Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is from a man's perspective dealing with women in the following thread, but simply imagine the reverse. This is why you are 'expendable' and a lot of the people you deal with have no problems hitting you with 'radio silence' and then popping back up:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/im-talking-to-eleven-different-bytches-right-now.274691/

Most people in this day and age want to build a roster and will tell you enough to keep you hanging on. While you are sitting there in the midst of radio silence, imagining that they truly are busy with schoolwork or their job, they are most likely chopping it with 4 or 5 other people, and when they get bored and want to taste your flavor again, in they pop on some 'heyyy, i been so busy. just stopping by to see what you up to.'

it's up to you whether or not you want to be that fallback option. Trying to convince someone who does this to be loyal is a losing proposition. Either you can keep it pushing or be cool with being a benchwarmer.
 

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Dog today I got disrespected by one of my side chicks.

I txt her early in the day about the new cole record she like him. she ask me whats it called, i tell her ......

Then 4 hours later she txt me asking what we doing for her bday.

I tell her ill think of something ,but i don't got the money just spent money buy gifts for my gf and mom and sister so i was going to not txt her back about that shyt.

I take a break from doing my finals paper to hit up wawa for some monsters. I deiced to call her to pass the time on the ride which i usually do when im ride back from my gf house.

Well this time she picks up like always but she say hold on real fast then i hear a noise in the background ....:ohhh: took me 5 seconds to hang up the phone.:scust: She was sucking dikk that not what made me mad , it the fact that she would even pick my call up while she topping a nikka off.:wow:

How should i play this when i see her in person which will be at my workplace since she bar hops on the weekend. I want to smack her in the face for the disrespect but i will lose my job def.:demonic:

I still got my gf and another new side chick but this shyt is just sooo disrespectful.

She called me back i asked her what she was doing , she goes ...why does it matter i said bytch you a lie . She goes i was just studying. I hang up no words.

Even tho i hardly chilled with this girl that shyt still making me mad the fukking disrespect making me want to go to her house and smack her she also works with the cops and works in a parole office.:huhldup:

Should i just chill and take my L i am cheating on my gf with two other women who am i to throw the stone but still the fukking disrespect :damn:

Sometimes the universe has a way of working things out so that what you're putting out comes right back around and hits you on the chin. With your actions, you're disrespecting your girl by dealing with all of those side pieces. Have you ever been out with one of your sides and you're girl called and you gave an excuse? You're seeing what it feels like first hand except that isn't even your girl, but a sidepiece that's disrespecting you

Best thing to do is to keep it real and focus on your girl, cut them side broads off and ignore the broad who just disrespected you. It was disrespectful, but she doesn't really even owe you anything. You just got to take that loss and keep it pushing and rearrange your life for the right.

There's zero to gain from trying to get back at her.
 

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This is from a man's perspective dealing with women in the following thread, but simply imagine the reverse. This is why you are 'expendable' and a lot of the people you deal with have no problems hitting you with 'radio silence' and then popping back up:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/im-talking-to-eleven-different-bytches-right-now.274691/

Most people in this day and age want to build a roster and will tell you enough to keep you hanging on. While you are sitting there in the midst of radio silence, imagining that they truly are busy with schoolwork or their job, they are most likely chopping it with 4 or 5 other people, and when they get bored and want to taste your flavor again, in they pop on some 'heyyy, i been so busy. just stopping by to see what you up to.'

it's up to you whether or not you want to be that fallback option. Trying to convince someone who does this to be loyal is a losing proposition. Either you can keep it pushing or be cool with being a benchwarmer.

I always take the other view point, how can you demand substance when your doing the same thing.

I know people here are on that roster building tip and I'm not one to judge others live the life you want to live, but if I'm out there talking to eleven different women, how can I expect to procure loyalty from a chick and her not talking to 11 different men when I'm doing the same thing.

and its crazy how that is the norm nowadays
 

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Dog today I got disrespected by one of my side chicks.

I txt her early in the day about the new cole record she like him. she ask me whats it called, i tell her ......

Then 4 hours later she txt me asking what we doing for her bday.

I tell her ill think of something ,but i don't got the money just spent money buy gifts for my gf and mom and sister so i was going to not txt her back about that shyt.

I take a break from doing my finals paper to hit up wawa for some monsters. I deiced to call her to pass the time on the ride which i usually do when im ride back from my gf house.

Well this time she picks up like always but she say hold on real fast then i hear a noise in the background ....:ohhh: took me 5 seconds to hang up the phone.:scust: She was sucking dikk that not what made me mad , it the fact that she would even pick my call up while she topping a nikka off.:wow:

How should i play this when i see her in person which will be at my workplace since she bar hops on the weekend. I want to smack her in the face for the disrespect but i will lose my job def.:demonic:

I still got my gf and another new side chick but this shyt is just sooo disrespectful.

She called me back i asked her what she was doing , she goes ...why does it matter i said bytch you a lie . She goes i was just studying. I hang up no words.

Even tho i hardly chilled with this girl that shyt still making me mad the fukking disrespect making me want to go to her house and smack her she also works with the cops and works in a parole office.:huhldup:

Should i just chill and take my L i am cheating on my gf with two other women who am i to throw the stone but still the fukking disrespect :damn:

she the side chick breh:yeshrug:

Unless you simply started catching a lil feelings for her...

It happens:ehh:
 
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So yesterday I was trying to get this girl to come out with me and celebrate. The conversation couldn't have gotten any worse and I really had to check myself before exploding on this bytch :snoop:

Her: happy bday what's your plans for today
Me: thanks didn't you forget you taking me out
Her: aww you wanna spend your Bday with me or is it a party
Me: first one
Her : why you telling me so late. Couldn't u have asked me yesterday
Me : I was too busy
Her: to busy to ask me Wtf
Me: well do you want to or not
Her: who else is going to be there.. I don't want to see x and x
Me : just gonna be me and you
Her: aww so romantic
Me: Ya pick you up at 7 and we will go for drinks
Her: can't tonight
Me: why didn't you just say that before. Would have made it easier.
Her: I did.

The convo was back and forth for 2 hours. bytch was just playing with me.. I had the suspicion but I played along. Even though the outcome was the worst possible.
 

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Dog today I got disrespected by one of my side chicks.

I txt her early in the day about the new cole record she like him. she ask me whats it called, i tell her ......

Then 4 hours later she txt me asking what we doing for her bday.

I tell her ill think of something ,but i don't got the money just spent money buy gifts for my gf and mom and sister so i was going to not txt her back about that shyt.

I take a break from doing my finals paper to hit up wawa for some monsters. I deiced to call her to pass the time on the ride which i usually do when im ride back from my gf house.

Well this time she picks up like always but she say hold on real fast then i hear a noise in the background ....:ohhh: took me 5 seconds to hang up the phone.:scust: She was sucking dikk that not what made me mad , it the fact that she would even pick my call up while she topping a nikka off.:wow:

How should i play this when i see her in person which will be at my workplace since she bar hops on the weekend. I want to smack her in the face for the disrespect but i will lose my job def.:demonic:

I still got my gf and another new side chick but this shyt is just sooo disrespectful.

She called me back i asked her what she was doing , she goes ...why does it matter i said bytch you a lie . She goes i was just studying. I hang up no words.

Even tho i hardly chilled with this girl that shyt still making me mad the fukking disrespect making me want to go to her house and smack her she also works with the cops and works in a parole office.:huhldup:

Should i just chill and take my L i am cheating on my gf with two other women who am i to throw the stone but still the fukking disrespect :damn:
You gave the sidechick too much of your attention while in a relationship. This is where brehs fukk up with the roster shyt. If you have an official girlfriend, your roster should be deactivated/inactive and your attention should be on your girl.

The roster should only be active when your out here single, dating, or about to exit a relationship.
 

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So yesterday I was trying to get this girl to come out with me and celebrate. The conversation couldn't have gotten any worse and I really had to check myself before exploding on this bytch :snoop:

Her: happy bday what's your plans for today
Me: thanks didn't you forget you taking me out
Her: aww you wanna spend your Bday with me or is it a party
Me: first one
Her : why you telling me so late. Couldn't u have asked me yesterday
Me : I was too busy
Her: to busy to ask me Wtf
Me: well do you want to or not
Her: who else is going to be there.. I don't want to see x and x
Me : just gonna be me and you
Her: aww so romantic
Me: Ya pick you up at 7 and we will go for drinks
Her: can't tonight
Me: why didn't you just say that before. Would have made it easier.
Her: I did.

The convo was back and forth for 2 hours. bytch was just playing with me.. I had the suspicion but I played along. Even though the outcome was the worst possible.
:mindblown: why she say she didn't want x and x there, than end up saying "I can't tonight". She was definitely playing games. Good thing you didn't blow up on her, just charge her.
 
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:mindblown: why she say she didn't want x and x there, than end up saying "I can't tonight". She was definitely playing games. Good thing you didn't blow up on her, just charge her.

I really have no idea. The only reason I didn't bow up on her is cause a different girl surprised the hell out of me.

She was working all day then as soon as she was off got me a cake and we ended up chilling for a bit.

Basically what @Emperor_ReinScarf always says.. If a girl wants to see you she will make it happen and no games
 

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I really have no idea. The only reason I didn't bow up on her is cause a different girl surprised the hell out of me.

She was working all day then as soon as she was off got me a cake and we ended up chilling for a bit.

Basically what @Emperor_ReinScarf always says.. If a girl wants to see you she will make it happen and no games

a chick will travel across the globe if she really wants to see you trust me
 

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So yesterday I was trying to get this girl to come out with me and celebrate. The conversation couldn't have gotten any worse and I really had to check myself before exploding on this bytch :snoop:

Her: happy bday what's your plans for today
Me: thanks didn't you forget you taking me out
Her: aww you wanna spend your Bday with me or is it a party
Me: first one
Her : why you telling me so late. Couldn't u have asked me yesterday
Me : I was too busy
Her: to busy to ask me Wtf
Me: well do you want to or not
Her: who else is going to be there.. I don't want to see x and x
Me : just gonna be me and you
Her: aww so romantic
Me: Ya pick you up at 7 and we will go for drinks
Her: can't tonight
Me: why didn't you just say that before. Would have made it easier.
Her: I did.

The convo was back and forth for 2 hours. bytch was just playing with me.. I had the suspicion but I played along. Even though the outcome was the worst possible.
she's sounding real ditzy. I would have ended the conversation a long time ago
 
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