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Yeah, at 38 years old
Thats when they start reflecting on all the bad decisions they made
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Thats when they start reflecting on all the bad decisions they made
had a chick at work once ask me if 514_________ is my number. had me like
funny you mention this breh, that chick who popped back in my life , last chick i slept with etc. even told me how for years (its been nearly 3 years since i saw her or talked to her), that she was looking for me on facebook, googling my name etc (i dont social network).
mind you i never gave anyone my number at that place and we have no one in common.
personally, i think the whole alpha beta male theory is bs too and was invented by men with low self esteem. but assuming that such a thing exists, a woman with a lot of guy friends doesn't befriend tons of alpha males. she normally has one guy she's into, one or two she would fukk if she has no other option and the rest are only there to give her attention. so if you are the one she is into, you don't have to worry about the other guys. what you will have to worry about is the hole in her soul that needs to be filled with male attention and the next guy she will be into as soon as you become boring. either that, or you avoid becoming boring by treating her bad, but that way your relationship will become a headache. that's the reason you don't wife this type of broad, the whole "she'll fukk all her friends" thing is just your insecurity speaking.no it snot complete bs, if the males are beta nice guys then yes. If the males are alpha males with options
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"He never had the makings of a varsity athlete"
...but dude hit shorty with the domeshot and then faded away smooth like "thats how I roll"..dude had to be some sort of hittahttp://www.worldstaruncut.com/uncut/65613
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Really, you gonna throw your life away when there's millions of women around the world? I know that ether burns slow, but come on.
Happy new year to all my brehs
Thanks for dropping all the knowledge
Thanks for dropping all the knowledge
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
just found this chick facebook brehs time for some snooping 
not telling her i know it though,
not telling her i know it though,
Why do chicks always play the victim especially after you tell them off on what they did wrong.
Its funny I was supposed to hang put with her yesterday not a text all day, yet I know she remembers
Already deleted her number, not surprising to me anymore what women do, few days ago it was wow its been years so happy to found you bs. Then getting cold and distant when we suppose to meet up
Already deleted her number, not surprising to me anymore what women do, few days ago it was wow its been years so happy to found you bs. Then getting cold and distant when we suppose to meet up
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
A couple of women I use to date/talk to have been poppng up lately.Winter time brings out the reflection in people 
somebody need to post that cuffing season and situationship by fabolousA couple of women I use to date/talk to have been poppng up lately.Winter time brings out the reflection in people
Starting ro see that. Going through it with my baby moms because I didn't buy my son boots when I bought him two pairs 3 weeks ago and bought all the christmas gifts and bought her a furntiruee set from Raymons and Flanigan. She called me cheap. Yo I also pit hands on her and shw never seen me snap like that before. I ready to strikeout brehs
Damn
I swear women just want to press your buttons to see what they can do to make you snap
I swear women just want to press your buttons to see what they can do to make you snap
CrossBones
Louder than words
rejection is something that men constantly try to avoid. and avoiding it never works out. instead of taking the message, we try to force things and either bribe/play nice/or hound someone till we start getting something in return. something to downplay the rejection or to make it go away. this is the problem and the reason why so many of us either get ideas that we can get what we want with trickery, or to not even bother with trying to meet someone, because we're scared of the rejection. but it doesnt really work that way. you might invest in something thats not going to return anything.
we need to let that fear of rejection go and only take it as a sign that something is not for us. its an early signifier to let it go and find something more worthwhile.
we cant control everything in life. especially people and their feelings. you cant control that, its something they have to give to you willingly. somethings will be beyong our control and thats what rejection shows to us. even in relationships, a lot of times we try to seize absolute control and ensure that things will be a certain way. but absolute control is not the same as running the show and having authority. trying to control someone and how they feel is like making someone your puppet. what you need to do is show that in your house, you have actions and you have consequences, and failing to hold up on her end results in real consequences. thats it, but she is free to go. people are scared of losing control, or of being rejected even later on in the relationship. the truth is, you want someone who will be there for you by choice, and not because theyre being manipulated or coerced to be there. simping, trying to stir jealousy, or constantly trying to threaten someone is not the way to maintain any kind of relationship. those are desperate attempts at gaining control.
the thing to do is, let go of trying to control another person, and just seek that give and take. seek maintaining a balance in a relationship, from you to her and vice versa.see who is doing what in return for what you offer. thats really all it is. that way, when things are equaling what theyre supposed to, you can see it. if not, let that go and let the rejection/failure go. its actually a good thing, if we see it like that.
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