Two no strings attached fukk buddies? If your game ain't proper stop dreaming mayne.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Two no strings attached fukk buddies? If your game ain't proper stop dreaming mayne.
so get this, a close homeboy of mine is mad that his chick that he has only been with for 4 months is going to a wedding later this month and she didnt ask him to go with her. Its a female friend of her that she has known since like middle school, but they arent as close as they were back in the day.
I told him why is he upset they havent been together that long, plus personally speaking I hate going to weddings and I def. hate going to weddings when Ive never met any of the people there and dont know the couple.
I think he is more bothered that some male friends of his chick are going to be there and that she used the term they are like "brothers" to her, he is thinking about telling her that he doesnt want her dancing with any of these dudes, but I told him he would come off controlling and he wont know for sure if she is doing it or not
I told him why is he upset they havent been together that long, plus personally speaking I hate going to weddings and I def. hate going to weddings when Ive never met any of the people there and dont know the couple.
I think he is more bothered that some male friends of his chick are going to be there and that she used the term they are like "brothers" to her, he is thinking about telling her that he doesnt want her dancing with any of these dudes, but I told him he would come off controlling and he wont know for sure if she is doing it or not
Shameonyou
All Star
Life is too short to waste time and energy trying to convince someone who just doesn't want you.
The real about everything is that the women choose us. Some of them choose their dudes based on morals, their character, their relationship with God, on their responsibility, dependability, sincerity, etc.
Unfortunately, most western women today don't-- they look for men based on all sorts of other nonsense that has nothing to do with what's in that man's soul, and whether or not he's doing things right.
That's why I say that if a woman's complaining about her 88764 billion exes who cheated, she's really telling on herself. That's a red flag that she either has very poor character judgement or that she has a lot of qualities herself that attracts those type of dudes. What you bring to the table determines how people are going to treat you and the types of people you'll attract. You bring nothing to the table aside from what's between your legs (and a bunch of STD's, out-of-wedlock kids and baggage), then the dudes you attract will be a reflection of that-- they'll be players, dogs, scumbags, and thirsty simps who only want one thing.
The other big red flag are women who won't approach men. It's 2014 and you can work, vote, join the navy, fly to the moon, go to college, and run for president, but you can't go up to a man and introduce yourself?
If she can't care enough about her own happiness to attempt to initiate or build in any way, then how can you expect her to care about your happiness?
If a woman can complain about players and how there's no good men-- but she won't even speak to one?
Women who are drama-free and really about something real will NOTICE guys who are on something positive in terms of building to improve themselves and edifying others around them, and they'll pursue those guys. They'll be excited and pushing hard to build with you just like you're doing for them, because virtuous women and women of noble character know as well as we do that it's rare to find someone you click with well enough to want to spend the rest of their life with.
If she's not reciprocating or attempting to do anything to improve your life (assuming you're doing the same for her) then you don't need her-- don't waste your time.
Save your energy for righteous women of noble character who value loyalty, reciprocation, family-building, communication, mutual respect, and encouragement, who will be in your corner through the good and the bad times, whether you're sick, whether you're broke, etc. Women who are serious about building something real and are really going to hold you down and improve your life. These hoes in the club aren't worth it.
it really is THAT one dude who fukks it up for the rest. i found out one of the girls i used to fukk with back in the day(who happens to have a kid) married another chick a few months back
she'll be back to the other side
every chick is somewhat different but yeah mostly the less you say the less you can mess it up
she'll be back to the other side
not that i doubt what you're saying but what do you think the odds of that happening 
Shameonyou
All Star
one thing i really noticed is that you can never let your guard down around a woman.....it sucks because you may never truly be happy with one....but women will eat you alive if they know you are allowing them completely in.....you always have to have your guard up around women....they have to work for your emotion, and energy....if you let your guard down around them....then you start turning into needing validation from her.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I just read this and thought of @sixsixtwo's post.This is why when it comes to money matters, there's very few women you can even trust:
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...d-her-own-death-HEARTLESS-PLOT-TO-ESCAPE-debt
My girlfriend played dead to avoid seeing me again.
She got her mate to ring up and say they’d both been in a serious car accident.
The mate sobbed that my girl hadn’t made it.
She was really sorry, but all of my girl’s bank details were destroyed on impact, so I wouldn’t be getting back the £500 she owed me either.
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I dropped my phone and collapsed in shock.
Eventually, my flatmate came home and I wept as I related the whole tale.
Fishy
He poured me a large brandy and literally held my hand.
I was so upset I thought I was going to die too. Eventually, he suggested ringing the mate back for more details.
Where had the accident actually happened? Could we go and lay some flowers? When was the funeral?
But, no matter how many times we tried to phone, we couldn’t get through.
In the end he decided to take the initiative and said that he was going to ring round. He felt certain that something fishy was going on.
Sure enough, he did some digging and tracked down my girl’s boss.
He laughed his head off and said he’d only just seen my girl, minutes before, drinking in a trendy bar, and that she was absolutely fine.
Far from being dead, she was splashing her cash on cocktails. My mate and I went to the bar and there she was. My girl looked like she’d seen a ghost.
She tried to pretend that the whole car crash thing was just a prank. She and her friend were drunk and having a laugh, she claimed. They wanted to see how I’d react.
Now she’s urging me to lighten up and get a sense of humour.
But was any of it actually funny? Because I still haven’t got my £500 back.
She got her mate to ring up and say they’d both been in a serious car accident.
The mate sobbed that my girl hadn’t made it.
She was really sorry, but all of my girl’s bank details were destroyed on impact, so I wouldn’t be getting back the £500 she owed me either.
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I dropped my phone and collapsed in shock.
Eventually, my flatmate came home and I wept as I related the whole tale.
Fishy
He poured me a large brandy and literally held my hand.
I was so upset I thought I was going to die too. Eventually, he suggested ringing the mate back for more details.
Where had the accident actually happened? Could we go and lay some flowers? When was the funeral?
But, no matter how many times we tried to phone, we couldn’t get through.
In the end he decided to take the initiative and said that he was going to ring round. He felt certain that something fishy was going on.
Sure enough, he did some digging and tracked down my girl’s boss.
He laughed his head off and said he’d only just seen my girl, minutes before, drinking in a trendy bar, and that she was absolutely fine.
Far from being dead, she was splashing her cash on cocktails. My mate and I went to the bar and there she was. My girl looked like she’d seen a ghost.
She tried to pretend that the whole car crash thing was just a prank. She and her friend were drunk and having a laugh, she claimed. They wanted to see how I’d react.
Now she’s urging me to lighten up and get a sense of humour.
But was any of it actually funny? Because I still haven’t got my £500 back.
Why the fukk would you even tempt fate with something so serious?
Karma is real and this dumb chick probably attracted something like this in her future....and for what? And they really think this shyt is funny?Don't lend nobody shyt because these are some of the lengths many women will go to. The minute you sense she's about to leech off you, BOUNCE. Don't let anyone shame you with the "man is supposed to be the provider" bullshyt. If she ain't your WIFE (after at least two years of proving herself worthy of you) forget it.
Round here they be single but not singleSINGLE MOTHERS
