Beerus
Banned
Pretty much but
That's what I don't get tho, she brought a nikka food tho
, and I ain't even think she was really gon bring me that shyt I was just joking about that.
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That's what I don't get tho, she brought a nikka food tho
, and I ain't even think she was really gon bring me that shyt I was just joking about that.DaRealness
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Pretty much but
That's what I don't get tho, she brought a nikka food tho
Women can be confusing or they'll deliberately send mixed signals. They'll do or say positive shyt one minute, then when you respond you don't see them for dust. Believe me the more I deal with them, the more I'm becoming wise to their ways. Having a close female cousin I talk to helps as well. I just told her earlier about the broad who is an acquaintance of hers and I told my cousin I'm not "chasing" no broad, I'm not Wil E Coyote, especially since I haven't been given any signals too. To hell with that, I'm not gonna make a fool of myself and boost any bytch ego. I've said it before on these forums and have even been blasted for it, but I'm not from that old school of thought where the man does all the pursuing and the woman doesn't have to do shyt but sit back and play hard to get. I ain't Obama.
It's not easy, because sometimes you have to battle that inner simp and resist the temptation to pursue, especially if you're really feeling the chick. We're all still learning and growing, so no biggie.
Yea, a lot of guys fail to realize when a girl just isn't that into you. I've had girls who were into me and it was known - shyt pretty much was like butter, but with some other girls it's so much harder and you're putting in so much work for a girl who isn't even feeling you, waste of time. You have to cut your losses and just be a man. Tough pill to swallow but you'll be a better person after it.
Pretty much but
That's what I don't get tho, she brought a nikka food tho
Don't mistake bringing food for her having attraction to her. Attraction isn't bringing food to someone, that's just being nice.
I think what you can do though, if you want make a transition into the not pursuing stage. Just send her a text in a day or two saying something like 'something came up that I have to do that day,but if you wanna chill hit me up' .. just put the ball in her court and forget about her. if she ask what, tell her don't worry about it.
I was just talking to these girl and asked her out for the 3rd time over a span of a few months - I wasn't just stuck on this chick so you know, she was just one of a few chicks I was talking to. Whenever i talk to her I just ask her to chill, so this time she was like no im' busy fridays lmao. So I was just like 'if you want to chill sometime hit me up, i won't be around a lot anymore'.. she text me back immediately (mind you she'll take hours or days to text back) asking why. I aint gonna tell her why. Might not even respond to that message lol
Beerus
Banned
Yeah but I was waiting on her to tell me when she was going to be available. At this point now I'm not even gon text her anymore she's already
unless she hits me back up. Too many chicks to get at to me to get stuck on one. Its essentially the 2nd time I asked her (first time in march)out, and will be my final.
GospelDaRealness
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I always compare the dating scene to job interviews.
Look at it like this....you go for an interview and some you just KNOW were a total flop so you wouldn't even bother chase it up, some you're not so sure about and then there's those that you're almost certain you got the job. Now in my experience, the usual protocol is that if you haven't heard anything from the employer within a week, the chances are you weren't successful. There was one job I really wanted and couldn't keep my mind off it. I even called the agency three weeks later and asked if there was any feedback, only to be told they hired another candidate (them b*stards never even had the professional courtesy to send a letter or e-mail to say I didn't get the job). I learned after that that if I don't get any feedback at all after a week or two max, then it's dead in the water. This can even happen when you THINK you did well.
Then there's those interviews where you may not even be so sure, OR you get on so well with the employer that you hear back from them immediately (this happened at my current job) and they give you an offer even if they have other candidates they are seeing who are interested (you get the analogy?).
It's the same with broads. If they really like you, they ain't gonna be doing this hard-to-get b.s., or this "oh I'm busy on Fridays, lemme get back to you", or not hitting you back up straight away. Even if they lose your number (and that's almost never the case they just aren't interested) they will do like that old Calicoe vs Young Ill "who is this nikka?" - they'll wikipedia, ask jeeves, wssh, find somebody who knows somebody who knows you lol - search it in the youtube and you'll get the joke. Trust me they'll let you know they're interested no matter what their schedules are.
If they haven't responded after the first text, then it's a no go. I know deep down it stings and that ether burns, but you'll get over it and eventually even forget about the chick. Until then, don't give them the satisfaction of playing their little games. They KNOW what they're doing when they don't respond and they love it. I've seen them boast about that shyt online so none of it is by accident.
Be just as quick to send them to the bushes as if they were faulty products on a conveyor belt and keep it moving and you'll be good. In the meantime work on yourself and eventually the right chick will come along. Out of the billions of women on the planet, you're bound to come across one who is the perfect match for you.
Look at it like this....you go for an interview and some you just KNOW were a total flop so you wouldn't even bother chase it up, some you're not so sure about and then there's those that you're almost certain you got the job. Now in my experience, the usual protocol is that if you haven't heard anything from the employer within a week, the chances are you weren't successful. There was one job I really wanted and couldn't keep my mind off it. I even called the agency three weeks later and asked if there was any feedback, only to be told they hired another candidate (them b*stards never even had the professional courtesy to send a letter or e-mail to say I didn't get the job). I learned after that that if I don't get any feedback at all after a week or two max, then it's dead in the water. This can even happen when you THINK you did well.
Then there's those interviews where you may not even be so sure, OR you get on so well with the employer that you hear back from them immediately (this happened at my current job) and they give you an offer even if they have other candidates they are seeing who are interested (you get the analogy?).
It's the same with broads. If they really like you, they ain't gonna be doing this hard-to-get b.s., or this "oh I'm busy on Fridays, lemme get back to you", or not hitting you back up straight away. Even if they lose your number (and that's almost never the case they just aren't interested) they will do like that old Calicoe vs Young Ill "who is this nikka?" - they'll wikipedia, ask jeeves, wssh, find somebody who knows somebody who knows you lol - search it in the youtube and you'll get the joke. Trust me they'll let you know they're interested no matter what their schedules are.
If they haven't responded after the first text, then it's a no go. I know deep down it stings and that ether burns, but you'll get over it and eventually even forget about the chick. Until then, don't give them the satisfaction of playing their little games. They KNOW what they're doing when they don't respond and they love it. I've seen them boast about that shyt online so none of it is by accident.
Be just as quick to send them to the bushes as if they were faulty products on a conveyor belt and keep it moving and you'll be good. In the meantime work on yourself and eventually the right chick will come along. Out of the billions of women on the planet, you're bound to come across one who is the perfect match for you.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
See what I mean? LOL.
They know what the fukk they're doing, so don't give these broads ANY benefit of the doubt.
#HOH for 2014.
@DaRealness spitting that hot fiya
as well stop wasting time on women who are not interested, or showing the same interest to you as you are to them.
Why?
because theres a woman out there who wont waste your time and be interested in you.
as well stop wasting time on women who are not interested, or showing the same interest to you as you are to them.
Why?
because theres a woman out there who wont waste your time and be interested in you.
I always compare the dating scene to job interviews.
Look at it like this....you go for an interview and some you just KNOW were a total flop so you wouldn't even bother chase it up, some you're not so sure about and then there's those that you're almost certain you got the job. Now in my experience, the usual protocol is that if you haven't heard anything from the employer within a week, the chances are you weren't successful. There was one job I really wanted and couldn't keep my mind off it. I even called the agency three weeks later and asked if there was any feedback, only to be told they hired another candidate (them b*stards never even had the professional courtesy to send a letter or e-mail to say I didn't get the job). I learned after that that if I don't get any feedback at all after a week or two max, then it's dead in the water. This can even happen when you THINK you did well.
Then there's those interviews where you may not even be so sure, OR you get on so well with the employer that you hear back from them immediately (this happened at my current job) and they give you an offer even if they have other candidates they are seeing who are interested (you get the analogy?).
It's the same with broads. If they really like you, they ain't gonna be doing this hard-to-get b.s., or this "oh I'm busy on Fridays, lemme get back to you", or not hitting you back up straight away. Even if they lose your number (and that's almost never the case they just aren't interested) they will do like that old Calicoe vs Young Ill "who is this nikka?" - they'll wikipedia, ask jeeves, wssh, find somebody who knows somebody who knows you lol - search it in the youtube and you'll get the joke. Trust me they'll let you know they're interested no matter what their schedules are.
If they haven't responded after the first text, then it's a no go. I know deep down it stings and that ether burns, but you'll get over it and eventually even forget about the chick. Until then, don't give them the satisfaction of playing their little games. They KNOW what they're doing when they don't respond and they love it. I've seen them boast about that shyt online so none of it is by accident.
Be just as quick to send them to the bushes as if they were faulty products on a conveyor belt and keep it moving and you'll be good. In the meantime work on yourself and eventually the right chick will come along. Out of the billions of women on the planet, you're bound to come across one who is the perfect match for you.
funny you mention this breh, that chick who popped back in my life , last chick i slept with etc. even told me how for years (its been nearly 3 years since i saw her or talked to her), that she was looking for me on facebook, googling my name etc (i dont social network).
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i hate when females say "i'm single by choice" 
DaRealness
I think very deeply
i hate when females say "i'm single by choice"
everyone is technically single by choice.