Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's hard finding that middle ground, but you always got to adjust your mind because if you start kicking out a woman for every little thing you won't have any... but if you don't watch yourself, you'll tie yourself up with one you wish you hadn't. There's no such thing as a riskless situation, so with that said, all of us have to go out there and use our better judgment and accept the repercussions of our decisions. The best you can do is tilt the odds in your favor and pray for a decent result.
 

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Certain shyt u just gotta accept nobody is perfect and I'm hard on these hoes but I'm not about to cut a chick off for some petty shyt.
 

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Still finding myself going over this girl's facebook page.
Was in my classes like when I was 18, she probably liked me or had an interest.(now that I look back the signs:snoop:)
But I was some scared really non social fakkit. if I had only manned up earlier I either woulda been with her or shyt would just not had worked out. So now I gotta deal with the what if for the rest of my lie
lol:kobesmug: that's probably my biggest fukk up in life. It not like other chicks could have that effect on me, and its cool I guess but damn man everytime I :camby: another chick she comes back into my mind shyt if I was dating a chick and somehow someway she found herself in my life and I was able to talk to her now(since i aint some little fakkit) I'd probably :camby: the other chick I'm dating for her.
God damn I'm a sad fukking fellow brehs.
 

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Still finding myself going over this girl's facebook page.
Was in my classes like when I was 18, she probably liked me or had an interest.(now that I look back the signs:snoop:)
But I was some scared really non social fakkit. if I had only manned up earlier I either woulda been with her or shyt would just not had worked out. So now I gotta deal with the what if for the rest of my lie
lol:kobesmug: that's probably my biggest fukk up in life. It not like other chicks could have that effect on me, and its cool I guess but damn man everytime I :camby: another chick she comes back into my mind shyt if I was dating a chick and somehow someway she found herself in my life and I was able to talk to her now(since i aint some little fakkit) I'd probably :camby: the other chick I'm dating for her.
God damn I'm a sad fukking fellow brehs.


You a fukkin clown, but the way Karma would have it, you keep :camby:ing these hoes for the one you think is the one that got away, and by the time she DOES give you any play, you gonna find out she's working a dead end job with 2 kids and baby daddy drama :umad:

Carpe diem, breh. :ahh:
 

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Still finding myself going over this girl's facebook page.
Was in my classes like when I was 18, she probably liked me or had an interest.(now that I look back the signs:snoop:)
But I was some scared really non social fakkit. if I had only manned up earlier I either woulda been with her or shyt would just not had worked out. So now I gotta deal with the what if for the rest of my lie
lol:kobesmug: that's probably my biggest fukk up in life. It not like other chicks could have that effect on me, and its cool I guess but damn man everytime I :camby: another chick she comes back into my mind shyt if I was dating a chick and somehow someway she found herself in my life and I was able to talk to her now(since i aint some little fakkit) I'd probably :camby: the other chick I'm dating for her.
God damn I'm a sad fukking fellow brehs.

move on breh :manny:

if u run into ole girl again , get her digits and go from there:yeshrug:
 

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I am serious about her but the responses are becoming delayed and shorter.almost feels like im bothering her

I would have waited until after I knew she was on the same page with me before sending those texts but hey, we all miss shots.

I would chill like you are planning to and see what her response is.
 

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You a fukkin clown, but the way Karma would have it, you keep :camby:ing these hoes for the one you think is the one that got away, and by the time she DOES give you any play, you gonna find out she's working a dead end job with 2 kids and baby daddy drama :umad:

Carpe diem, breh. :ahh:
Yep, to much energy in a chick that young. No telling how and what she ends up being.
 

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she text good morning to me first:leon: funny how they gravitate towards you when you dont sweat them as much :blessed:

then what about tomorrow man, and the day after, and the day after. You're thinking too much about a good morning text. Text her good morning when you want to and if she text you sometimes that's cool too, just keep it at that.

You don't need to text her good morning every day, she's going to get bored AF of you, believe me. *oh what a suprise this nikka texting me good morning again same time, boring ass nikka* -- that's probably what she's thinking
 

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then what about tomorrow man, and the day after, and the day after. You're thinking too much about a good morning text. Text her good morning when you want to and if she text you sometimes that's cool too, just keep it at that.
but heres the thing with me im terrible at consistency,i dont text or call nobody first and i barely have any friends because of it but imma make an effort with this girl,provided i dont sense any disinterest:yeshrug:
 

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Still finding myself going over this girl's facebook page.
Was in my classes like when I was 18, she probably liked me or had an interest.(now that I look back the signs:snoop:)
But I was some scared really non social fakkit. if I had only manned up earlier I either woulda been with her or shyt would just not had worked out. So now I gotta deal with the what if for the rest of my lie
lol:kobesmug: that's probably my biggest fukk up in life. It not like other chicks could have that effect on me, and its cool I guess but damn man everytime I :camby: another chick she comes back into my mind shyt if I was dating a chick and somehow someway she found herself in my life and I was able to talk to her now(since i aint some little fakkit) I'd probably :camby: the other chick I'm dating for her.
God damn I'm a sad fukking fellow brehs.


How old are u now? Might not think about it now, but you have a lot of living to do and females to meet. Just if you can save, explore man.

I've randomly met and hooked up with some dope chiks while exploring. In a thread a while back I think I posted a pic of this chik I met coming back from Florida as she was sitting next to me on the plane. Beautiful girl. She's German and Brazilian. Dope convo, ended up exchanging info. I was headed back to nyc and she was going there to connect on a flight to Africa for some trip. Anyway, I lost her info that day but didn't stress it. A year later she found me on FB…hit me up, we were both single at the time, next thing I know she invites me to Cali. We went half on a hotel in LA for 3 days. The next 3 days I stayed at her place in San Diego and had the greatest p*ssy of my life. Her dad was some former hippy with a nice beach house, so we kicked it there and got blown. He had some nice bud. We were supposed to meet up last year in Europe but she didn't have the funds. We are still great friends though. We chat via texting still and talk about our relationships and offer advice. Something totally un-expected. But that's life :manny: once you put yourself out there.
 
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