It's coo seeing more men stand up and avoiding 'male ho'd'
Text I got from a chick I haven't heard from in a minute, "When are we hanging out again? I wanna do something fun soon"

She thinks she can't hit me when she's bored and want something fun to do? So I can foot the bill for her enjoyment?
The Audacity
lol you know the average simp would be like baby where u wanna go? how bout dinner? it's coo seeing how men here ain't down with being a backburner negro
it's a trip to me how some of these women will hit you up out of nowhere... not even say, hey, how have you been.. just pop up on some, i'm bored, entertain me type of tip. what really gives these women the audacity to make these kind of notions so many men will jump at the chance. they got these women feeling themselves to where they feel like they can hit brothas up and demand entertainment.the average guy wont, but I find it offensive when a woman hits me up out the blue like, "I'm bored, entertain me"... like I'm some kind of clown here to provide thrills when you want it.
I think it was the movie goodfellas, but they had this dude that was new to the mob sitting at a table with an older guy and the older guy told a joke and everyone started laughing... the new dude said, 'haha you're funny', and the older dude stopped laughing and got real serious and said, "What do you mean I'm funny? Do I look like a clown to you? Am I here to amuse you?"
A lot of people would have looked at that as an overreaction, but in that world, you can't be taken as a joke. The underlying premise is that small social interactions will get you categorized if you aren't careful...like for example, a woman giving a dude her purse to hold... he may not be aware of it, but if he holds that purse, she covertly disrespected him. when these women do little things and see they can get away with it, they start thinking you are weak and will either escalate or peel off. So it's cool you realized she was trying to 'male ho' you and establish socially that she can pop into your life at any moment and demand some kind of entertainment. You simply rushing to accept her offer would have covertly put you into a male clown status to where she can pop in and get entertainment whenever she is bored. The average dude doesn't think that deep because he's so thirsty for attention that he would have rushed to accept that offer. The vast majority of problems men experience with women comes from how they respond to whatever a woman is doing, especially in these covert social interactions..