Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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drama at work.. need some advice/guidance @Emperor_ReinScarf

so this new girl move on to my department .. i knew her saying occasionally hi whenever we saw each other in the office but never wasted too much time with her, but she started talking to me heavily once she came into my department..

our department was revamped and we had to move, we had to select new seats in the office. The new girl wanted to sit next to my desk. I was hesitant at first, but i gave her the ok to do it. She moved her shyt to the seat next to mine but NEVER sat there.. fast forward to 3-4 weeks later and some other girl takes her desk.

All of a sudden now there's drama over the seat next to mine. They are fighting over who should sit there. I told the new girl that if she really wanted to sit on that desk, she should have sat there rather just putting her shyt in there and expecting no one to touch it. And the girl who took over the seat doesn't wanna move cause apparently i'm fun to sit next to. And there's cat fight and drama brewing..

I'm just thinking of moving myself and letting them sit next to each other.. or do i stand my ground? I don't wanna get into this drama. And the new girl plays way too many games for my liking and plays way too hard to get just for some p*ssy, so i'm pretty much turned off and don't give a fukk about either of them.
 

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Stay away from workplace drama breh

Abs remember never mess with women from work especially I'd you care about your job.

No puzzy is worth it


drama at work.. need some advice/guidance @Emperor_ReinScarf

so this new girl move on to my department .. i knew her saying occasionally hi whenever we saw each other in the office but never wasted too much time with her, but she started talking to me heavily once she came into my department..

our department was revamped and we had to move, we had to select new seats in the office. The new girl wanted to sit next to my desk. I was hesitant at first, but i gave her the ok to do it. She moved her shyt to the seat next to mine but NEVER sat there.. fast forward to 3-4 weeks later and some other girl takes her desk.

All of a sudden now there's drama over the seat next to mine. They are fighting over who should sit there. I told the new girl that if she really wanted to sit on that desk, she should have sat there rather just putting her shyt in there and expecting no one to touch it. And the girl who took over the seat doesn't wanna move cause apparently i'm fun to sit next to. And there's cat fight and drama brewing..

I'm just thinking of moving myself and letting them sit next to each other.. or do i stand my ground? I don't wanna get into this drama. And the new girl plays way too many games for my liking and plays way too hard to get just for some p*ssy, so i'm pretty much turned off and don't give a fukk about either of them.
 

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I find the more you focus on other things than women and the more you build your life up without being overly concerned about them, the better. The main reason being that you should think about all of the effort you spent attempting to court women, whether it was constant phone conversations, dinners, or whatnot and think about where these women are now. More times than not, they are nowhere to be found.

The cycle often goes the first few weeks to months, everything is cool and you're always spending time together. Eventually, she might slowly start 'becoming busy', and eventually she just fades out for no real reason apparent to you. All of that work and time invested and nothing to show for it. Her? She's spending time with some other dude. As you get older, you get tired of women fading in and out of your life. Finding that one that 'sticks around'... you can never really predict that. Hence, I find it best not to worry about women too often because you're going to stress yourself out over things you simply cannot control. Realize that most of them are transient in this day and age, meaning they will temporarily be there and tomorrow they will be gone. Expending too much energy dealing with women is a waste because you will have nothing to show for it. The woman who really wants to be with you, you don't have to expend that much energy. She's going to stick around of her own volition.
 

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drama at work.. need some advice/guidance @Emperor_ReinScarf

so this new girl move on to my department .. i knew her saying occasionally hi whenever we saw each other in the office but never wasted too much time with her, but she started talking to me heavily once she came into my department..

our department was revamped and we had to move, we had to select new seats in the office. The new girl wanted to sit next to my desk. I was hesitant at first, but i gave her the ok to do it. She moved her shyt to the seat next to mine but NEVER sat there.. fast forward to 3-4 weeks later and some other girl takes her desk.

All of a sudden now there's drama over the seat next to mine. They are fighting over who should sit there. I told the new girl that if she really wanted to sit on that desk, she should have sat there rather just putting her shyt in there and expecting no one to touch it. And the girl who took over the seat doesn't wanna move cause apparently i'm fun to sit next to. And there's cat fight and drama brewing..

I'm just thinking of moving myself and letting them sit next to each other.. or do i stand my ground? I don't wanna get into this drama. And the new girl plays way too many games for my liking and plays way too hard to get just for some p*ssy, so i'm pretty much turned off and don't give a fukk about either of them.

Move away if you have to and do NOT get involved in fights between them. Once one of them perceives you as 'favoring' the other, you're going to have a possible enemy who will constantly attempt to undermine you. Anytime they bring an issue up, tell them, "I'm not getting involved. You two work it out." Keep your jimmy out of them too. Do NOT bring additional drama into your workplace by sleeping with these women. It's already hard enough to find a decent job in this day and age.
 

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well today the girl texted me saying she's sitting at my desk cause the other girl didn't wanna move.. what a big mess.

What's the problem though?
Do what you gotta do and let them compete amongst themselves.

You think if a male lion saw two female lioness that's not related to him fighting, he would jump in? Nope. He gone kick back and make sure none of em will hurt his pride *that's what a family of baby lions is called* and hit em with the :yeshrug:
 

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Yo emperor, will you mods please allow me to start making threads again, you guys have had me locked out for atleast 6 months if not longer
 

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I just want a good women I can travel with, discuss a good comic book with and enjoy a night out on the weekends here and there.


I don't think I'ma find that in the Boot


:sadbron:
 
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