Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That quote had been in my mind all day.

I dont do the fukkin games. This aint high school and it aint worth the effort to stress about bullshyt like that.

We're grown.

ahit some females that I thought were interested gave such signs yet shot me down.

I just said fukk it and ignore females outside of an ALRIGHT when we pass
 

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ahit some females that I thought were interested gave such signs yet shot me down.

I just said fukk it and ignore females outside of an ALRIGHT when we pass
Right. We hit it off when we went out and even wanted to do more.

Then the communication falls to shyt. Smh. Back on the scene,
 

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Honestly man, there really ain't anything these women are offering to stress over. If you invite them out and they decline, keep it pushing. If they flake, keep it pushing. Without a decent personality and a level of cordiality and respect, there is literally NOTHING there for you but headaches.

I may keep repeating myself, but focus on other things. Ya'll see how the effort you put in to these women yields NO return most of the time. Your mind worried on some slick conversation or you spending tens of thousands to pull up in a cool car, and these women get attracted for about a week before they up and disappear again. You could have had that 20, 30 or 40 gs still in your account gaining interest and you could actually be having fun, enjoying life rather than stressing over someone who doesn't care for you one iota.
 

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I need some ideas for an anniversary gift on Sunday brehs help me out...
She like creative/unique things & I already got her too much jewelry

Get her whatever you feel like

All that 'get her what you like' stuff is for the birds

Plenty of dudes did something unique and super special for their woman and in the end she ain't really appreciate it one iota because she's dealing with some dude on the side that did nothing.

get her whatever you want and let her know she better appreciate it because she could have gotten nothing.
 

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10 times out 11, if you send a woman a text, she read it. She just ain't feel like responding to you but will give you one of those roundabout answers because she doesn't want to get you angered. Most women are ALWAYS around their phones, always posting something up on instagram, etc. What will end up happening is they will keep you in their back-up roster for when their real options ain't messing with them and pop up about a week later on some

"Oh heyyyy I just got your text! i didn't see this. What are you up to?" They'll chop it with you for about a week at most and then disappear again when their top tier gives them a call. Why women act the way they do? Because dudes allow it. A woman can get your attention any time she pleases and the average man is all too happy to take her out and do all of that.
 

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10 times out 11, if you send a woman a text, she read it. She just ain't feel like responding to you but will give you one of those roundabout answers because she doesn't want to get you angered. Most women are ALWAYS around their phones, always posting something up on instagram, etc. What will end up happening is they will keep you in their back-up roster for when their real options ain't messing with them and pop up about a week later on some

"Oh heyyyy I just got your text! i didn't see this. What are you up to?" They'll chop it with you for about a week at most and then disappear again when their top tier gives them a call. Why women act the way they do? Because dudes allow it. A woman can get your attention any time she pleases and the average man is all too happy to take her out and do all of that.
These girls stay texting me back late as hell.

I don't even care anymore.

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:rudy: sick of these skee-o's
 

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These girls stay texting me back late as hell.

I don't even care anymore.

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:rudy: sick of these skee-o's
f it bruh

these girls coming n going.
homegirl hittin me up with mad winky faces n emojis one min, n ghost the next:manny:

all the time we spend thinkin about what went wrong or w/e, we are probably missing the potentials that could be right in front of us

at a point there were prolly something we coulda said/done differently but at the end of the day if a ship damaged n shinking u gotta bail
2015 comin up, Ppl saying new me n all that bull:mjlol:, im just sayin new chicks lol
 

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f it bruh

these girls coming n going.
homegirl hittin me up with mad winky faces n emojis one min, n ghost the next:manny:

all the time we spend thinkin about what went wrong or w/e, we are probably missing the potentials that could be right in front of us

at a point there were prolly something we coulda said/done differently but at the end of the day if a ship damaged n shinking u gotta bail
2015 comin up, Ppl saying new me n all that bull:mjlol:, im just sayin new chicks lol
Hard outchea for Midnight mandem :mjcry:
 

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If things arent working out do you guys prefer a woman just stop calling/returning calls or do you need to have some sort of convo about it?

I would rather a girl just hit me back and let me know she wants some space. Just going dark is annoying as shyt because you don't know what the reason was. Can I get a female perspective on why you guys choose that option? You guys think it's nicer to do that? Or just don't care enough to make the effort to say you need space? Have the decent courtesy to send a simple reply. I don't care if you're a girl, my boy or my fam, not responding back in any form is rude as shyt imo.

Like dude said above me we grown I don't got time for games. Just be upfront on both sides and everything is better.
 
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thing is, you aren't even doing anything wrong. It's just that these women got so many options and never get checked for their bad behavior and know they can come back to you when they feel like it and resume as necessary. The feeling most of you dudes are getting is the feeling of being expendable and of dealing with someone who has so many options, they don't have to deal with you respectfully, unless you force them to... which you do by not replying to them when they pop back up a week later.
 

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f it bruh

these girls coming n going.
homegirl hittin me up with mad winky faces n emojis one min, n ghost the next:manny:

all the time we spend thinkin about what went wrong or w/e, we are probably missing the potentials that could be right in front of us

at a point there were prolly something we coulda said/done differently but at the end of the day if a ship damaged n shinking u gotta bail
2015 comin up, Ppl saying new me n all that bull:mjlol:, im just sayin new chicks lol
It's a trap:troll:

:patrice:
 

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you dont even have to have a woman on facebook to check what photos shes liking or commented on, do your research, like kevm said you message them and there "busy" but you do a facebook searc and their profile pic is updated and there liking brad and ray ray photos and leaving comments, your just not a priority
 

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the only reason we "stress" over a chick is the emotional connection, its like hopping on tinder there ar etons of beautiful women you swipe and dont even think of that brehette again if she doesnt swipe back because no connection is formed.

when you sit and you pine and get jealous, frustrated, disappointed, angry etc. its all because of the emotional connection the high that your missing

its why when you are a fully over a ex you can see her facebook photos and 100 nikkaz commentating etc. and you feel nothing but if you still have that emotional connection you'll feel that little bump in your belly

unless im fully committed and we are exclusive i m stopping having any of a emotional connection
 
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