Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

Sorry for going on a tagent, as far as your situation i would have played it like this. I would have waited for her to come back from the bathroom, grin at her very slightly like and pay for the whole thing without saying a word. Cause really it's not even about the money. I would have REALLY made her feel awkward and lame without saying a word. The beauty of it is, if you don't say a word, she has no "in" to defend herself. it's like you're telling her "you stupid petty bytch, I would have paid either way but you pulled a basic move to play me for something i was already gonna give you. now at least i know to avoid your calls, thank you ". And she can't answer cause it wasn't said in words. funny part is looking at the little hamster in her head racing to find an idea on how to gain back her dignity. Then I would have told her it's getting late and blablabla and drop her at her place. If she gives signs of offering puss, i would not even entertain it (and frankly it's not even playing cause the bathroom shyt would really be a turnoff). After that, never call or text, short and vague replies if she texts until she either makes me want her again or gets tired of this stupid game. After that 9 chicks out of 10 will go crazy and do anything to get back in your good graces cause that shyt is ethering their soul and self-esteem. Then you eat! That's the player way to handle it.

the mature way is practically the same. You just pay, drop her home and straight bushes. If she sends you texts or calls and asks you why you didn't call, just say you're not feeling it and KIM.

Good post, but what I will say to that is this: Personally I'd take it a step further and not send any replies at all, vague or not...unless it's a one off reply to tell her never to contact you again. If certain females exhibit terrible behaviour and show no class (especially after the age of 30 for goodness sake), they should not be given a second chance by you under any circumstances.

Remember, her attempting to get back into your good graces is just a challenge and most times not even about you per say. If shyt between you two is to end, THEY want to do it on THEIR terms, not yours. If you let her back in - even if it is to just smash - then she would have got one over on you because she'd know that her puppydog charms worked and managed to soften you up to the point where you gave her the time of day again. After you smash, then she'll just ignore YOU. Nah, I'd say especially if you have other options, send her to the bushes and don't look back. Her not being given a second chance and facing rejection from a male is the ultimate ether and would make her be on her best behaviour in future so that she doesn't even risk being dissed like that again. Trust me, if she lives to a 100 and dates 10,000 men you will always be in the back of her mind as that one dude who made her soul burn slow when you've long forgotten her. A man who was able to reject sexual offers in this sex crazed world? She'll never get over that - especially if you're a brotha. As men, we need to exercise self mastery to the point where we're completely fine on missing out on a quick nut in order to not to compromise our principles. Self respect and pride is way more important than sex.

You have to cut the cord completely and KIM. That's true #Hardonhoes.

 

[Turbulent]

Good post, but what I will say to that is this: Personally I'd take it a step further and not send any replies at all, vague or not...unless it's a one off reply to tell her never to contact you again. If certain females exhibit terrible behaviour and show no class (especially after the age of 30 for goodness sake), they should not be given a second chance by you under any circumstances.

Remember, her attempting to get back into your good graces is just a challenge and most times not even about you per say. If shyt between you two is to end, THEY want to do it on THEIR terms, not yours. If you let her back in - even if it is to just smash - then she would have got one over on you because she'd know that her puppydog charms worked and managed to soften you up to the point where you gave her the time of day again. After you smash, then she'll just ignore YOU. Nah, I'd say especially if you have other options, send her to the bushes and don't look back. Her not being given a second chance and facing rejection from a male is the ultimate ether and would make her be on her best behaviour in future so that she doesn't even risk being dissed like that again. Trust me, if she lives to a 100 and dates 10,000 men you will always be in the back of her mind as that one dude who made her soul burn slow when you've long forgotten her. A man who was able to reject sexual offers in this sex crazed world? She'll never get over that - especially if you're a brotha. As men, we need to exercise self mastery to the point where we're completely fine on missing out on a quick nut in order to not to compromise our principles. Self respect and pride is way more important than sex.

You have to cut the cord completely and KIM. That's true #Hardonhoes.

and this is an even higher level of game. Best game is no game. props to you breh

 

[DaRealness]

and this is an even higher level of game. Best game is no game. props to you breh

No probs, I'm still learning too.

 

[RealAssanova]

@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Mr Hate Coffee @Turbulent @T-K-G @Meet The Sniper
@twan83

Spoiler

Aight brehs so y'all may remember I was talking about a 33 year old chick who was showing me some interest in the post I quoted. Well tonight me and her went out. She makes the third date I went out on this week. Wednesday I went out with a chick and on Thursday another. Well I meet up with shorty tonight and we hit up a spot called Red Rooster in harlem. I heard about the place from a few associates but had no idea what to expect. We get to the restaurant and it's clearly some high established classy joint. We walk through the door and they ask us if we had a reservation. A reservation??? They said ok well we may have a few tables downstairs. So we walk to the downstairs area and they seat us and hand us menus. I look at the menu and there's only like 10 meals on it to choose from. Most of it is seafood which I'm allergic to . shyt is like $20 dollars a meal at that. I look at the menu and see the appetizers got some chicken, waffle combos, but it's 16 bucks FOR A APETIZER . She says that she wants to try the chop suey shyt(whatever the fukk that is). Her food costed 23 dollars. That along with my meal makes $39. Normally I have a rule that I don't spend more than $30 on a date. When I got out I bring only about $50 cash Just to make sure I don't go over that limit. I had my bank card too but I never swipe my card in restaurants(I know nikkas who be doing that scam shyt with the black box where they swipe your card and get all your info). So we're still looking at the menu making our final decisions and the waitress comes and asks us if we'd like anything to drink. The choices of water are (distilled, sparking and regular tap) I say "Just water" . She says can I have "sparkling water". The waitress is like "sure!" We also order our meals and start to talking. They bring us our waters and mine is a medium sized wine glass with some water and ice in it. Hers is a glass and tall ass container of some sparkly ass bubbly water that I know ain't free. We're having a great convo lots of touching and flirting and laughing. I can tell she feeling your boy. Our food gets here and we start grubbing. I had two medium ass pieces of fried chicken and two small ass waffles. I don't give a fukk tho cause i'm not really that hungry. We're still talking, More laughs and touching and flirting(I can smash soon! I know it!). The chemistry was AMAZING! It didn't feel like a first date. We were talking about crappy jobs we had in the past and I brought a Job I had years ago at a coffee shop making drinks and waiting tables. She asks me "what color is a latte?" I'm like "what color?" she's like "yea! Like is it my complexion? Your complexion?" I don't know what the fukk she was getting at with that question. She's a little on the light side and I'm a brown skin dude. I said some smooth shyt outta nowhere like "If we had a Baby. That color!" Her eyes lid up and she started blushing. So I know I planted that sexual seed In her mind unintentionally. Well we're talking more and laughing and we finish our food. One of the waiters comes and takes our plates. Our waitress comes back like "Would you guys like to see a dessert menu?" I can only Imagine how expensive their desserts are So i'm like "Nah I'm good. I don't like sweets". Here shorty Go "I'd like to see one" On the inside I'm like . So they bring over two menus and she's like "You see anything you like? Something not too sweet?" I'm Like nah I'm good. But she orders some apple crust yogurt shyt. They bring that over and two plates and spoons. She's like are you gonna share it with me? eith the puppy dog eyes. I'm like nah you might have cooties. She's like your were just touching me(I was playing this intimacy game with her. which required us holding hands). I'm like "so I didn't lick them" She's like "whatever" and slides a little piece of it onto my plate. I try it and it's not so bad We're talking more and our birthdays are a day apart. And she jokes around like "we're gonna bump heads a lot in our relationship". I'm ready to get the fukk up outta there. So the waitress comes and brings us the bill. Altogether shyt came up to like 65 bucks(without tip!) Because of that damn dessert and water!!! Shorty gets up and excuses herself to go the bathroom. I take out my wallet and Pull out my 50 dollar bill and put it on the table(This chick is putting something in! I don't give a fukk how cute she is!) So she gets rom the bathroom(which took longer than usual. I see what she was trynna do.) So I get up and I go to the bathroom while she sits at the table.I take a piss wash my hands and come back to find she ain't put down no bread! So We talk it out and I'm like "Put down something and I'll pay you back when we get outside near an ATM." She start complaining and shyt and I'm not trynna hear none of that. So she reaches in her purse and pulls out two 5 dollar bills. I'm Like "you short 5" she like "well this is all I got, You don't have a card?" I'm like "You don't have a card!?!?!? . Apparently she doesn't. She's like blah blah blah this is awkward, you should've told me there was a limit blah blah blah. She gets up out her seat and Is like "Well I'm going upstairs I'll leave this for you to handle". She gets up and starts walking upstairs. So I get up and I start walking up the stairs! We almost get to the door when the waitress comes up on me taps me on the shoulder. I turn around And shorty keeps walking so fukk It I pay with my bank card. But the time it's all said and done shorty Is Long gone. I know I prolly fukked this up with her. But how she come to dinner and assume I'ma pay for her and not bring no paper??? Then try to walk off and leave me like ima be washin dishes dolo on some herb shyt? Bushes for her!










But yea So two outta three dates this week. Not so bad! I just wanted to share this story with my brehs. It's probably an L for me but I still feel good cuz I got the other two chicks to fall back on. Have options brehs.

my n!gga words cannot even begin to describe how badly i was laughing last night when i read dis shyt.

Holy fukkkk. DAPPED AND FUKKIN REPPED.

 

[George Gooney]

Gooney did that. So hopefully Yall won't have to go through that!

 

[RealAssanova]

yeah breh, like Darealness said, this one is kind of on you. should have made it clear from the get go. OR should have asked for seperate bills. Not feeling her style though. she's pulled some lame shyt. chicks like that are not quality. I even know legit golddiggers with more style and class. The way i see it, a chick with real game won't even need to pull these silly bathroom moves. She'll genuinely make you feel like paying for her as if she was your girlfriend. She will make you feel like wanting to take care of her without her even trying.

i used to be VERY anti-dates. I still am to some degree but i've relaxed my ideas on this because i realized it's not dating itself that's the problem. it's the intent behind the date that's the problem. it's the chicks we choose to go on dates with that's the problem. I keep saying it but it's really something i believe in. Pick chicks that are choosing you and you will not even have these types of problems.

I told this story before but one of the last chicks i went on a date with, she's the one who asked me out, I was gonna pay for my ticket but she legit tricked me into paying for mine. she was choosing hard. last chick i went on a "date" with, she asked me if i wanted to see a movie, we went dutch on the tickets. was hungry so i ask her if she wanted to go grab something to eat. Paid for her shyt cause it just felt right but i still made her put in work and told her to put that shyt in her bag to sneak it in the movies (i was inspired, lol). You gotta go with your gut and what feels right. I made a post about awkwardness once. It's really fascinating how scared we all are of awkwardness. Awkwardness is not the enemy. Your fear of it is. Awkwardness can actually be your ally. Once someone feels like you're trying to avoid awkwardness, they know instinctively they can control you. We'll do almost anything to avoid it. see that chick in the first example, she was feeling me at that point in time and she paid the tickets while i wasn't there to avoid an awkward moment. She wasn't willing to risk letting money or awkwardness be an obstacle in us getting closer. She didn't want to even risk making me feel like she's trying to play me because she feared i would dismiss her for it. And it has little to do with money or looks. Once you learn to give up control on who chooses you, you're in business.



Sorry for going on a tagent, as far as your situation i would have played it like this. I would have waited for her to come back from the bathroom, grin at her very slightly like and pay for the whole thing without saying a word. Cause really it's not even about the money. I would have REALLY made her feel awkward and lame without saying a word. The beauty of it is, if you don't say a word, she has no "in" to defend herself. it's like you're telling her "you stupid petty bytch, I would have paid either way but you pulled a basic move to play me for something i was already gonna give you. now at least i know to avoid your calls, thank you ". And she can't answer cause it wasn't said in words. funny part is looking at the little hamster in her head racing to find an idea on how to gain back her dignity. Then I would have told her it's getting late and blablabla and drop her at her place. If she gives signs of offering puss, i would not even entertain it (and frankly it's not even playing cause the bathroom shyt would really be a turnoff). After that, never call or text, short and vague replies if she texts until she either makes me want her again or gets tired of this stupid game. After that 9 chicks out of 10 will go crazy and do anything to get back in your good graces cause that shyt is ethering their soul and self-esteem. Then you eat! That's the player way to handle it.

the mature way is practically the same. You just pay, drop her home and straight bushes. If she sends you texts or calls and asks you why you didn't call, just say you're not feeling it and KIM.

This shyt is straight gospel. I don't know why n!ggaz don't realize we have some very powerful powers. Manhood and masculinity is just .

Turbulent, i remember bout 4 years ago me and dis shorty agreed to fukk before she decided to switch it up on me talmbout wanting to go out on dates and shyt when earlier on she was talmbout fukkin in my whip down her street . At that time i didn't fully grasp the idea that she didn't wanna come off as easy or a h0e especially since she seemed shy around me until i brought da devil out in her so i told her to KIM. 6 months later i get a random text and it was her. I asked her if dat azz still lookin juicy and shyt and she was like ofcourse and how she goes to da gym and its toned and all. So, me being da naive one, i thought i had her in da bag and went for it..bout a few days later. Here is da wtf moment. During dat space of 6 months or so, summin happened to her that made her become cocky. I straight up told her when we gonne fukk? She is like when you get your own place, your job and whip then come holla at me. I told her to stop frontin as we both young and ain't no one got time for them talks. Man, dis broad then tells me to get a life and that she outta my league??? So i simply said aight, das cool and deleted her off bbm and never spoke to her again.

Funny enough last summer, i'm at dis african festival wit my breh's chyllin and shyt, when who decides to come up on some 'heyyyyy real_assanova" shyt and hug me . I didn't crack a smile or nothing. I had on a straight face, monotone voice and kept looking elsewhere while she was talking to me. She did not move her eyes from my face not ONCE. I kept it short, cordial and had dat vibe eminating the whole time. She then had da nerve to say we should catch up and i shut her down wit da quickness sayin i don't think its a good idea...but that it was nice seeing her. Da look on her face breh's.

 

[Turbulent]

This shyt is straight gospel. I don't know why n!ggaz don't realize we have some very powerful powers. Manhood and masculinity is just .

Turbulent, i remember bout 4 years ago me and dis shorty agreed to fukk before she decided to switch it up on me talmbout wanting to go out on dates and shyt when earlier on she was talmbout fukkin in my whip down her street . At that time i didn't fully grasp the idea that she didn't wanna come off as easy or a h0e especially since she seemed shy around me until i brought da devil out in her so i told her to KIM. 6 months later i get a random text and it was her. I asked her if dat azz still lookin juicy and shyt and she was like ofcourse and how she goes to da gym and its toned and all. So, me being da naive one, i thought i had her in da bag and went for it..bout a few days later. Here is da wtf moment. During dat space of 6 months or so, summin happened to her that made her become cocky. I straight up told her when we gonne fukk? She is like when you get your own place, your job and whip then come holla at me. I told her to stop frontin as we both young and ain't no one got time for them talks. Man, dis broad then tells me to get a life and that she outta my league??? So i simply said aight, das cool and deleted her off bbm and never spoke to her again.

Funny enough last summer, i'm at dis african festival wit my breh's chyllin and shyt, when who decides to come up on some 'heyyyyy real_assanova" shyt and hug me . I didn't crack a smile or nothing. I had on a straight face, monotone voice and kept looking elsewhere while she was talking to me. She did not move her eyes from my face not ONCE. I kept it short, cordial and had dat vibe eminating the whole time. She then had da nerve to say we should catch up and i shut her down wit da quickness sayin i don't think its a good idea...but that it was nice seeing her. Da look on her face breh's.

From the beginning to the end you did everything perfect and never compromised your dignity

 

[RealAssanova]

Good post, but what I will say to that is this: Personally I'd take it a step further and not send any replies at all, vague or not...unless it's a one off reply to tell her never to contact you again. If certain females exhibit terrible behaviour and show no class (especially after the age of 30 for goodness sake), they should not be given a second chance by you under any circumstances.

Remember, her attempting to get back into your good graces is just a challenge and most times not even about you per say. If shyt between you two is to end, THEY want to do it on THEIR terms, not yours. If you let her back in - even if it is to just smash - then she would have got one over on you because she'd know that her puppydog charms worked and managed to soften you up to the point where you gave her the time of day again. After you smash, then she'll just ignore YOU. Nah, I'd say especially if you have other options, send her to the bushes and don't look back. Her not being given a second chance and facing rejection from a male is the ultimate ether and would make her be on her best behaviour in future so that she doesn't even risk being dissed like that again. Trust me, if she lives to a 100 and dates 10,000 men you will always be in the back of her mind as that one dude who made her soul burn slow when you've long forgotten her. A man who was able to reject sexual offers in this sex crazed world? She'll never get over that - especially if you're a brotha. As men, we need to exercise self mastery to the point where we're completely fine on missing out on a quick nut in order to not to compromise our principles. Self respect and pride is way more important than sex.

You have to cut the cord completely and KIM. That's true #Hardonhoes.

I CAN ATTEST TO THIS SHYT 100%.


but i'mma need @His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @T-K-G @Meet The Sniper @twan83 @DaRealness to chime in on dis scenario also.

Earlier on dis semester der is dis mixed broad(black and summin else) in couple of my classes...nice and thick body. 1st class i noticed her and she noticed me too but i never said nothin until da 2nd class during da same day. I went and sat right next to her and said wassup..seein as how we in da same class together i figured we might aswell get to kno one another. So sure enough, we exchanged names and shyt, talked and walked out together. So i ask for her number and she kinda hesitated and came up wid sum excuse so i let it slide and we went to da bookstore together. So while we in da bookstore shorty just walks up on out and leaves without sayin shyt. So i'm like, aight its like dat?cool. For da next 2 months, i didn't look or say shyt to her. Until these last 2 weeks. Bruh's, dis girl is on me like . I think she saw me softening up and came right in. I mean, now she waits for me after class even if we da last two left, she always comes upto me during class and even yesterday she texted me her number cuz i told her to send me an e-mail about class shyt.

I read her body language and pay attention to her eyes, and maybe its me but she ALWAYS lookin at my lips, hair and we touch each other too.

I unno breh's, part of me sayin she is happy she gettin my attention and soakin it all in and part of me sayin she is feelin da kid. I ain't gonne front, i would fukk da shyt outta her. She a young single (unsure about dis) mother too . I think i'mma chill, let dis slide and keep her on dat friend/study buddy tip cuz she is also smart too. I have a feelin if i was to go in for da kill, she gonna definitely feel like she got me and i ain't bout to let dat happen.

 

[DaRealness]

I CAN ATTEST TO THIS SHYT 100%.


but i'mma need @His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @T-K-G @Meet The Sniper @twan83 @DaRealness to chime in on dis scenario also.

Earlier on dis semester der is dis mixed broad(black and summin else) in couple of my classes...nice and thick body. 1st class i noticed her and she noticed me too but i never said nothin until da 2nd class during da same day. I went and sat right next to her and said wassup..seein as how we in da same class together i figured we might aswell get to kno one another. So sure enough, we exchanged names and shyt, talked and walked out together. So i ask for her number and she kinda hesitated and came up wid sum excuse so i let it slide and we went to da bookstore together. So while we in da bookstore shorty just walks up on out and leaves without sayin shyt. So i'm like, aight its like dat?cool. For da next 2 months, i didn't look or say shyt to her. Until these last 2 weeks. Bruh's, dis girl is on me like . I think she saw me softening up and came right in. I mean, now she waits for me after class even if we da last two left, she always comes upto me during class and even yesterday she texted me her number cuz i told her to send me an e-mail about class shyt.

I read her body language and pay attention to her eyes, and maybe its me but she ALWAYS lookin at my lips, hair and we touch each other too.

I unno breh's, part of me sayin she is happy she gettin my attention and soakin it all in and part of me sayin she is feelin da kid. I ain't gonne front, i would fukk da shyt outta her. She a young single (unsure about dis) mother too. I think i'mma chill, let dis slide and keep her on dat friend/study buddy tip cuz she is also smart too. I have a feelin if i was to go in for da kill, she gonna definitely feel like she got me and i ain't bout to let dat happen.

....and she's a single mother, too?

Just keep it strictly professional and nothing more. If she wanted something to develop, she had her chance. Other than y'all educational shyt, I wouldn't treat her as anything more than an acquaintance.

 

[Spin]

Saw these two videos on Youtube today. The first is a guy asking 100 different women to have sex with him. You can tell some of the girls liked him, but were giving the automatic no response. I say a good % of them he could have pushed and prob got some closes. The second is a girl asking guys. at some of the guys facial reactions.

 

[Turbulent]

I CAN ATTEST TO THIS SHYT 100%.


but i'mma need @His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @T-K-G @Meet The Sniper @twan83 @DaRealness to chime in on dis scenario also.

Earlier on dis semester der is dis mixed broad(black and summin else) in couple of my classes...nice and thick body. 1st class i noticed her and she noticed me too but i never said nothin until da 2nd class during da same day. I went and sat right next to her and said wassup..seein as how we in da same class together i figured we might aswell get to kno one another. So sure enough, we exchanged names and shyt, talked and walked out together. So i ask for her number and she kinda hesitated and came up wid sum excuse so i let it slide and we went to da bookstore together. So while we in da bookstore shorty just walks up on out and leaves without sayin shyt. So i'm like, aight its like dat?cool. For da next 2 months, i didn't look or say shyt to her. Until these last 2 weeks. Bruh's, dis girl is on me like . I think she saw me softening up and came right in. I mean, now she waits for me after class even if we da last two left, she always comes upto me during class and even yesterday she texted me her number cuz i told her to send me an e-mail about class shyt.

I read her body language and pay attention to her eyes, and maybe its me but she ALWAYS lookin at my lips, hair and we touch each other too.

I unno breh's, part of me sayin she is happy she gettin my attention and soakin it all in and part of me sayin she is feelin da kid. I ain't gonne front, i would fukk da shyt outta her. She a young single (unsure about dis) mother too. I think i'mma chill, let dis slide and keep her on dat friend/study buddy tip cuz she is also smart too. I have a feelin if i was to go in for da kill, she gonna definitely feel like she got me and i ain't bout to let dat happen.

yup. You made your intentions known early and she fronted on you. now she's jocking, if she wants something let her speak up or not. there's the expression of "meet me halfway" but you already walked to the midpoint when you asked for her number at the beginning of the semester. it's up to her to choose if she wants to walk and meet you at the mid point or stay where she is. if she wants something, let her humble herself and ask for it just like you humbled yourself. at the same time, that will teach her never to front on you again.

after that, whatever you want from her, make it on your terms. She either takes it or leaves.

 

[RealAssanova]

....and she's a single mother, too?

Just keep it strictly professional and nothing more. If she wanted something to develop, she had her chance. Other than y'all educational shyt, I wouldn't treat her as anything more than an acquaintance.

yup. You made your intentions known early and she fronted on you. now she's jocking, if she wants something let her speak up or not. there's the expression of "meet me halfway" but you already walked to the midpoint when you asked for her number at the beginning of the semester. it's up to her to choose if she wants to walk and meet you at the mid point or stay where she is. if she wants something, let her humble herself and ask for it just like you humbled yourself. at the same time, that will teach her never to front on you again.

after that, whatever you want from her, make it on your terms. She either takes it or leaves.

points breh's.

Only thing is dat shorty pressin up on me hard dat has me all . I mean, we went 2 months of obvious no contact whatsoever and shyt...den within da past few days she be ditichin da people i always used to see her wid for me, randomly comin up to me in class before da lecture and during break, lendin me a pencil/pen and paper when i didn't even ask her..and da stares brehs. I always catch her lookin. I kno i prolly thinkin into this shyt too much, but this offensive pressure be catchin me off gaurd and shyt. I feel like i am loosening my grip.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

I feel you on that. You are right in always wanting to make sure a woman is bringing something to the table. I just had to reaffirm the point that you never want to lower your masculinity down to meet a woman. I would tell any man here to never give up their manhood, despite what society tells them. If a woman is getting emotional and acting out, never meet her at her level and get emotional and start yelling as we.. Be calm and act in the position of a man. The reason I'm saying this is because I know a lot of men 'react' to women. In other words, if a woman does something, they will go and do something similar back. If she slashes his tires, he will smash her computer or something of that nature. Manhood is separate and unaffected by what a woman does and manhood is the basis for your actions and not reacting in like kind to a woman.

yeah a female at work 'snapped' on me, it wasn't anything too bad but i didnt do shyt so fukk i look like taking that

i just didn't react to it with something negative or argumentative, just got back to doing my work and stayed quiet in regards to her. she came back several times apologizing to me and shyt, coming up with an excuse or whatever. it got to the point where it was kind of embarrassing to have her keep apologizing to me in front of others, so i was like it's all whatever


i think i handled it alright, but i could probably work on handling it better in the future. you live n you learn tho

 

[FukyourFort]

points breh's.

Only thing is dat shorty pressin up on me hard dat has me all . I mean, we went 2 months of obvious no contact whatsoever and shyt...den within da past few days she be ditichin da people i always used to see her wid for me, randomly comin up to me in class before da lecture and during break, lendin me a pencil/pen and paper when i didn't even ask her..and da stares brehs. I always catch her lookin. I kno i prolly thinkin into this shyt too much, but this offensive pressure be catchin me off gaurd and shyt. I feel like i am loosening my grip.

thats not an option. these girls are ruthless. you seen what happened when you showed interest. shes craving for attention. dont give in. you cant!!!!she'll eat you alive

 

[RealAssanova]

thats not an option. these girls are ruthless. you seen what happened when you showed interest. shes craving for attention. dont give in. you cant!!!!she'll eat you alive

dats why i'm keepin her on a strictly friend/study buddy tip. Unless she literally throws it at me den it dat case, i got no choice but to