may be brought up in conversation for what ever reason she finds some way to discredit him. She'll say, "I hate that(his)name" , "I would never date his type" or "I don't like fat people"
I'm always like
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I don't wanna ask her did they smash(I do). And I hope he would tell me but he is a reformed slick nikka. I don't know how to proceed with no eveidnce other than her not being cordial.
But when ever she is around this one friend (family gathering, b-day party etc.) she completely avoids him. I not sure I've seen her even say two words to him, though I always here him speak to her. She also does whatever she can to stay away from him, unless she is right next to me. Like at this last party he seems to be walking in her direction and she immediately walks away from the area.
Whenever he may be brought up in conversation for what ever reason she finds some way to discredit him. She'll say, "I hate that(his)name" , "I would never date his type" or "I don't like fat people"
I'm always like
.I don't wanna ask her did they smash(I do). And I hope he would tell me but he is a reformed slick nikka. I don't know how to proceed with no eveidnce other than her not being cordial.
Quick question, brehs. This female I'm talking to is acting kinda weird around one of my male friends(who's easy to be friends with and the only one she's been around). She has told me she has good relationships with the couple of male friends she has(I told her we'll never be serious if she has them)and she has a much of brothers and male cousins.
But when ever she is around this one friend (family gathering, b-day party etc.) she completely avoids him. I not sure I've seen her even say two words to him, though I always here him speak to her. She also does whatever she can to stay away from him, unless she is right next to me. Like at this last party he seems to be walking in her direction and she immediately walks away from the area.
Whenever he may be brought up in conversation for what ever reason she finds some way to discredit him. She'll say, "I hate that(his)name" , "I would never date his type" or "I don't like fat people"
I'm always like
I don't wanna ask her did they smash(I do). And I hope he would tell me but he is a reformed slick nikka. I don't know how to proceed with no eveidnce other than her not being cordial.
she either smashed him a long time go or
she feeling him a lot and is avoiding him and make it seem like she hates him
Breh deep down you know that nikka beat that puss up alreadyQuick question, brehs. This female I'm talking to is acting kinda weird around one of my male friends(who's easy to be friends with and the only one she's been around). She has told me she has good relationships with the couple of male friends she has(I told her we'll never be serious if she has them)and she has a much of brothers and male cousins.
But when ever she is around this one friend (family gathering, b-day party etc.) she completely avoids him. I not sure I've seen her even say two words to him, though I always here him speak to her. She also does whatever she can to stay away from him, unless she is right next to me. Like at this last party he seems to be walking in her direction and she immediately walks away from the area.
Whenever he may be brought up in conversation for what ever reason she finds some way to discredit him. She'll say, "I hate that(his)name" , "I would never date his type" or "I don't like fat people"
I'm always like
I don't wanna ask her did they smash(I do). And I hope he would tell me but he is a reformed slick nikka. I don't know how to proceed with no eveidnce other than her not being cordial.
You want us to confirm it for you?
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I asked around the question and she came out and said they didn't. It ain't that serious now anyways just don't wanna be the last to know about shyt about or related to me.
I think this is the right anwser. I thought this was the answer from the get go actually. Seeing how they act around each other is weird. She said she don't vibe/ she wouldn't hang out with him.
Yeah, I think she got a crush on my homeboy. Dam
Nope, didn't really care to be honest. I'm pretty sure she considers herself a meaningful pursuit rather than disposable pleasure. I figured older woman + younger guy = meaningless sex.
Ahh well. She's in the bushes and I'm on to the next cougar.
wheneve ra girl says she hates him, or cant stand him, hes ugly bla bla = she wants his dikk
ive seen it over and over again. Dudes that get women agry and frustrated are dudes that have them confused are mysterious and dudes they give up the puzzy to
How do I know?: I've been that guy!
ive seen it over and over again. Dudes that get women agry and frustrated are dudes that have them confused are mysterious and dudes they give up the puzzy to
How do I know?: I've been that guy!
Don't run up behind chicks who not giving you no "rhythm" that she feeling you.
She don't text, don't text her ass.
She don't call you back, don't call her.
Let her come 2 you.
If she don't, throw her in tha bushes, it's OTHER BROADS OUT HERE.
Don't get hung up on ONE broad.
Have a roster of chicks/options.
She don't text, don't text her ass.
She don't call you back, don't call her.
Let her come 2 you.
If she don't, throw her in tha bushes, it's OTHER BROADS OUT HERE.
Don't get hung up on ONE broad.
Have a roster of chicks/options.
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But on the other hand I can't say I don't wanna hit none of her friends and I know they'd be down. I'm just better at hiding it.
Another ex. Funny thing is I think my homeboy even knew, cause she would flirt with me when he made her mad, in front of him. But they broke up cause of him cheating. So I know she liked me but she hide it well. She would even go as far as to tell him she thinks I'm gay to hide it.
Is it a matter of trusting her to do the right thing? Or are y'all saying anytime a girlfriend has any sexual/any attraction to a friend she more than likely to cheat/wanna cheat with him?
I assumed with every women I or any man have been with in a relationship that she at least finds one other person sexually attractive, right?
But the only problem here is it's my friend? lol
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FukyourFort
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personally i couldnt be with a girl who had that type of tension with my boy. even if she aint cheating she still feeling my boy while im dating er. maybe you should demote her to jump off status and slowly move on
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Forgot to mention. I told her that I was cheating on in a not so serious relationship in high school. She cheated w/ the a friend of my friend who I didn't really know. ( don't even know if she remembers though).
And she has also said shyt like "he's got an ugly name" about a friend of mine she hasn't even met or seen to the best of my knowledge.
Don't know if that changes anything. But do you think she's tryna reassure me or is it just game she running.
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All these "we should link up soon" text messages I've been getting lately.. It must be getting real cold and lonely to these single women 
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More than likey this will happen.
But hypothetically, say it was a long term relationship or we had kids together or was even married. How would I approach this.?
Cause my last relationship lasted a few years and I can count on my hands how many times my ex saw my friends.