Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You see a lot of women doing what they aren't supposed to be doing, but don't let that get you down and make you hate women. You simply have to steer clear of the landmines and keep on enjoying life while leaving yourself open to that quality woman. Don't blame the actions of some for all.
 

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brehs,

so i'm trying this new approach, i've been just trying to rack up numbers lately, have been pretty successful, got a few, getting numbers is the easy part.....

i have always focused on one chick but now i'm gonna see how this goes, shyt might not even work and not even be me but ....
 

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Time is the only thing. I have my own ex fiance and I remember those days and nights and months. Now I can think about her and its :ehh:iI'll always love her but not in that way.

Its like she's just another peeson like day a long lost family member that you love rarely seen.

Time and no contact is the only thing


Now on the other hand the only other girl I ever loved is still on my mind sadly. What's worse she lives a few streets away from me. Its been like almost 4 years now and sometimes I still struggle, every time I see her a part of me SIMPs

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Keep for keeping it real and 100% in this thread. I check back here every so often to peep game. I know how the game works but find myself weak to this day for a ex fiance.... This thread is a reminder of not to slip back into simpery.
 

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I always say do it like applying for a job, you keep looking searching applying until you get offered a position.

Dates are just interviews


brehs,

so i'm trying this new approach, i've been just trying to rack up numbers lately, have been pretty successful, got a few, getting numbers is the easy part.....

i have always focused on one chick but now i'm gonna see how this goes, shyt might not even work and not even be me but ....
 

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Time is the only thing. I have my own ex fiance and I remember those days and nights and months. Now I can think about her and its :ehh:iI'll always love her but not in that way.

Its like she's just another peeson like day a long lost family member that you love rarely seen.

Time and no contact is the only thing


Now on the other hand the only other girl I ever loved is still on my mind sadly. What's worse she lives a few streets away from me. Its been like almost 4 years now and sometimes I still struggle, every time I see her a part of me SIMPs


Yeah I'm at right about a year, and it still gets me like it was last month. I guess that's what real love will do to you....

I see a lot of dudes and chicks bounce back in less than a month and talk about "love of their life" and I'm like nahhhhhh. NO way, I'm still trying to shake back and its been a minute...


I mean I know everyone is different but when you lose the person you feel is "the one love" shaking back in a month or so I just can't see
 

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Few people know what love is.

Many women have told me they loved me none beside my mom and sister are still around.

The two women I told I love that are not my mom sistee or grandma I still do.

I remember after my ex fiancé is just be holed up at home reading relationship boards watching romantic movies, losing mad weight not even caring if I died or not.

But its true what people say there's a light at the end of the tunnel. I always say womenpve on much more easier because its easy for them to hop into bed or forge a new relationship withssomeone new or going out with the girls etc. For men your on your own.


The only thing that Still bothers me with both women I have loved is that I met them when they were both nothing, one I met she was a hs parents poor, struggled with English

Second I met broken home, unemployed , family didn't even care about her

And I molded them both into greatness and someone else reaped the finish product

My ex fiancé is now a professor at a university
And the second girl has a great career both thanks to me

:sadcam:

But all you can do is sit back and watch as time goes, I used to social media stalk both of them every day back in the day always on my mind then one day you just don't care anymore



Yeah I'm at right about a year, and it still gets me like it was last month. I guess that's what real love will do to you....

I see a lot of dudes and chicks bounce back in less than a month and talk about "love of their life" and I'm like nahhhhhh. NO way, I'm still trying to shake back and its been a minute...


I mean I know everyone is different but when you lose the person you feel is "the one love" shaking back in a month or so I just can't see
 
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just had a HUGE fight with my ex .. basically she got "closer" to some guy at work without telling me and says they are "just friends" .. LOL .. this was during our relationship, and she had the nerve to tell me after we were broken up.

then she's like she only wants to be friends with me .. LOL .. i told that bytch :camby: .. deleted her off everything .. told her i'm cutting off all contact. this bytch was stringing me along the past few weeks talking about how she wants to be with me but not sure cause i put her through shyt .. i lied to her about some things but :manny:

more fish in the sea, and plus i gotta work on myself..lose some weight, get some muscle and get my mind straight
 

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That's what women do. I've fallen for that before , the old we are just friends don't worry :heh:. Like I said women will tell you anything to calm your fears. Once km done in a relationship with a woman I sever the ties. If your a great guy and treated them well they want to offer you friendship as there sucking some other dudes dikk and stringing you along like maybe one day we will be together :cam by:

As a man one of the strongest things you have is your word and to never look back.

I remember the one thing that set Mr on this path years ago this chick dumped me but was stringing me along. One day I got fed up and said this is it and she told me yeah right you always come back to me, and that made me angry I deleted her number changed my number and never spoke to her again she later tried reaching out to me through a friend.




just had a HUGE fight with my ex .. basically she got "closer" to some guy at work without telling me and says they are "just friends" .. LOL .. this was during our relationship, and she had the nerve to tell me after we were broken up.

then she's like she only wants to be friends with me .. LOL .. i told that bytch :camby: .. deleted her off everything .. told her i'm cutting off all contact. this bytch was stringing me along the past few weeks talking about how she wants to be with me but not sure cause i put her through shyt .. i lied to her about some things but :manny:

more fish in the sea, and plus i gotta work on myself..lose some weight, get some muscle and get my mind straight
 
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That's what women do. I've fallen for that before , the old we are just friends don't worry :heh:. Like I said women will tell you anything to calm your fears. Once km done in a relationship with a woman I sever the ties. If your a great guy and treated them well they want to offer you friendship as there sucking some other dudes dikk and stringing you along like maybe one day we will be together :cam by:

As a man one of the strongest things you have is your word and to never look back.

I remember the one thing that set Mr on this path years ago this chick dumped me but was stringing me along. One day I got fed up and said this is it and she told me yeah right you always come back to me, and that made me angry I deleted her number changed my number and never spoke to her again she later tried reaching out to me through a friend.

i told her i'm cutting off all communications and i'm blocking her from social media and she was begging me not to. she's like why go through all that extreme. i told her :camby: .. i don't want her to see what i'm doing.

it was pretty bad .. i just couldn't handle it anymore. My mind was infected with her in my head. I wouldn't anything but think about her.
 
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