Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

why would the fukk would she still want me to meet her kid after what i've done and said to her? I know i shouldn't have caught feelings .. but can't help it sometimes. like i would have married this girl if there was no baggage involved. And she knew it too . fukkk it's hard.

she's a single mom..........your a guy who doesn't have children and has things going for him.

hell women wihtout kids are taking back cheaters, abusers, liars every day


how old is the hcild and how if you were tapping that for 2 years where was the child?

 

[The Frozen One]

she's a single mom..........your a guy who doesn't have children and has things going for him.

hell women wihtout kids are taking back cheaters, abusers, liars every day


how old is the hcild and how if you were tapping that for 2 years where was the child?

age 6.. she has 50% custody so sees her half the week. We would plan things way ahead in advance for the weekends. I had work during the week plus classes so i wouldn't have been able to even if she didn't have the kid. To be honest, i have no idea how this lasted 2 years given the circumstances. And i had no idea how she put up with it. She said the last 2 years, i put her through hell cause she felt constantly rejected by me. Thing is she was my only friend for the last 2 years cause we would always hang out on the weekends..i basically neglected everyone else.

Now that's over .. i'm devastated.

 

[MikelArteta]

age 6.. she has 50% custody so sees her half the week. We would plan things way ahead in advance for the weekends. I had work during the week plus classes so i wouldn't have been able to even if she didn't have the kid. To be honest, i have no idea how this lasted 2 years given the circumstances. And i had no idea how she put up with it. She said the last 2 years, i put her through hell cause she felt constantly rejected by me. Thing is she was my only friend for the last 2 years cause we would always hang out on the weekends..i basically neglected everyone else.

Now that's over .. i'm devastated.

breh im in canada to, theres tons and tons and tons of childless women out there, it hurts now because its early just cease contact, time is the only thing that heals. I know you probably cared about her, and took her for granted and now it hurts, but i don't mean to be rude or harsh you'll look back one day and realize it was for the best.

I guarantee she was stringing along someone on the side as well., and i gurantee baby dad was in them guts as well

Just hop on tinder and eat breh

you in toronto?

 

[The Frozen One]

breh im in canada to, theres tons and tons and tons of childless women out there, it hurts now because its early just cease contact, time is the only thing that heals.

I guarantee she was stringing along someone on the side as well.

Just hop on tinder and eat breh

you in toronto?

vancouver breh.

breh she put up with me for 2 years cause she thought i would eventually give in to love and accept her flaws and be with her forever. She had ideas of marriage, more kids with me etc. ya i know there are tons of childless women out there. i don't even know wtf i'm doing. I got this other chick wanting to go out with me and she actually asked me if my gf would care that i'm asking her out. lol .. but ya it'll be a while till those feelings have dropped.

don't mess with single moms .. that is all. ya fukk once or twice. But once that's done, GTFO.

 

[MikelArteta]

vancouver breh.

breh she put up with me for 2 years cause she thought i would eventually give in to love and accept her flaws and be with her forever. She had ideas of marriage, more kids with me etc. ya i know there are tons of childless women out there. i don't even know wtf i'm doing. I got this other chick wanting to go out with me and she actually asked me if my gf would care that i'm asking her out. lol .. but ya it'll be a while till those feelings have dropped.

don't mess with single moms .. that is all. ya fukk once or twice. But once that's done, GTFO.

breh i have a godson his mom is a single mom, and i legit feel sorry for her. She's a strong 9/10 but she clubs she drinks, shes pumped and dumped all the time sad life but ,

stop feeling sorry for her, put yourself first.

And women have ideas with that with every guy they come across especially single moms

 

[H@LLOW]

age 6.. she has 50% custody so sees her half the week. We would plan things way ahead in advance for the weekends. I had work during the week plus classes so i wouldn't have been able to even if she didn't have the kid. To be honest, i have no idea how this lasted 2 years given the circumstances. And i had no idea how she put up with it. She said the last 2 years, i put her through hell cause she felt constantly rejected by me. Thing is she was my only friend for the last 2 years cause we would always hang out on the weekends..i basically neglected everyone else.

Now that's over .. i'm devastated.

Take her back and be a dad to the Baster. Is she is a good woman and love you for who you are she is a keeper.

 

[MikelArteta]

Take her back and be a dad to the Baster. Is she is a good woman and love you for who you are she is a keeper.

she has him half the week, he already has a dad, which means there will be DRAMA

"your not my dad"

"dad mom is dating this new guy"

dad is prob still in mommys guts


I'd date a widower and that's about it

 

[The Frozen One]

she has him half the week, he already has a dad, which means there will be DRAMA

"your not my dad"

"dad mom is dating this new guy"

dad is prob still in mommys guts


I'd date a widower and that's about it

there was drama when we first started. basically for the first 6 months, she would tell me about the drama with the dad, how he was doing this and that .. she wasn't back with him cause he met someone else. I basically told her look i'm not there to deal with that bs so she stopped. we were basically extended friends with benefits. Cause deep inside my head, i knew there wasn't much else that would happen, but i didn't prepare myself for the aftermath.

i never met the kid either. I just couldn't do it.

I feel like i fukked up love and dating for this girl for a long time. Cause she kept saying no way a guy wants her cause of the baggage. I do feel bad for her i ain't gonna lie. I did a lot for this girl. I didn't have to but there was a reason why she put up with it for 2 years.

 

[H@LLOW]

she has him half the week, he already has a dad, which means there will be DRAMA

"your not my dad"

"dad mom is dating this new guy"

dad is prob still in mommys guts


I'd date a widower and that's about it

He might never find another one who love him for who he is. I sense that she love him unconditiobally. He might never find some one who deeply care for him.

 

[The Frozen One]

He might never find another one who love him for who he is. I sense that she love him unconditiobally. He might never find some one who deeply care for him.

breh i tried getting back with her .. she gave me the "let's be friends" talk .. she said i put her through a lot in the last 2 years and that she felt disrespected, used, a piece of garbage. she can't go back to the way it was and that she is looking for someone to accept her kid and plan a future.

it's over i basically put the final nail in the coffin.

 

[MikelArteta]

He might never find another one who love him for who he is. I sense that she love him unconditiobally. He might never find some one who deeply care for him.

she loves what he can offer

trust me there will always be another woman who will love you and care for you. Most women love a guy after a month or so.

 

[MikelArteta]

there was drama when we first started. basically for the first 6 months, she would tell me about the drama with the dad, how he was doing this and that .. she wasn't back with him cause he met someone else. I basically told her look i'm not there to deal with that bs so she stopped. we were basically extended friends with benefits. Cause deep inside my head, i knew there wasn't much else that would happen, but i didn't prepare myself for the aftermath.

i never met the kid either. I just couldn't do it.

I feel like i fukked up love and dating for this girl for a long time. Cause she kept saying no way a guy wants her cause of the baggage. I do feel bad for her i ain't gonna lie. I did a lot for this girl. I didn't have to but there was a reason why she put up with it for 2 years.

i hope you didn't believe that breh, all women bash their baby father but at the drop of a hat, she will open the legs for him.

Look my godson mom a single mom, i've heard it all, this dude cheated on her, infected her with a std, hit her, calls her names always, dating another girl, he's a loser a a$$hole, yet her child is 4 and ever yyear of his life she has gotten back with the childs father, sometimes for a week, sometimes for a few months, and it always ends, hell last time i was there dude spent the WHOLE weekend oer there.

there is the rare case the baby moms has high self esteem for herself but id say 99% of the time if dude is alive and in the childs life, hes getting in those guts

its good you didnt meet the kid heartbreak x2

ah the same ol no guy wants me for the baggage crap they spew, they forget to add "no way a guy that i find attractive who gives me tingles like my baby father did wants me"

they can get a beta male, some 5/10 guy working a blue collar gig but nah

 

[The Frozen One]

i hope you didn't believe that breh, all women bash their baby father but at the drop of a hat, she will open the legs for him.

Look my godson mom a single mom, i've heard it all, this dude cheated on her, infected her with a std, hit her, calls her names always, dating another girl, he's a loser a @sshole, yet her child is 4 and ever yyear of his life she has gotten back with the childs father, sometimes for a week, sometimes for a few months, and it always ends, hell last time i was there dude spent the WHOLE weekend oer there.

there is the rare case the baby moms has high self esteem for herself but id say 99% of the time if dude is alive and in the childs life, hes getting in those guts

its good you didnt meet the kid heartbreak x2

ah the same ol no guy wants me for the baggage crap they spew, they forget to add "no way a guy that i find attractive who gives me tingles like my baby father did wants me"

they can get a beta male, some 5/10 guy working a blue collar gig but nah

breh i'll be honest the baby daddy wasn't a problem. she married her first love, he beat her and cheated with her, so she left him. The 2 years we were together, she would talk to me from dawn till dusk. She would send me good morning text, would call me to wake up so i can go to work, or get to class. She would tell me good night. She would make me food. She tried to make me eat healthy. Breh we were acting like a married couple. Every weekend we saw each other. There were times in my head i kept wondering wtf am i doing with this girl. What if i get her pregnant. But my feelings for her was so strong. She literally had no time for other guys. I basically the 3rd guy she ever fukked. She would get mad cause i would tell her we are seeing each other too much and we need to take it easy.

but a guy at her new work showed her interest, i think that's where it changed. she basically likes this new guy and i think hoping that there's something there while trying to put me in the backburner. I'm not gonna do that. I told her she's either with me or without me. She's like oh why would he be intrested in me. I'm just an assistant, and he's the executive something something. he has options, and i have baggage etc. i told her go fukk yourself along with the new guy.. basically acted like a simp .. so i tried to have a little dignity by blowing up at her.

Whatever things didn't work.. i want to move on so i cut her off from all social media .. she begged not to cut her from fb and ig. i was like why so you could keep tabs on me, why should we do that to each other. , i didn't want to marry this chick. I was there for the fun but the feelings became stronger as time went on. We both were lonely and we had the same interests. So it basically worked but we couldn't be much more than that. Still heartbreak hurts. 2 years is a LONG time.

 

[MikelArteta]

breh i'll be honest the baby daddy wasn't a problem. she married her first love, he beat her and cheated with her, so she left him. The 2 years we were together, she would talk to me from dawn till dusk. She would send me good morning text, would call me to wake up so i can go to work, or get to class. She would tell me good night. She would make me food. She tried to make me eat healthy. Breh we were acting like a married couple. Every weekend we saw each other. There were times in my head i kept wondering wtf am i doing with this girl. What if i get her pregnant. But my feelings for her was so strong. She literally had no time for other guys. I basically the 3rd guy she ever fukked. She would get mad cause i would tell her we are seeing each other too much and we need to take it easy.

but a guy at her new work showed her interest, i think that's where it changed. she basically likes this new guy and i think hoping that there's something there while trying to put me in the backburner. I'm not gonna do that. I told her she's either with me or without me. She's like oh why would he be intrested in me. I'm just an assistant, and he's the executive something something. he has options, and i have baggage etc. i told her go fukk yourself along with the new guy.. basically acted like a simp .. so i tried to have a little dignity by blowing up at her.

Whatever things didn't work.. i want to move on so i cut her off from all social media .. she begged not to cut her from fb and ig. i was like why so you could keep tabs on me, why should we do that to each other. , i didn't want to marry this chick. I was there for the fun but the feelings became stronger as time went on. We both were lonely and we had the same interests. So it basically worked but we couldn't be much more than that. Still heartbreak hurts. 2 years is a LONG time.

let it out breh it out
yes heartbreak sucks, i was once engaged , and ha dmy heart ripped out, stomped on, set on fire, thrown on cliff, i know how it is.

and ah the ol, new attention, chicks forget who were there for them in their dark days now that they are shining bright, and again playing the victim role but i have baggage no one will want me


the best thing you can do now is NOTHING, i've been where you have been, you'll prob feel like sending a text tom or something, but DONT DO IT, trust me knowing women she will crack whether its a week or 2 or a month, the second you contact her first she will know she still has you

 

[The Frozen One]

let it out breh it out
yes heartbreak sucks, i was once engaged , and ha dmy heart ripped out, stomped on, set on fire, thrown on cliff, i know how it is.

and ah the ol, new attention, chicks forget who were there for them in their dark days now that they are shining bright, and again playing the victim role but i have baggage no one will want me


the best thing you can do now is NOTHING, i've been where you have been, you'll prob feel like sending a text tom or something, but DONT DO IT, trust me knowing women she will crack whether its a week or 2 or a month, the second you contact her first she will know she still has you

no man, i let it out to her, i poured my heart out .. i acted like a straight up simp .. pleading and begging for another chance. i told her i would do anything to get her back, even meeting her kid and be part of both their lives. She denied me. She kept saying i'll think about it and shoot me a text asking how i'm doing then the conversation would turn it well have you made a decision, oh no not yet, i'm still not sure.. then we would argue cause i would simp her... this went on every couple of days for the last 3 weeks. She's like i need to make sure you won't bail on me again and won't disrespect me. She would tell me, oh me and the guy at work are getting closer but only friends, he's not interested in me and i'm not interested in him. but she's out there getting rides from him and talking about personal conversation. I was like .. this is the same girl who told me that she doesn't believe in guys and girls being friends. She would laugh at me cause i told her i got friends that are girls.. and i would still like to hang out with them and she would give me the look.

she's finally like look ok you can meet the kid but i'm still not sure. i want to know how you gonna act and not run away. i told her there's no way i'm meeting the kid with no intentions of just being friends with you. why the fukk would i wanna do that? basically it was just back and forth arguing, and i'm in the middle of finals. I can't sleep. I keep thinking about her. So i told her fukk this shyt. i'm done ... she can go fukk the guy and live happily ever after, but i'm not sticking around to find out. Then she's like oh you still wanna meet the kid?