Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I swear women just want to press your buttons to see what they can do to make you snap

a woman doesnt have the size, or the physical means to beat up a man. so she has to break him down mentally first. I think its almost instinct for a woman to try and see what she can get away with saying or doing to a man, that way she knows his weakness and where to hit him when she needs to (or wants to). or its just to test his strength. females learn to read behaviors and to work at mind games at a very young age, and in turn, learn to "have a mouth." they learn what to say and to whom to gain control of a situation

all of that can be done really foul though, and its the real scandalous women whom to try and push a man to his edge if he lets her. best thing to do is to show her that it doesnt work and that youll still do what you want to.

the first step in accepting that would be to fully understand she is gonna do whatever she is gonna do. she can do or say what she wants to. but you, in the end, are in control of your actions and how you respond. the best thing to do is to not play games with her. dont entertain her pushing your buttons, and dont deal with her if she is acting innapropriately. it goes in one ear and out the other. bounce even. its not up to her how you react to her manipulation, its up to you.

obviously, when there is a child involved thats more difficult, but in the end, you will still be in control of what you do, no matter what. and that needs to be kept in mind.
 

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Its funny I was supposed to hang put with her yesterday not a text all day, yet I know she remembers
Already deleted her number, not surprising to me anymore what women do, few days ago it was wow its been years so happy to found you bs. Then getting cold and distant when we suppose to meet up :pacspit:


this has how its been dating wise for me in the Toronto area. im in Whitby and it aint looking good in durham :to:. they all do the same shyt and act the same way. I aint caught up with getting someone but its annoying how these women pull the hot and cold after hitting you up...how that work :what:
 

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Btw regarding my situation if i see the chick again n she tries to talk to me its not a bad look for me if i just tell her outright dont talk to me no more goodbye have a nice life?
 

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Btw regarding my situation if i see the chick again n she tries to talk to me its not a bad look for me if i just tell her outright dont talk to me no more goodbye have a nice life?
Nah I wouldn't go overboard and show her you're distraught by the shyt. When you see her just keep it moving and don't linger around. I wasn't reading up on the thread so I don't know how you two see each other but make it short, brusque if you have to. I done that shyt where I tried to appear mad and act distant with a chick I was working with and ended up still talking to her. Now I don't even care about shorty anymore but yet I know if she were to bring that up it'd be embarrassing.
 

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Nah I wouldn't go overboard and show her you're distraught by the shyt. When you see her just keep it moving and don't linger around. I wasn't reading up on the thread so I don't know how you gets see each other but make it short, brusque if you have to. I done that shyt where I tried to appear mad and act distant with a chick I was working with and ended up still talking to her. Now I don't even care about shorty anymore but yet I know if she were to bring that up it'd be embarrassing.
Well i asked her out face to face to go out to da movies after da 23rd she said ok about 3 weeks ago.
Texted her last friday to set something up tells me yes n she gon check her schedule on sat n she'll let me know. Aint got a response since. So if i see her which could be when i take the bus when i start school again n she doesnt ignore me(bytches usually dont even try to talk anymore after i ask em out 60% of the time) ima tell her straight up to talk to someone else calmly(im used to being calm in them situations) if she askd why ima tell her that instead of playing she shoulda said no. :beli: i aint no sucka :camby:
 

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Btw regarding my situation if i see the chick again n she tries to talk to me its not a bad look for me if i just tell her outright dont talk to me no more goodbye have a nice life?

Nah. If she does, just tell her you're busy then keep it moving. Don't get into any emotional theatrics cos you're still giving power away by doing so.
 

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Nah. If she does, just tell her you're busy then keep it moving. Don't get into any emotional theatrics cos you're still giving power away by doing so.
Thats the thing
Most of the times i see her on the bus, n she comes n sits where im at(like 4 seats 2/2 face to face diagonally) i just want to let it b known that she can sit somewhere else :camby:
 

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Thats the thing
Most of the times i see her on the bus, n she comes n sits where im at(like 4 seats 2/2 face to face diagonally) i just want to let it b known that she can sit somewhere else :camby:

Just put your headphones on or look out the window. They want to ignore you and at the same time do little shyt to have you still paying attention to 'em to keep their little game going.

are you guys in your early 20s?
 

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Well i asked her out face to face to go out to da movies after da 23rd she said ok about 3 weeks ago.
Texted her last friday to set something up tells me yes n she gon check her schedule on sat n she'll let me know. Aint got a response since. So if i see her which could be when i take the bus when i start school again n she doesnt ignore me(bytches usually dont even try to talk anymore after i ask em out 60% of the time) ima tell her straight up to talk to someone else calmly(im used to being calm in them situations) if she askd why ima tell her that instead of playing she shoulda said no. :beli: i aint no sucka :camby:
Wrong move. You should have asked her closer to the time of the movie and it should've went something like you going there and her being asked to come with you if she wants.

When you get on the bus if you see her just ignore her. Try to not make eye contact with her so when you get on the bus sit as close as you can to the front so you don't have much time to eye around the bus and accidentally making eye contact with her. If she sees you then she'll try and come talk to you and if she does again just keep it moving. If she bring it up tell her politely she wasting your time and you don't have time to waste and then tell her peace out. If she cares she'll hit you up.
 

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Man i need p*ssy and i need it right now.....

Been on this no fap for about 90 days.

But all my bytchs done went back home from school or just not fukking with ya boy.


This ugly white chick at work got a fat ass and she say hi to me or whatever.

Now i could get her number but i just want to fukk should i just ask her some crazy ass question or try to smooth my way in?

Also she a manger at the store not my manger but one of the manger if that means anything?
:bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan:
 

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Just put your headphones on or look out the window. They want to ignore you and at the same time do little shyt to have you still paying attention to 'em to keep their little game going.

are you guys in your early 20s?
Yeah early 20s
Wrong move. You should have asked her closer to the time of the movie and it should've went something like you going there and her being asked to come with you if she wants.

When you get on the bus if you see her just ignore her. Try to not make eye contact with her so when you get on the bus sit as close as you can to the front so you don't have much time to eye around the bus and accidentally making eye contact with her. If she sees you then she'll try and come talk to you and if she does again just keep it moving. If she bring it up tell her politely she wasting your time and you don't have time to waste and then tell her peace out. If she cares she'll hit you up.
guess ill do all that but i might just use my unsocial self n she prob gon get the message
 
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