Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

If her best friend is a whore she is a whore or she will be out in uncomprising positions.

Be careful

 

[RealAssanova]

You gotta find chicks that match your wave. If you'd rather have conversations, then you put that out there when you meet a chick. If she wit it, cool. If not, bushes. Seems like yall be 2-3 weeks deep into hollering at a chick before you realize yall communication preferences don't match up. And then you end up making excuses for her when she don't respond to your way of communicating.

That's madness, brehs

i think it also depends on the way you approach her. If you approach her from the jump an say your piece, followed by i'mma call you sometime next week to set something up...then she should expect a phone call and not a text. But if you just get her number without saying whether or not you gonne call her, then chances are she won't pick up the phone. Its rare these days to talk to a girl on the phone....but when you do, especially with someone you tryna get at....

some of em see your call, don't pick up but text you asking 'hey you called?'

 

[MikelArteta]

I'll touch on it no homo in more detail.

If her best friend is a whore, that means her best friend is telling her of all the sex and guys she is sleeping with and different dikk sizes and how it feels and how she got wasted and slept with tom dixk ans Harry and slowly it penetrates her mind.

Its like a guy with a best friend being a drug dealer, he will talk about all the money he's getting all the stuff he's buying and slowly you'll be like eh not bad


Secondly If those thoughts don't penetrate then association will lead to uncompromising positions.

1. Whore will bring friend to bars, clubs get drunk together and hang around shady characters

Just like a drug dealer yo just come out while I make this delivery, or while I make selling at a club.


Y

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes there is the rare exception but we ain't that lucky.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Golfer's wife 'shot her stalker ex-lover she cheated on her husband with when he broke into her home'

http://t.co/tE0ZiCNHV5

 

[The D-List Vet]

If you desire drama in your life......Just stay friends with an ex, there are exceptions to every rule, but generally being friends with an ex is a horrible horrible horrible idea. I cannot fathom any circumstances where it is constructive unless you have reached the summit of peace where you can witness the ex with someone else and without an ounce of jealousy, bitterness or selfishness in your heart feel ecstatic for them and vice versa.


Reasons to never be friends with an ex.


1.Liberation of their guilt.


No one wants to be the bad person in any situation and an ex may still care about you in some way, so by offering friendship and you accepting the diminished role the weight of guilt they feel in making that decision to dump you is lifted.


2.Just in case....


Just in case things don’t work out with the new John or Jane Doe, having the safety and security haven of an ex that in their mind is still waiting for another opportunity. So by keeping you around as a “friend” if the grass is not greener then the....Hey remember our first date when you made me laugh type stuff starts to regurgitate.


3. Encumbers the natural healing process


By continually being “friends” with an ex the seed of hope which destroys the progression of healing continues to be watered and grows. Hey my ex text/phoned/ smiled at me that must mean they still wants me. When in general that is not the case, it’s the equivalent of starting on the 11 yard line in football, heaving an 89 yard pass for a touchdown but it being nullified due to a holding penalty that is 10 yards and the ball being placed now at the one yard line. Every time you think are getting ahead, feeling good the seed of hope pops up and you end up in even a worse spot than you were before.



To wrap it up as I always like to say people who I call friends have never made me feel disconsolate nor have they demoted me in their life. Life is already too short for any added further drama or stress. Just because someone dumps you does not make them a bad person nor do you have to hate them, they did what they thought was the best decision for their life, now it is time for you to do what is the best decision for your life.

i really want to rep you again

 

[MikelArteta]

i really want to rep you again

breh i stayed friends with an ex for like almost 5 years after we broke up, we only dated for 7 months and that ish almost ruined my life.

Literally the best decision I ever made in my life was cutting the cord.


Now once I'm done with a chick I'M DONE. I don't care if she's a millionaire, model, gives the best head has the best vagina I'M DONE.

And never looking back.

 

[MikelArteta]

You know how certain individuals after the fact bash their exes to some degree and paint themselves as someone who did no wrong in the relationship. In essence taking the script of the relationship and sugarcoating it to their liking making it a “based on true events” type film with historical inaccuracies while the other party slurps it up like pigs at the trough.

Well yeah that’s not me; I take responsibility in the fact that I had poor judgment in the past and was blinded solely by physical attraction and lust. I knew early on I should have departed, ejected, headed to the lifeboat instead of continuing on the rocky path. Nevertheless, I was so caught up in the “honeymoon”, “infatuation” type moments and feeling so ecstatic that I was “exclusive” with beautiful women who could have any man they desired yet they chose me…….. that I stayed. The dreadful ego and feelings of inadequacies, maybe I would never have the opportunity to be with a beautiful woman again, tons of guys would love to be in my position just suck it up.

I can look back now and laugh/shake my head at my former self; it’s crazy to think I almost ended up even getting married at one point gulp just because it was “the next step”. So yes no sugarcoating here; I was a willing participant and no one forced me into those relationships, I allowed people I should not have into my life, allowed them to meet my family, allowed them to get close to me, ignored glaring red flags and gave flexibilities in certain areas which I should not have. Did I deserve to get played, gutted etc.? Nah of course not, but I learned valuable lessons that I carry with me to this day. I’m never afraid to walk out that door and not look back when that feeling of “this is not working get out while you can” pops up. I know longer get caught up by beauty, sweet words, lust/infatuation or manipulation tactics that used to reel in the previous me……

 

[The D-List Vet]

You know how certain individuals after the fact bash their exes to some degree and paint themselves as someone who did no wrong in the relationship. In essence taking the script of the relationship and sugarcoating it to their liking making it a “based on true events” type film with historical inaccuracies while the other party slurps it up like pigs at the trough.

Well yeah that’s not me; I take responsibility in the fact that I had poor judgment in the past and was blinded solely by physical attraction and lust. I knew early on I should have departed, ejected, headed to the lifeboat instead of continuing on the rocky path. Nevertheless, I was so caught up in the “honeymoon”, “infatuation” type moments and feeling so ecstatic that I was “exclusive” with beautiful women who could have any man they desired yet they chose me…….. that I stayed. The dreadful ego and feelings of inadequacies, maybe I would never have the opportunity to be with a beautiful woman again, tons of guys would love to be in my position just suck it up.

I can look back now and laugh/shake my head at my former self; it’s crazy to think I almost ended up even getting married at one point gulp just because it was “the next step”. So yes no sugarcoating here; I was a willing participant and no one forced me into those relationships, I allowed people I should not have into my life, allowed them to meet my family, allowed them to get close to me, ignored glaring red flags and gave flexibilities in certain areas which I should not have. Did I deserve to get played, gutted etc.? Nah of course not, but I learned valuable lessons that I carry with me to this day. I’m never afraid to walk out that door and not look back when that feeling of “this is not working get out while you can” pops up. I know longer get caught up by beauty, sweet words, lust/infatuation or manipulation tactics that used to reel in the previous me……

This is really helping me main reason i am going back so far is because i know you spit the real on exes, when i rep 30 other ppl i am coming back for you

 

[MikelArteta]

This is really helping me main reason i am going back so far is because i know you spit the real on exes, when i rep 30 other ppl i am coming back for you

emotional detaching from an ex is hard, even if they carved your heart out. Takes time, strength and wisdom. I remember those days, now when a woman exits my life I know when I'm ready a better woman will enter so no stress no worries. Do I still think about my exes yeah I do but theres no more bitterness, hatred, love or whatever.

I found out last week my ex fiance who gutted me somewhat got married and then now is divorce, if i found this out years ago I would have been ons ome haha, dancing in the moonlight, karma b*tch. I hated this woman at one point with all my heart for what she did to me then thankfully that hate dissipated, now I don't care to delight in anyone misery, not my concern. Hell I almost considered (no way I was going tod o it) messaging her on fb before I deactivated just hope life is going good, but my no association with ex rules I'll never break.

 

[The D-List Vet]

Breh who you telling.. If I had the money I'd been move out but right now I ain't got that money and right now I ain't even working so I gotta deal with it. The way the house is I don't really run into her much since lately she been to herself and she ain't even really talking to my cousin who lives on the second floor with her folks.

My fams cool with her since she been cool with them even after I stopped going out with her. I usually stay upstairs most of the time in my room or I just go downstairs to the basement with my cousin or I'll just go outside when I got somewhere to go.

i been trying to stay away from her lately. I haven't seen her in days. My cousin told me to stop talking to her and shyt too. I fukked up because I started to get too comfy around her laying in bed with her watching movies late at night and although I never fukked I could have as she used to let me touch her physically all the time. Now though I ain't even fukkin with that no more.

backstory on your ex? why is she so close with the fam?

someone in this thread said earlier keep your ex and family away, or something like this will happen such as the ex coming back to talk to your sisters or mom about your past relationship etc etc because they know that it fukks with you mentality.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh my ex was so close to my family she's in family pictures and that was after we broke up.

My mom considered her as her second daughter. But I needed peace in my life

Peace beats everything.

 

[Fatboi1]

backstory on your ex? why is she so close with the fam?

someone in this thread said earlier keep your ex and family away, or something like this will happen such as the ex coming back to talk to your sisters or mom about your past relationship etc etc because they know that it fukks with your mentality.

Yeah I never really elucidated on the relationship my ex has with my fams.

For starters, I met my ex back in spring of 2009 I believe. She became friends with my female cousin who was in high school at the time and she came over my house once to get her hair braided. My cousin and a few other relatives had just got their visas and immigrated from Haiti to the U.S. just like my ex so everyone was pretty much on the equal footing.

My folks are pretty tolerant of my cousins friends so she could just bring someone over and introduce them to my folks and instantly that person is "cool folks" right away. With her being a best friend of my cousins, her coming over to the house isn't strictly for seeing me so there was never a need for her to have a reason for coming over.

Fast forward years later and she's still cool with my cousin and comes over once in a while and then when shyt ain't work out for her and her BF at the time she leaves him and comes live with us. She didn't stay with her father because he lives in NY with another woman that she said she doesn't get along with at all. My ex doesn't really talk to my moms about me anymore but a few months ago when she had first moved in my aunts who are pretty out blatant and have a big sense of humor would joke about me fukking her and having a kid and shyt like that.

Fortunately for me I restrained myself and didn't do anything. I had a bunch of chances as I used to lay in bed with her late at night watching movies and talking to her but I'd never escalate the situation to something sexual even though it seems like it was right in my hands.

I barely speak to her now though, as I stopped messing with her since she got a new BF. The thing that made me stop was she didn't tell me she had a BF and one night I was hanging out with her in her room messing around with her and my BF calls and he heard my voice by accident and I just was laughing to myself at how she kept trying to assuage her BF. I then decided to leave her alone and just stopped going there. I hardly see her sometimes and shyt but yeah that's it.

My ex's best friend used to mess with me for a while and when my ex moved in to my house that girl seemed to have taken an interest in me again after being on/off with her for a few months. Now this girl is m.i.a. as I started to play around and not take things seriously with her when she'd ask me what did I want from her. I never could see me seriously making that girl my girlfriend because I met her at a party and she came onto me and her other friend introduced me to her since she was feeling me. She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend until like a few weeks after me and her hung out and made out a few times(I never smashed ). I figured I'd lose her the same way I got her.

 

[The D-List Vet]

this is what happaned to me

 

[Two Stacks]

Just read that text thread.

Yup. fukk these hoes.