Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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thing is, you aren't even doing anything wrong. It's just that these women got so many options and never get checked for their bad behavior and know they can come back to you when they feel like it and resume as necessary. The feeling most of you dudes are getting is the feeling of being expendable and of dealing with someone who has so many options, they don't have to deal with you respectfully, unless you force them to... which you do by not replying to them when they pop back up a week later.
its that simple. we can try to deny it and hope its not the case but we know what it is
 

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This is why if you have a good girl don't mess it uo
meh. good girls be on theyre bullshyt too. what makes it even worse is that you THINK she's a good girl and thus find yourself putting her on a pedestal as if she is some rare finding. thats never a good thing.

my question to you is, whats a good girl?
 

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Humble
Loyal
Monagmous
Not an ATTN whore
Respectful
Carries herself with class
Wise
Kindness on her tongue
Non gullible
Does me good but no harm
My heart can trust in her


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meh. good girls be on theyre bullshyt too. what makes it even worse is that you THINK she's a good girl and thus find yourself putting her on a pedestal as if she is some rare finding. thats never a good thing.

my question to you is, whats a good girl?
 

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Humble
Loyal
Monagmous
Not an ATTN whore
Respectful
Carries herself with class (The outside
Wise
Kindness on her tongue
Non gullible
Does me good but no harm (you are the one who determines whether or not you can trust or if she can inflict harm.)
My heart can trust in her (you are the one who determines whether or not you can trust or if she can inflict harm.)


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Meh. I dont think theres a girl on this earth like that.

Asking too much breh. Especially in 2014
 

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10 times out 11, if you send a woman a text, she read it. She just ain't feel like responding to you but will give you one of those roundabout answers because she doesn't want to get you angered. Most women are ALWAYS around their phones, always posting something up on instagram, etc. What will end up happening is they will keep you in their back-up roster for when their real options ain't messing with them and pop up about a week later on some

"Oh heyyyy I just got your text! i didn't see this. What are you up to?" They'll chop it with you for about a week at most and then disappear again when their top tier gives them a call. Why women act the way they do? Because dudes allow it. A woman can get your attention any time she pleases and the average man is all too happy to take her out and do all of that.

:russ: They are ALWAYS on their phones. I Know she's gonna hit me with the "didn't even see this text, sorry for the late reply" but I already know what time it is when that happens.
 

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depends. if the guy is still interested he'll probably need a convo.
if the guy has sagged off too...better just stop better to just stop but he'll probably holla at you again down the road lol
Yeah he's been acting funny lately. Probably another broad which is no big deal but I wish he would tell me. I think I will just fall back and see how long it takes for him to hit me up :manny:
 

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Yeah he's been acting funny lately. Probably another broad which is no big deal but I wish he would tell me. I think I will just fall back and see how long it takes for him to hit me up :manny:
what you gonna do when he does? :lupe:
If you want to sting him and dont care anymore... best advice is to ignore him lol
 

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10 times out 11, if you send a woman a text, she read it. She just ain't feel like responding to you but will give you one of those roundabout answers because she doesn't want to get you angered. Most women are ALWAYS around their phones, always posting something up on instagram, etc. What will end up happening is they will keep you in their back-up roster for when their real options ain't messing with them and pop up about a week later on some

"Oh heyyyy I just got your text! i didn't see this. What are you up to?" They'll chop it with you for about a week at most and then disappear again when their top tier gives them a call. Why women act the way they do? Because dudes allow it. A woman can get your attention any time she pleases and the average man is all too happy to take her out and do all of that.
lol I'll say 49 times out of 50 breh
 

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Women are rarely black and white most times grey.




I would rather a girl just hit me back and let me know she wants some space. Just going dark is annoying as shyt because you don't know what the reason was. Can I get a female perspective on why you guys choose that option? You guys think it's nicer to do that? Or just don't care enough to make the effort to say you need space? Have the decent courtesy to send a simple reply. I don't care if you're a girl, my boy or my fam, not responding back in any form is rude as shyt imo.

Like dude said above me we grown I don't got time for games. Just be upfront on both sides and everything is better.
 

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what you gonna do when he does? :lupe:
If you want to sting him and dont care anymore... best advice is to ignore him lol
I'm going to try to be as cordial as possible. I will see him again so it's not like I can avoid him. In fact I will see him Saturday night which is why I would rather get this straightened out and it not be awkward. Or even worse if he's boo'd up with another woman and I'm all :to: I would rather be warned and know the deal before hand I guess.
 

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If someone is distant and cold and there not in school and it ain't exam period bushes.

If someone is into you they don't do that ish, more than likely the novelty wore off and he's chatting to a new brehette

It sucks bit that's how it is in this day and age


I'm going to try to be as cordial as possible. I will see him again so it's not like I can avoid him. In fact I will see him Saturday night which is why I would rather get this straightened out and it not be awkward. Or even worse if he's boo'd up with another woman and I'm all :to: I would rather be warned and know the deal before hand I guess.
 
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