Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop: I'm so tired of not getting any p*ssy brehs......I'm lonely yo.... And what's messed up I'm starting to think that females that's around me can sense that shyt from just jokes thing they be saying I .. I get tired of saying no when ask if I got a girl.. shyt I was even told I need to start bring girls around... Even tho I do.... At this point its not even about sex :ehh::upsetfavre: I feel like EVERYBODY got somebody but me and that shyt got me trippin the fukk out like damn... WTF am I doing wrong... I hate when I'm talking to one of the guys I'm cool with and they bring up their girl.. I can't add to the covo because I don't have anybody... I'm young so I don't need nothing serious . but what's crazy brehs... I don't have any chicks to kick it with on that level .. Recently got a number from a old cowork who was kinda feeling me awhile back... I called two days ago no answer... Text about two hours ago no reply... So bushes that goes :wow: I don't know what I'm doing wrong brehs I really don't.. I don't have problems with getting women to flirt or tell me I'm attractive.. I think a big problem is my conversation game... Outside of work I don't really do shyt..im growing out of being a homebody so my social life is slowly coming back together but I guess it ain't coming fast enough for me... I remember this older lady told this chick I was trying to holla at that I was cute an shorty reply was he's boring... He's to cool.. I wanna change that tho.. And not because of her ethier.. She never took the time to get to know me.. But I wanna change that just for that fact in tired living a boring ass life.. Tired of being that dude on the sideline just sitting and watching.. I started making changes but I just need to vents brehs my bad for this post....I just wanna turn this shyt around you know?? Not for the women but because ya boy just wanna be happy... Mabey I'm to thirsty idk ...... I just can't keep doing this I'm ready make efforts and Changes... Again I just needed to vent... This the only place I could come to an do this... :wow:
 
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:snoop: I'm so tired of not getting any p*ssy brehs......I'm lonely yo.... And what's messed up I'm starting to think that females that's around me can sense that shyt from just jokes thing they be saying I .. I get tired of saying no when ask if I got a girl.. shyt I was even told I need to start bring girls around... Even tho I do.... At this point its not even about sex :ehh::upsetfavre: I feel like EVERYBODY got somebody but me and that shyt got me trippin the fukk out like damn... WTF am I doing wrong... I hate when I'm talking to one of the guys I'm cool with and they bring up their girl.. I can't add to the covo because I don't have anybody... I'm young so I don't need nothing serious . but what's crazy brehs... I don't have any chicks to kick it with on that level .. Recently got a number from a old cowork who was kinda feeling me awhile back... I called two days ago no answer... Text about two hours ago no reply... So bushes that goes :wow: I don't know what I'm doing wrong brehs I really don't.. I don't have problems with getting women to flirt or tell me I'm attractive.. I think a big problem is my conversation game... Outside of work I don't really do shyt..im growing out of being a homebody so my social life is slowly coming back together but I guess it ain't coming fast enough for me... I remember this older lady told this chick I was trying to holla at that I was cute an shorty reply was he's boring... He's to cool.. I wanna change that tho.. And not because of her ethier.. She never took the time to get to know me.. But I wanna change that just for that fact in tired living a boring ass life.. Tired of being that dude on the sideline just sitting and watching.. I started making changes but I just need to vents brehs my bad for this post....I just wanna turn this shyt around you know?? Not for the women but because ya boy just wanna be happy... Mabey I'm to thirsty idk ...... I just can't keep doing this I'm ready make efforts and Changes... Again I just needed to vent... This the only place I could come to an do this... :wow:
Other than the fact women will flirt with you we are in THE EXACT SAME BOAT breh
 

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:snoop: I'm so tired of not getting any p*ssy brehs......I'm lonely yo.... And what's messed up I'm starting to think that females that's around me can sense that shyt from just jokes thing they be saying I .. I get tired of saying no when ask if I got a girl.. shyt I was even told I need to start bring girls around... Even tho I do.... At this point its not even about sex :ehh::upsetfavre: I feel like EVERYBODY got somebody but me and that shyt got me trippin the fukk out like damn... WTF am I doing wrong... I hate when I'm talking to one of the guys I'm cool with and they bring up their girl.. I can't add to the covo because I don't have anybody... I'm young so I don't need nothing serious . but what's crazy brehs... I don't have any chicks to kick it with on that level .. Recently got a number from a old cowork who was kinda feeling me awhile back... I called two days ago no answer... Text about two hours ago no reply... So bushes that goes :wow: I don't know what I'm doing wrong brehs I really don't.. I don't have problems with getting women to flirt or tell me I'm attractive.. I think a big problem is my conversation game... Outside of work I don't really do shyt..im growing out of being a homebody so my social life is slowly coming back together but I guess it ain't coming fast enough for me... I remember this older lady told this chick I was trying to holla at that I was cute an shorty reply was he's boring... He's to cool.. I wanna change that tho.. And not because of her ethier.. She never took the time to get to know me.. But I wanna change that just for that fact in tired living a boring ass life.. Tired of being that dude on the sideline just sitting and watching.. I started making changes but I just need to vents brehs my bad for this post....I just wanna turn this shyt around you know?? Not for the women but because ya boy just wanna be happy... Mabey I'm to thirsty idk ...... I just can't keep doing this I'm ready make efforts and Changes... Again I just needed to vent... This the only place I could come to an do this... :wow:

Getting back into the swing of things can be hard....Im going thru the exact same thing:to:

Im trying to get back into the social setting as well..

Talking shyt to women is a great substitute for being boring..

Its about stimulating them mentally

Works for me:manny:....
 
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Men keep getting the impression that you have to take women out and spend all this money on them because she is pretty or this and that. This pretty broad is human just like the unattractive one. She gets way more attention and can charge way more dudes, but she still has feelings like that unattractive one. There's still a couple of guys that she's just so into that she ain't going to think about charging.them. She just enjoys being in their presence so much. if she swings that dinner stuff at you, you're headed into provider category.

When it comes to women, they pretty much have two zones... There's the guy she deals with because she is thrilled by him and there's the guy she deals with because she wants someone to provide for her. She treats these guys completely different and will adjust how she acts depending on which category she wants to stuff you in. You've all seen it for yourselves. There's those women who always seem to come around and laugh at everything you do and always respond immediately if you text her. You don't have to put in any real effort. Then there's the ones who are kind of cold on you, they always end the convo first and they're not that interested... but you find them so fine you decide to step out of your zone and start trying to compensate in order for them to deal with you... That's when you start offering dinner and all of that other nonsense... and you end up on the losing team.
It's all about discipline. you have to stop yourself from going into compensation mode and learn to bail out on these women that are chilling out on you and go into that zone where you focus on the women who can't get enough of you.
:wow: some powerful stuff.
@OrangeSodaStyle is posting some powerful stuff as well. Salute to you two brehs.
 

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The wifings that are happening around me, are coming in at an exponential rate. I'm at that age where everyones getting hitched though(same age as @Emperor_ReinScarf ) Breh's, watching these women try to clean up their act and a land a man is truly something that makes me go :ohhh:.


Another one of the ones I went through, thick, very light skin, curly hair, still pretty too, is cuffed up. I actually dated this one and it went south. I remember I couldn't do anything without her flipping out, talking about how all her old dudes were broke asses, yet when she started dating me, a dude that actually had some money and could move around, and she got nervous/angry everytime I said I was going anywhere.

I saw afterwards, with a clear head, that she was one of them women that wants a dude that has to sit in a corner and wait on her/depend on her because he can't get better. Whole family was like that, and none of them had men around. Toxic environment for a man.

Dude handcuffing her now was in the friendzone for like 8 years, i even rememer him lurking while we was going out, and he couldn't even come out cause he didn't have any bread. He still doesn't, so I guess the only reason for the cuffs is cause everybody else know about her and he just don't care at this point. :snoop:

I just don't understand how you can sit on the sidelines and have a front row seat to watch a girl you like, get ran through for all those years by a gang of brutha's/cac's(shyt got crazy after we ended, the stories I'd hear made me glad I got her before she went all out) and then cuff her afterwards. Even if you were hitting it through those years, wouldn't you get the hint that she ain't cuffing material from the fact that dudes keep hiting and quitting? I guess some people really do not mind that type of thing.
:yeshrug:

Another one I know moved out of state and got married. So many trains got rain on that broad, dope boys and ball players, it was ridiculous, but all sorts of people telling her congratulations, and telling dude he got an amazing woman. I'm like "How can yall lie to this mans face like this?":what:

And the women wonder why I give them the :beli: when they ask me why I'm still out here.

People putting the pressure on me heavy right now to do the same, but I'm waiting it out and eating off single professionals in the interim.:manny:
 

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So the chick that moved here from Minnesota....im focusing my attention on her currently. She doesn't have twitter or ig....and her facebook is used for her fitness shyt. Still on guard, searching for red flags...none yet.

Cut ties w/the other one i fukked cause she got a bae. Cool with me, perfect actually, though i did want to fukk one more time. :manny:
 
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I just want my girl to know that my natural instincts stopped once I said I love her. I made a decision to be a “good guy”. I know that fukking a lot of women is bad for her. She don’t want it. She wants commitment and she wants monogamy and I give it to her and I just want her to know that, I want her to value the sacrifice. All I want is for women to understand what we are. We want a lot of fukken women. - Patrice oneal

women will NEVER understand this sacrifice ..it really is just sad brehs :wow:
 

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so im in a situation right now....I have a girl with a crazy body, but her face leaves alot to be desired...shes crazy about me...been chasing me for God knows how long..but I just never really saw her as someone I can be truly happy with just based on my standards (I have a tendency to like women with angelic faces basically)......however im running out of luck on this dime I was talking to for a bit.....found out she has another dude on the side....so Im at the point where im getting frustrated with these dimes thinking they can play these bullshyt games.....should I give the other chick a chance?
 

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so im in a situation right now....I have a girl with a crazy body, but her face leaves alot to be desired...shes crazy about me...been chasing me for God knows how long..but I just never really saw her as someone I can be truly happy with just based on my standards (I have a tendency to like women with angelic faces basically)......however im running out of luck on this dime I was talking to for a bit.....found out she has another dude on the side....so Im at the point where im getting frustrated with these dimes thinking they can play these bullshyt games.....should I give the other chick a chance?
Keep looking for the type of girl that you like. Don't settle!!!!!
 

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Brehs,

This harlot that I haven't talk to for years keep popping upon my Facebook's friends search list for the last week and a half. I used to simp for this broad hard and she toss me in the bushes with no fukks given. :to::pacspit: She is not associated with any of my friends/family and I haven't look up her name in Facebook for over 2 years. Why is Facebook is trying to remind me for my simpish past? :snoop::why: Just had to vent :sadbron: :shaq2:.
 
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