Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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the funny thing that was just girl i was mesing with earlier this year,

she got distant and just literally disappeared of the face of the earth, because I don't "chase" and never make the first move ala text etc. I just said shrugs and went on with my life.

Birthday came and went NOTHING, wen ton vacay met a girl there :shaq:, came back and then in august she sends me that crap. Like you ignored me for 6 damn months, just because you are a trust fund baby and have a vagina and a pretty face, i'm supposed to open that door again :dahell: you think you are. If I wanted to be disrespected might as well I kept my ex in my life.

And I'm not bragging or boasting, it's not like my phone is filled with women or i was talking to a bunch of chicks. Hell at that time the only chick I was talking to lived like 3,000 miles away But I refuse to be disrespected I don't care who you are.

That's what I keep saying when you get to that point when you can walk away and never look back is when you have the power. I could have easily gone back with that chick, get $$$, sex, spoiled mightily but f it.

One chance that's all i offer now, you mess it up :camby:
 

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Just read that text thread. :banderas:

Yup. fukk these hoes.

if men stopped giving women leeway and second chances the world would be so much better.

Dudes are scared of upsetting a hot chic, bu but she'll find another rnikka and who cares?

But but I'll be alone, better to be alone than with a woman who doesn't respect you.

But but sex
Being voluntary celibacy for 3 years made me :blessed:, a woman can never hold her vagina over me. I turned down puzzy before and I can do it again.


STop giving these women leeways, like I always say if she was 300lbs you wouldn't give her that leeway
 

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I have learned. Silence PISSES women OFF.

if ion text a bytch for a week....they be like oh you acting funny? No bytch im acting busy and i have a life. :camby:

thing is when a woman is really really really feeling you, she will text you/call you all the time

women won't flat out tell you they are feeling you high and then when they are not feeling you. They don't want to tell you to stop talking to them or that you are ignoring them. Ever been with a broad and she's like geez this guy won't leave me alone, or ugh he text me this morning but im not going to reply till later, "he doesn't get it"

I'll never be that :scusthov: why is he texting me doesn't he get it type guy.

I've never been wrong once a chick goes "distant" or doesn't hit you up like she used, he emotional interest in you has wavered.

Now once its wavered you can play "emotional games" to increase that interest agian, or you can do what I do , and just delete the number and say :camby:

I can think back to when I was with any of my exes all throughout the relationship and before we were item they texted every day, or called. Were into me till the very end, so i ain't settling for this see saw up and down type women.

You get distant with me, you've already been deleted, women have thier phones on them 24/7, checking out facebook, instagram, youtube, listening to music etc. It takes 2 seconds to send a hey if they really want to no matter how "busy" they are.
 

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never to late to change :salute:

Breh, I used to be a fukking simp circa 2010...I put women on a pedastool, let em treat me like shyt etc.. just to get some p*ssy. I stayed friends with my ex-girlfriend for 2 years after we broke up. I told her to kick rocks about a year ago never looked back.

After all that, I've developed my own 1 strike rule when it comes to females, I ain't finna give up my morals as a man just cause a bytch has some good p*ssy. fukk that.
 

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You know how certain individuals after the fact bash their exes to some degree and paint themselves as someone who did no wrong in the relationship.

Well yeah that’s not me;

I’m never afraid to walk out that door and not look back when that feeling of “this is not working get out while you can” pops up. I know longer get caught up by beauty, sweet words, lust/infatuation or manipulation tactics that used to reel in the previous me……



Damn... I couldn't have articulated my words any better... Glad to see brothers out here with the same mentality.
 

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Damn... I couldn't have articulated my words any better... Glad to see brothers out here with the same mentality.

:salute:

I used to be such a simp :mjcry:, I mean stay in relationships with horrible horrible women just because they were beautiful and I was getting sex and nikkaz would be like :damn: how'd you get that.

so happy those days are over. Now I don't take anything,
 

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Breh, I used to be a fukking simp circa 2010...I put women on a pedastool, let em treat me like shyt etc.. just to get some p*ssy. I stayed friends with my ex-girlfriend for 2 years after we broke up. I told her to kick rocks about a year ago never looked back.

After all that, I've developed my own 1 strike rule when it comes to females, I ain't finna give up my morals as a man just cause a bytch has some good p*ssy. fukk that.

sounds like me to a tee, hell I stayed with women who kept their exes in the picture, women who never spent a penny and had me spend all my money, was always afraid of "upsetting", giving leeways, jut because I got sex and companionship i was liek :ehh:, my ex 5 years of "friendship" which she didn't deserve, finally deaded that, and I have a one strike rule as well.

The thing is you never win when giving women leeways or second chances, because the respect for you is gone.

As I always say why give a woman a second chance, when there is one out there waiting for her first.
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf this is gonna sound real stupid and random..but lowkey I'm the pioneer of that "Mm" and "Mmmm" shyt :mjlol:

Back in like 2010 when i got my first blackberry hoes and even my homies would be like what the hell is "mmmm"???? and get mad when I used it.

Now everyone does :blessed:.
 
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Lol so I should tell her this in a text before she even comes over? I mean it sounds like a good idea so I'll try it. I have a really bad problem with the bolded part too. I stay overthinking things.


Nah man, do it face to face to make it not seemed plan and also so you see her reaction.
 

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As men to me there is only three things a woman can "control" you with.

Her beauty, sex and the possibility of sex.


Im happy I dated beautiful women because just being beautiful isnt good enough for me anymore what else are you offering.

I'm happy I went three years voluntary celibate, because holding sez or the possibility of sex over my forehead ain't working with me.

Control your sex drive, don't give beautiful women leeway you wouldn't give a ugly Thot

:ufdup:
 

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As men to me there is only three things a woman can "control" you with.

Her beauty, sex and the possibility of sex.


Im happy I dated beautiful women because just being beautiful isnt good enough for me anymore what else are you offering.

I'm happy I went three years voluntary celibate, because holding sez or the possibility of sex over my forehead ain't working with me.

Control your sex drive, don't give beautiful women leeway you wouldn't give a ugly Thot

:ufdup:

If you got multiple females you ain't gotta give nobody leeway.

Dudes be having one female and they chase her for sex . When you multiple, when one ain't giving it up another one will
 
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