Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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even in the media its just pushing its ok, there are shows about affairs, term work wife, open relationships, swinging to keep the "excitement", monogamy isn't natural, have a affair

you read some of these marriage forums, you see people in general sleeping around with different men and women even while committed and its :mindblown:

Only once in my life have I almost strayed and that was just talking to a chick at the bus stop every morning I was in a relationship, she gave me her number, she was flirting with me, she lived up the street from me I could have easily easily hit that, and but I ended it, my moral compass was like :kony:, so whenever i hear that monogamy ain't natural ish I just laugh.

Like everything in life the choice is up to you

I've never done drugs, I've never drank alcohol cept the fwe times I've been on vacation, and I've never cheated

If you can live in a city like Atlanta and only focus on ONE woman, I will shake your hand.
 

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1. choose your women wisely
2. the moment she thinks she has you is when you lost

what I mean is not cheating not being a a$$hole, just that she knows your not afraid to leave and not look back. Any woman I deal with knows that off the bat, that no matter how hot she is, her status anything that I can leave in a instance and never utter another word to her again, once that fear is gone in a woman :ufdup:

The story also exposes how much women despise what they consider 'weakness' and how she can treat someone that loves her like a complete enemy... laughing at her dude, clowning him and plotting on him with some side dude.
 

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Something that really needs to change in this generation is that people need to stop buying into the androgynous trash they were forcefed by society and we need to go back to men being men and women being women. Men need to accept that God gave you the burden of manning up. God gave women the burden of being a woman and all that entails.

We got men wanting to be sensitive, emotionally expressive and have a woman lead them and we got women wanting to put on du-rags, get tattoos, and act like dudes until some dude hits them in the mouth. No wonder there is so much confusion going on.

As you can see, women despise weakness in a man, and yet we're teaching men to be these emotionally sensitive types who cuddle up with women all day and cry at movies together. I don't care if some broad says that that's what she wants. She wants that in a cuddle buddy dude that hears all of her problems, but not someone who is her man.

How long have we followed 'societies plans' for us and seen how it has led to destruction? "Go to college by any means necessary and everything will take care of itself." And a lot of people did that and ended up with tens of thousands in debt and a wal-mart job. We really need to go back to that traditional model that existed for thousands of years. Why did it endure for so long? Because that's what God intended for us and that's what works. You can never have a woman who can do what a man is supposed to do as well as a man can do it, and you can't have a man do what a woman is supposed to do as well as a woman can do it. Time to stop the games because we see society going down the gutter.
 

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See like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, "If she doesn't make time, she's not that interested"

A brief but very good convo that I had with a chick last night ended with us exchanging numbers.

This morning she asked if I wanted to hang out tonight even though its the next day and a Thursday. She's showing interest and I'll react to that.

I really think this is the biggest point to take away from this whole thread. Everyone should know when a woman is showing interest versus when she is not. Emp has said this over and over again. And its absolutely true.
 

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Something that really needs to change in this generation is that people need to stop buying into the androgynous trash they were forcefed by society and we need to go back to men being men and women being women. Men need to accept that God gave you the burden of manning up. God gave women the burden of being a woman and all that entails.

We got men wanting to be sensitive, emotionally expressive and have a woman lead them and we got women wanting to put on du-rags, get tattoos, and act like dudes until some dude hits them in the mouth. No wonder there is so much confusion going on.

As you can see, women despise weakness in a man, and yet we're teaching men to be these emotionally sensitive types who cuddle up with women all day and cry at movies together. I don't care if some broad says that that's what she wants. She wants that in a cuddle buddy dude that hears all of her problems, but not someone who is her man.

How long have we followed 'societies plans' for us and seen how it has led to destruction? "Go to college by any means necessary and everything will take care of itself." And a lot of people did that and ended up with tens of thousands in debt and a wal-mart job. We really need to go back to that traditional model that existed for thousands of years. Why did it endure for so long? Because that's what God intended for us and that's what works. You can never have a woman who can do what a man is supposed to do as well as a man can do it, and you can't have a man do what a woman is supposed to do as well as a woman can do it. Time to stop the games because we see society going down the gutter.

I completely agree with what you wrote. However, society is evolving. Or devolving. Depends on how one views everything thats been happening over the last 15 years. Do you honestly think we will eventually go back to our traditional roles? I think everyone is just heading to a place of solitude. Women dont "need" a man and men are now learning to not put up with bullshyt from women who think they can have their cake and eat it too. We're wising up. But is it for the better? I mean... everyone being so disconnected. I'd like to hear peoples opinion on how they see man and woman progressing over the next 15 years. :yeshrug:
 

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I completely agree with what you wrote. However, society is evolving. Or devolving. Depends on how one views everything thats been happening over the last 15 years. Do you honestly think we will eventually go back to our traditional roles? I think everyone is just heading to a place of solitude. Women dont "need" a man and men are now learning to not put up with bullshyt from women who think they can have their cake and eat it too. We're wising up. But is it for the better? I mean... everyone being so disconnected. I'd like to hear peoples opinion on how they see man and woman progressing over the next 15 years. :yeshrug:

If you look throughout history, androgynous societies don't last, and they definitely have been attempted before. We like to think that we're doing something 'new', but we're not. We're just engaging in manners of behavior that failed in the past and we simply fail to remember that they are failed ways of acting. As the saying goes, "Those who don't remember history are doomed to repeat it."

Honestly, I feel that there is a backlash against the current narrative that has been pushed in the mainstream, and you can see a lot of the backlash against things like feminism. I honestly feel a lot of men DO want the lessons of manhood that weren't passed down to them, but they don't really know where to look. They want to know how to lead, they want to be held accountable and to higher standards, etc.

It's sad that you have a whole generation of men that were simply pushed to the backburner and were never taught any sort of leadership traits. They were simply left to the school system, and we see how much of an utter failing that was. I think it's important that we have discussions on what men should do, how they should lead, etc. in addition to all the discussions about women because it's important that we all develop as men. If we fail, disaster awaits.
 

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If you look throughout history, androgynous societies don't last, and they definitely have been attempted before. We like to think that we're doing something 'new', but we're not. We're just engaging in manners of behavior that failed in the past and we simply fail to remember that they are failed ways of acting. As the saying goes, "Those who don't remember history are doomed to repeat it."

Honestly, I feel that there is a backlash against the current narrative that has been pushed in the mainstream, and you can see a lot of the backlash against things like feminism. I honestly feel a lot of men DO want the lessons of manhood that weren't passed down to them, but they don't really know where to look. They want to know how to lead, they want to be held accountable and to higher standards, etc.

It's sad that you have a whole generation of men that were simply pushed to the backburner and were never taught any sort of leadership traits. They were simply left to the school system, and we see how much of an utter failing that was. I think it's important that we have discussions on what men should do, how they should lead, etc. in addition to all the discussions about women because it's important that we all develop as men. If we fail, disaster awaits.

We're in the fatherless generation. I agree with the bold 100%.
 

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Now I know you’ll say that I don’t understand how it is; that you’ve got to do as the other fellows do; and that things have changed since I was a boy. There’s nothing in it. Adam invented all the different ways in which a young man can make a fool of himself, and the college yell at the end of them is just a frill that doesn’t change essentials. The boy who does anything just because the other fellows do it is apt to scratch a poor man’s back all his life. He’s the chap that’s buying wheat at ninety-seven cents the day before the market breaks. They call him “the country” in the market reports, but the city’s full of him. It’s the fellow who has the spunk to think and act for himself, and sells short when prices hit the high C and the house is standing on its hind legs yelling for more, that sits in the directors’ meetings when he gets on toward forty.

This is actually an interesting quote from a book I was looking at entitled "Letters from a Self Made Merchant to his Son". It was written in the early 1900s. It's available here:
http://www.gutenberg.org/files/21959/21959-h/21959-h.htm

Now, one of the interesting parts of that quote is "Adam invented all the ways a young man might make a fool of himself." Something important to realize is that although technology changes, human nature doesn't, and there's certain patterns of behavior that produce prosperity and there's patterns that produce poverty.
 

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never look her in the eyes
never tell the truth
if she knows your paper
you know she'll have to burn you

never tell the one you want that you do
save it for the deathbed
when you know you kept her wanting you

and do everything she'd never do

fall asleep with stranger's wives
the wild wives of unknown men
good for you, you've just become
just another one of them

never say you miss her
never say a word

and do everything she'd never do

don't let her see your cardinal eyes
don't let her see your cardinal eyes

let her treat you like a criminal
so you can treat her like a priest
girls forgive my human mind
girls forgive me one more time

never tell the one you love that you do
save it for the deathbed

and do everything she'd never do

don't let her see your cardinal eyes
don't let her see your cardinal eyes
 
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