Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Message]

^^^^ They cant make up their mind. lol You're the laid back type? You get the, "You're boring, too calm for me" response. You're the hype, animated type? You get the, "You're too wild, too immature for me." Just be yourself.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

So i recently started to hang out with this girl. We have been chilling for two weeks or so and she asked me to take it very slow with her. We have been going for dinner, coffee dates etc, etc. However, this week, i haven't heard anything from her, so i texted her and asked her whats up...i guess she is upset that i haven't made a move on her - she thinks it's kind of awkward and creepy....


So I've literally been put in the friendzone because of something SHE asked me to do?


I am done with trying to meet girls for at least three months. Time to focus on my shyt. Y generation females are functionally retarded.

This is my reaction to dating and meeting women at this point

 

[MikelArteta]

So i recently started to hang out with this girl. We have been chilling for two weeks or so and she asked me to take it very slow with her. We have been going for dinner, coffee dates etc, etc. However, this week, i haven't heard anything from her, so i texted her and asked her whats up...i guess she is upset that i haven't made a move on her - she thinks it's kind of awkward and creepy....


So I've literally been put in the friendzone because of something SHE asked me to do?


I am done with trying to meet girls for at least three months. Time to focus on my shyt. Y generation females are functionally retarded.

This is my reaction to dating and meeting women at this point

Maurice Moss - No, nope! - YouTube

Take note breh when you haven't heard from a woman from awhile just delete the number so you won't be tempted to contact and get on with your life.


Women ignore you for awhile after hanging out texting every day a few good dates


You txt

Either she ignores
Or says I was waiting for you to make the move I'm old fashion like that
Or I was busy

Delete and move on, games are for children.

I don't even attempt to meet women just live your life trust me that's the best way and let them naturally find you.

Take it from me I've been on a sabbatical from going out of my way to meet women for 2 years now but I have no issue meeting them, the least you care the more they do the least you look and chase the more try di

 

[T-K-G]

So i recently started to hang out with this girl. We have been chilling for two weeks or so and she asked me to take it very slow with her. We have been going for dinner, coffee dates etc, etc. However, this week, i haven't heard anything from her, so i texted her and asked her whats up...i guess she is upset that i haven't made a move on her - she thinks it's kind of awkward and creepy....


So I've literally been put in the friendzone because of something SHE asked me to do?


I am done with trying to meet girls for at least three months. Time to focus on my shyt. Y generation females are functionally retarded.

This is my reaction to dating and meeting women at this point

Maurice Moss - No, nope! - YouTube

you mighta been too available to her and she got bored.

i treat my appearances and communication like the basedgod, rare

u gotta give a bytch some time to miss you so she comes correct when she finally does hear from/see you cuz they WILL get bored and leave you in the dust if you make yourself accessible 24/7.


I ignore texts and calls a lot now after i seen how bytches do it to nikkas and get em thirsty/simpin..... and that shyt works

 

[MikelArteta]

you mighta been too available to her and she got bored.

i treat my appearances and communication like the basedgod, rare

u gotta give a bytch some time to miss you so she comes correct when she finally does hear from/see you cuz they WILL get bored and leave you in the dust if you make yourself accessible 24/7.


I ignore texts and calls a lot now after i seen how bytches do it to nikkas and get em thirsty/simpin..... and that shyt works :yeshrugs:

That also may be true
But again it's games, I have no time , nor at my age I have the wisdom to not play games with women

It's like you have be the right temperature like someone mentioned above you text and call and want to hang out a lot in her mind you are pathetic with no friends and no life outside her, you ignore barkey call wait awhile to answe txts your distant etc.

I have zero time for this, I'm thankful and grateful in at the point kn my life where women have to accept me for the anti social skinny person I am.

That's why straight up any chick I talk to that goes cold I'm done I can lotsrally go from being lava hot to dry ice cold in terms of cutting people out of my life .

 

[MikelArteta]

Once you conquer not being lusted in by sex and beauty you will no longer make poor decisions.

When I look back at all my piss poor relationships red flags were waved in the beginning but because of beauty and the sexual pleasures I was like , I would have saved myself a lot of money, time, heartache if I thought rationally.


Remember the beginning of the relationship is the best it's going to get its all downhill from there.

 

[sixsixtwo]

What I Want In a Man - Original List


1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 32)

1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 42)

1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn’t drive off until I’m in the car
3.. Works steady – splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I’m talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 52)

1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn’t belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn’t borrow money too often
4. Doesn’t nod off to sleep when I’m venting
5. Doesn’t re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends

 

[EQ.]

Also apply the prison guard mentality when dealing with women. Its better to be hard/firm with them upfront then over time soften up then be soft and cuddly and try to change up. Once they see that side initially they know they can pull some shyt over you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Had bible study today and my pastor told us this

"be careful who you get in a relationship with, it can derail your destiny"

And these words are true brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

Ever has a great date or whatever then you txt and you get the "hey Who is this"?

 

[Nintendough]

So i recently started to hang out with this girl. We have been chilling for two weeks or so and she asked me to take it very slow with her. We have been going for dinner, coffee dates etc, etc. However, this week, i haven't heard anything from her, so i texted her and asked her whats up...i guess she is upset that i haven't made a move on her - she thinks it's kind of awkward and creepy....


So I've literally been put in the friendzone because of something SHE asked me to do?


I am done with trying to meet girls for at least three months. Time to focus on my shyt. Y generation females are functionally retarded.

This is my reaction to dating and meeting women at this point

Maurice Moss - No, nope! - YouTube

You as the man have to be a leader and set the pace. She is probably mad because you made the mistake of not taking the lead. Don't worry about it, just learn from it and move on.

 

[kevm3]

Had bible study today and my pastor told us this

"be careful who you get in a relationship with, it can derail your destiny"

And these words are true brehs

That's what makes it hard to do anything seriously in this day and age, especially if you are trying to live Biblically. A lot of women pretty much desire men who treat women like hos. I'm not talking about in the sense of just saying crazy disrespectful things like, "Ho, get me a sandwich!", but more along the lines of a man treating her like she's low worth. For example, you're nonchalant, might say things to chop down her self-esteem, don't really tell her you love her, you're hard to get a hold of and pick up her phone calls at your discretion, you have multiple women you're talking to, etc.... a lot of these women respond to that... and let me add, you try to take your time to get to know these women and 'take it slow', and you'll get thrown into some kind of soft, cuddle-buddy type category. You'll be the sweet guy to hear her problems and to take her out to dinner while she has her wild boy on the side tearing that thang up.

That's the dilemma if you are trying to live a righteous lifestyle, which is also why we discuss principles so much. If you are living the Biblical life, you can choose to engage these sorts of women who desire this kind of treatment or you can stand on principle and pass them by. This truly is the season for whoredom, because if you want it, it's not difficult to get, but if you want to be a man of God, will you choose to stand on principle or give in to the lusts of the flesh? For my Christian brethren, this is truly a tumultuous time... but I do indeed believe one must remain firm in his principles.

 

[kevm3]

Also apply the prison guard mentality when dealing with women. Its better to be hard/firm with them upfront then over time soften up then be soft and cuddly and try to change up. Once they see that side initially they know they can pull some shyt over you.

I can agree with this, but will also have to add that one must never go too soft. You pretty much have to be consistent with the guy that she met when she first met you. Generous and fun, but when she crosses the line, it's a wrap.

 

[kevm3]

^^^^ They cant make up their mind. lol You're the laid back type? You get the, "You're boring, too calm for me" response. You're the hype, animated type? You get the, "You're too wild, too immature for me." Just be yourself.

Yessir, Women will pretty much have every response in order to 'win,' to avoid responsibility for their actions and to be able to do whatever they really want to do in their mind. Just like that article points out, women generally like conflict and drama.

You're at home regularly everyday and you're too boring and predictable so that's why she cheated. You're out and about and now you're too distant and didn't pay attention to enough of her needs, so that's why she cheated. You live your life drama-free and stress-free and keep it laid back and you're too calm. You get angry often and 'you scare her.' You buy her too much stuff or buy her something too soon and you're a simp. You don't buy her enough and you're cold and uncaring. A lot of these women come in with this attitude of always wishing you were some other guy or acting like she wishes she were somewhere else... but if you change for her, you were too easy to control and she leaves. These women enjoy this perpetual state of conflict, which is why a lot of these laid-back fellas who want a drama free relationship keep having problems.

Fellas that end up listening to women end up being just as confused as they are. Women always want what they don't have at the moment or some fantasy conconction... aka thug in the streets, who also has a sensitive side, is making money in corporate America, but also is a man of God. It's impossible to find all of that in one man since so many of these traits are contradictory in nature, so this is why women keep flocks of men to fulfill different categories. She always wants to deal with this other personality when she's overdosed on the one she's currently with. She gets banged out by the thug and he treats her cold and hoish and then she finds the sweet guy to listen to her problems and cuddle with her and to rejuvenate her spirits to get her prepared to deal with the thug again, and then she goes to the man of God to hear some Bible scriptures and get a little holy with. Then she got her variety of favor buddies who she pops up with and asks for various favors when she needs them.

When it comes down to it, it's difficult to take these women seriously because the modern woman brings so much nonsense to the table and so little value herself, but she can do this due to being pretty... and a pretty woman has a flock of simps ready to pay a million for a penny of benefit, so she can justify her behavior until she loses her prettiness, and thus her attention and all of a sudden becomes reformed and starts looking for a 'nice guy.'

 

[Dre Space Age]

-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it cool. Dont come on too strong.












Add on, lets share the wealth brehs.

First post is the best advice in this thread. All of you niccaz who are not doing this, are fukking up. Real talk. The best thing you can ever do for both yourself, her and others, is not gas a bytch up.

Real talk I had to learn this sh!t the hard way cause I ain't give a f*ck back then. I wasn't thinking long-term. I was only thinking short-term relationships... but for the long-term, this is how you start out a good relationship.

Don't tell her how much you want her etc. She'll figure it out eventually.

Once I started doing this, my game increased exponentially. Now I actually get the kinda girls I like hitting me up first instead of the other way around. Shyts magical.