Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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DaRealness said:
They get a kick out of this. Just like you, the old me would have been chasing them up and asking myself 'why?' which is exactly what they want you to do, but now I just leave them alone and don't give them second chances. Nothing better than when you've deleted their number and then they call you at a much later date and you're like "who's this?" because you don't recognise the number on the screen.
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I whole-heartily agree and when they say who it is, delete it. This is when you start to see their true colours. She will either start getting annoying and desperate with the texts/calls or won't bother you no more. I don't know bout some dudes, but the former will have me starting to view shorty like :scusthov:instead of like :takedat: (just like how they view us when we are desperate) while the latter simply reaffirms that i was correct in never speaking to her again.

i can also speak from experience when i say that, when women see that you are a strong-willed nikka, they gonna come at you differently then others. But the minute you soften up, its a wrap. That's why i don't really believe in 2nd chances cuz its contradicts my principles...unless ofcourse it is extenuating circumstances.
 
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RealAssanova said:
I whole-heartily agree and when they say who it is, delete it. This is when you start to see their true colours. She will either start getting annoying and desperate with the texts/calls or won't bother you no more. I don't know bout some dudes, but the former will have me starting to view shorty like :scusthov:instead of like :takedat: (just like how they view us when we are desperate) while the latter simply reaffirms that i was correct in never speaking to her again.

i can also speak from experience when i say that, when women see that you are a strong-willed nikka, they gonna come at you differently then others. But the minute you soften up, its a wrap. That's why i don't really believe in 2nd chances cuz its contradicts my principles...unless ofcourse it is extenuating circumstances.
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I can definitely attest to that.

Second chances are a no no. You have to be that dude they can't play games with and who doesn't budge.
 
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Would you date a woman on an online dating site like POF? I've been on there for a month and have smashed 10 chicks with ease. I haven't even taken them out anywhere. I'm starting to think every chick on that site is jumpoff material.
 
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Jahmal said:
Would you date a woman on an online dating site like POF? I've been on there for a month and have smashed 10 chicks with ease. I haven't even taken them out anywhere. I'm starting to think every chick on that site is jumpoff material.
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Nope. Most women on POF are damaged in some way.

Smash and dash, coli friend. Nothing more.
 
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Jahmal said:
Would you date a woman on an online dating site like POF? I've been on there for a month and have smashed 10 chicks with ease. I haven't even taken them out anywhere. I'm starting to think every chick on that site is jumpoff material.
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I tried it before, but it never worked....plus I am in no way photogenic at all...
 
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DaRealness said:
I can definitely attest to that.

Second chances are a no no. You have to be that dude they can't play games with and who doesn't budge.
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i agree no second chances, you always have to let women know if they f up, or if they walk away thats it.

once you give a woman a second chance she will view you as soemone not worthy of respect
 
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Yikes...3 women at my work place want me...I have a strict rule about this...

The more I reject, the more they want me. Women are so simple minded....

Such a bad look right now...
 
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So after all this I hate don't ever speak to me again blah blah blah, my ex calls me back the day before she is suppose to move cross country with her boyfriend and breaks down and tells me that she loves me still and how she was scared blah etc etc etc... and how she in the situation she's in now because she was in a hurry to get out of were she was and was lonely. She want's to keep in touch while she's down there and all this other stuff. We literally talk two days straight up until she made it to the airport to pick dude up.



A part of me respects her for breaking down and telling me what I already knew... but at the same time meh. She isn't a scandalous chick by any means but she's still a female.


A few months ago this would have crushed me, but I guess I'm finally at a point where I can wish her the best. But its good knowing that she knows she missed out on "true" love, good person, good looks and pretty decent money. Mostly the love thing tho... she's with someone she loves now but she's still in love with me and we haven't been together in over a year.



I'll always love her, I'll always have her back.... But I can finally say that I think im finally free of that complete love lock down she had on me


:blessed:
 
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