Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I remember when it was only black men who didn't put up with women's shyt, and black men use to get scapegoated all the time. Now all these other guys of all different races are waking up. But they are only waking up, because the court system/dating scene is working for them. Black men had no choice since the war on drugs/poverty/cointelpro/feminism hit the black community hard. Now most black men see women for what they really are
 

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dont sleep breh the is a lot of knowledge in this blog,its affiliated with the brothers with no game webserie
www.thisisyourconscience.com
http://www.thisisyourconscience.com...l-youre-in-love-to-reveal-who-you-really-are/

Personally, I’m a big proponent of keeping it 100 with people when they are essentially strangers or new friends. Yes, I will tell you that I may not be over my ex, and I’m using this date to help a brother move on. Yes, I will tell you that my finances are messed up because I recently lost my job. Yes, I will tell you all of that because I have no emotions invested in you yet, so you walking out the door is fine by me. But once you start trying to reflect the image of the perfect person, you start crafting a picture of yourself that is far from the reality. And it’s a bytch trying to remember and live your lies on a daily basis. But, even worse than that, eventually the TRUTH is going to come to the surface, and if that happens when you’re now in love with this person, you’re officially screwed.
 

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dont sleep breh the is a lot of knowledge in this blog,its affiliated with the brothers with no game webserie
www.thisisyourconscience.com
http://www.thisisyourconscience.com...l-youre-in-love-to-reveal-who-you-really-are/

Personally, I’m a big proponent of keeping it 100 with people when they are essentially strangers or new friends. Yes, I will tell you that I may not be over my ex, and I’m using this date to help a brother move on. Yes, I will tell you that my finances are messed up because I recently lost my job. Yes, I will tell you all of that because I have no emotions invested in you yet, so you walking out the door is fine by me. But once you start trying to reflect the image of the perfect person, you start crafting a picture of yourself that is far from the reality. And it’s a bytch trying to remember and live your lies on a daily basis. But, even worse than that, eventually the TRUTH is going to come to the surface, and if that happens when you’re now in love with this person, you’re officially screwed.


good look on that. thats my cuz
 

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Bish done went Ice cold on a nikka, everything was all good, than the phone calls and text stop, and no returning of phone calls.
Not even going to try and figure out why, on to the next. :camby:
I just cut this girl off for the very same reason. The cooperation was good in the beginning, then all the sudden the text delays started to happen so I'm not even gonna trip and just keep it moving.
 

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Main point and fact is that women are problems if you let them be. It comes down to careful decision making and who you let around you. If the only screen you have to let a woman into your castle (your life) is that she looks pretty, you are inviting all kinds of problems into your life. Looks are what 'swag' is to females. We get on women all the time for getting taken advantage of by dudes who only bring 'swag' to the table, but a lot of men get taken because the only criteria they have is that she looks pretty. Also, the respect you get is the respect you demand. If you let women slick talk you and put you on the backburner, that's exactly the position you will be in when dealing with them. It's better to be alone than to be in the presence of disrespectful females.
 

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Text I got from a chick I haven't heard from in a minute, "When are we hanging out again? I wanna do something fun soon"

:mjlol:She thinks she can't hit me when she's bored and want something fun to do? So I can foot the bill for her enjoyment?


The Audacity :dead:

please tell me it was dat hoe that went cold on you? :mjlol:
 

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Text I got from a chick I haven't heard from in a minute, "When are we hanging out again? I wanna do something fun soon"

:mjlol:She thinks she can't hit me when she's bored and want something fun to do? So I can foot the bill for her enjoyment?


The Audacity :dead:
I would have told her "sure we can hang out again, so where are you taking me out to?"
 

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I would have told her "sure we can hang out again, so where are you taking me out to?"

nah breh, this breezy lost. Forget the hang out, don't even give dis hoe your attention, cuz that shyt be valuable.

Nah lol this is another chick from way back who was tryna play me for a fool as well.

"Who is this?"

She replies.

Delete.

and as for ole cold chick...she's comin breh. Hang tight. Little does she kno doe, she took an L. :banderas:
 
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It's coo seeing more men stand up and avoiding 'male ho'd'
Text I got from a chick I haven't heard from in a minute, "When are we hanging out again? I wanna do something fun soon"

:mjlol:She thinks she can't hit me when she's bored and want something fun to do? So I can foot the bill for her enjoyment?


The Audacity :dead:

lol you know the average simp would be like baby where u wanna go? how bout dinner? it's coo seeing how men here ain't down with being a backburner negro

it's a trip to me how some of these women will hit you up out of nowhere... not even say, hey, how have you been.. just pop up on some, i'm bored, entertain me type of tip. what really gives these women the audacity to make these kind of notions so many men will jump at the chance. they got these women feeling themselves to where they feel like they can hit brothas up and demand entertainment.the average guy wont, but I find it offensive when a woman hits me up out the blue like, "I'm bored, entertain me"... like I'm some kind of clown here to provide thrills when you want it.

I think it was the movie goodfellas, but they had this dude that was new to the mob sitting at a table with an older guy and the older guy told a joke and everyone started laughing... the new dude said, 'haha you're funny', and the older dude stopped laughing and got real serious and said, "What do you mean I'm funny? Do I look like a clown to you? Am I here to amuse you?"

A lot of people would have looked at that as an overreaction, but in that world, you can't be taken as a joke. The underlying premise is that small social interactions will get you categorized if you aren't careful...like for example, a woman giving a dude her purse to hold... he may not be aware of it, but if he holds that purse, she covertly disrespected him. when these women do little things and see they can get away with it, they start thinking you are weak and will either escalate or peel off. So it's cool you realized she was trying to 'male ho' you and establish socially that she can pop into your life at any moment and demand some kind of entertainment. You simply rushing to accept her offer would have covertly put you into a male clown status to where she can pop in and get entertainment whenever she is bored. The average dude doesn't think that deep because he's so thirsty for attention that he would have rushed to accept that offer. The vast majority of problems men experience with women comes from how they respond to whatever a woman is doing, especially in these covert social interactions..
 

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It's sad when China's feminist agency will tell a lot more truth than any mainstream publication you will find here

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/10/12/opinion/global/chinas-leftover-women.html?_r=0

Pretty girls don’t need a lot of education to marry into a rich and powerful family, but girls with an average or ugly appearance will find it difficult. These kinds of girls hope to further their education in order to increase their competitiveness. The tragedy is, they don’t realize that as women age, they are worth less and less, so by the time they get their M.A. or Ph.D., they are already old, like yellowed pearls.

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Many highly educated “leftover women” are very progressive in their thinking and enjoy going to nightclubs to search for a one-night stand, or they become the mistress of a high official or rich man. It is only when they have lost their youth and are kicked out by the man, that they decide to look for a life partner. Therefore, most “leftover women” do not deserve our sympathy.


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The main reason many girls become “leftover women” is that their standards for a partner are too high … As girls are not too picky, finding a partner should be as easy as blowing away a speck of dust.

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When holding out for a man, if you say he must be rich and brilliant, romantic and hardworking ... this is just being willful. Does this kind of perfect man exist? Maybe he does exist, but why on earth would he want to marry you?

You simply would not hear that kind of truth here in America because of cries of misogyny or some utter nonsense... which is what you'll actually see if you read the 'op-ed' around those quotes in the article.
 

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you know the average simp would be like baby where u wanna go? how bout dinner? it's coo seeing how men here ain't down with being a backburner negro
. The vast majority of problems men experience with women comes from how they respond to whatever a woman is doing, especially in these covert social interactions..

Expound more on these social interactions. I get classed as a goofball by many women simply by how I carry myself. I am polite and have a mask that shows humility but in reality I am nothing like I am portrayed .
 

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Expound more on these social interactions. I get classed as a goofball by many women simply by how I carry myself. I am polite and have a mask that shows humility but in reality I am nothing like I am portrayed .

image is everything. what you see is what you get. stop playing the fool, you give off a weak image by what you said, you will be viewed as such...
 
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