Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

i just got back from africa and met an amazing woman. My gawd.

Granted her behaviour is somewhat possessive, i think it comes from a good place. She kept tellin me i'm leavin her so quickly when we only met on new years day.

Feminine, soft-spoken, shy, affectionate, insecure and smart brehs...i tried to fukk a bytch same night i was meeting up her but dat bytch was on some BS homegirl said i was with another girl that night so i had to lie brehs and it didn't feel good

but she made my last few days enjoyable. She has my phone number and said she will call me all the time cuz she wants to hear my voice and to remind me to hurry up and come back cuz she's waiting for me.

So to nikkaz in this thread....women like this are out there. Women that will take care of you and love you the way you want to be loved.

these westernized hoes are fukkin

 

[MikelArteta]

Travel brehs

i just got back from africa and met an amazing woman. My gawd.

Granted her behaviour is somewhat possessive, i think it comes from a good place. She kept tellin me i'm leavin her so quickly when we only met on new years day.

Feminine, soft-spoken, shy, affectionate, insecure and smart brehs...i tried to fukk a bytch same night i was meeting up her but dat bytch was on some BS homegirl said i was with another girl that night so i had to lie brehs and it didn't feel good

but she made my last few days enjoyable. She has my phone number and said she will call me all the time cuz she wants to hear my voice and to remind me to hurry up and come back cuz she's waiting for me.

So to nikkaz in this thread....women like this are out there. Women that will take care of you and love you the way you want to be loved.

these westernized hoes are fukkin

 

[CASHAPP]

Okay bruhs....there is a coworker at the supermarket I work(a guy) that always comes into work with a handbag i mean if you gonna be gay be gay...but the handbag adding on to it is just I cringe everytime I got someone at my line and I see him punch in for the day and walk past the register to get ready for work with a serious determined look with a handbag on his right shoulder

He has walked hand in hand with his boyfriend too when leaving work....

what are tips you guys have in terms of LIMITING the influence of boys being feminized....your nephews, sons, best friends' sons, grandsons, friends of neighbors,etc. Simply beyond just saying "father figures" or the cliche answers. I mean how does a MAN wake up in the morning...walks iinto a store and walk into the female department to buy a handbag for themselves... an stroll into work with a FEMALE HANDBAG

 

[nalej]

Okay bruhs....there is a coworker at the supermarket I work(a guy) that always comes into work with a handbag i mean if you gonna be gay be gay...but the handbag adding on to it is just I cringe everytime I got someone at my line and I see him punch in for the day and walk past the register to get ready for work with a serious determined look with a handbag on his right shoulder

He has walked hand in hand with his boyfriend too when leaving work....

what are tips you guys have in terms of LIMITING the influence of boys being feminized....your nephews, sons, best friends' sons, grandsons, friends of neighbors,etc. Simply beyond just saying "father figures" or the cliche answers. I mean how does a MAN wake up in the morning...walks iinto a store and walk into the female department to buy a handbag for themselves... an stroll into work with a FEMALE HANDBAG

wrong thread bruh.

 

[Fatboi1]

Like my breh @Emperor_ReinScarf slways says, if she really mess with you, nothing will stop her from wanting to see you or getting into contact with you. Don't let these women have you chasing them around.

Word. I got a chick from Japan thats on my nuts heavy and the funny thing was I didn't even start talking to her with dating in mind. Constantly this chick is hitting me up and sending me pics of her, asking me questions and just at my pictures. Already saying she can cook for me and yadda yadda. I'm just like .

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Yo these white girls be feelin me heavy

nikka knockin on 30 years (28) and they can't even believe it

White girl voice: No fukking way. I would've said 24 at the oldest.


Gonna incorporate some mixed ATL clubs into the repertoire.

 

[MikelArteta]

Word. I got a chick from Japan thats on my nuts heavy and the funny thing was I didn't even start talking to her with dating in mind. Constantly this chick is hitting me up and sending me pics of her, asking me questions and just at my pictures. Already saying she can cook for me and yadda yadda. I'm just like .

people act like i'm screaming when I say travel, not only will you learn about new cultures and have a great time you will see that not all women are big headed entitled skanks

 

[kevm3]

Okay bruhs....there is a coworker at the supermarket I work(a guy) that always comes into work with a handbag i mean if you gonna be gay be gay...but the handbag adding on to it is just I cringe everytime I got someone at my line and I see him punch in for the day and walk past the register to get ready for work with a serious determined look with a handbag on his right shoulder

He has walked hand in hand with his boyfriend too when leaving work....

what are tips you guys have in terms of LIMITING the influence of boys being feminized....your nephews, sons, best friends' sons, grandsons, friends of neighbors,etc. Simply beyond just saying "father figures" or the cliche answers. I mean how does a MAN wake up in the morning...walks iinto a store and walk into the female department to buy a handbag for themselves... an stroll into work with a FEMALE HANDBAG

That's what society is doing. It's attempting to feminize boys and masculinize girls. You simply have to decide not to accept it. That's what this whole 'tolerance' movement is about. if you think that turning boys into girls and vice versa is wrong, you get called a bigot and all kinds of other nonsense. Men simply have to take a stand and call it out for the wrongness it is.

 

[kevm3]

i just got back from africa and met an amazing woman. My gawd.

Granted her behaviour is somewhat possessive, i think it comes from a good place. She kept tellin me i'm leavin her so quickly when we only met on new years day.

Feminine, soft-spoken, shy, affectionate, insecure and smart brehs...i tried to fukk a bytch same night i was meeting up her but dat bytch was on some BS homegirl said i was with another girl that night so i had to lie brehs and it didn't feel good

but she made my last few days enjoyable. She has my phone number and said she will call me all the time cuz she wants to hear my voice and to remind me to hurry up and come back cuz she's waiting for me.

So to nikkaz in this thread....women like this are out there. Women that will take care of you and love you the way you want to be loved.

these westernized hoes are fukkin

That's what I'm saying... but the problem is you have gangs of thirsty dudes who find western women behavior 'acceptable' and will go on record talking about they like an 'independent, fiesty woman who challenges them' or some such nonsense. You don't realize how poisonous our culture is until you step out and see what else is out there.

 

[jaguar paw]

Put a hoochie with a hoochie...



We do the oohchie coochie...



But I'm still grabbing on my toolie...

 

[Rayzah]

the only platonic female friendi have lives in another country

again i could easily be riends with a female but your not really friends, when they date they dissappear or your labeled as mary in their phone

THIS, I have a "platonic Friend" who also likes women, and even she does this exact same thing.. Women Have no idea how to manage time with the person they are dating and their so called friends... They may even tell you they are super close to this person, then at the same time not talk to them for months, but thats ok to them... Women suck horrible at being friends

 

[MikelArteta]

Frustration + confusion = giving the benefit of the doubt

Frustration seeps through as you drive around in circles, you finally admit to yourself that you are confused in regards to the directions given and ask the nearest individual how to reach the desired location. You have no idea if they are being truthful, or if their sense of direction is better than yours but in a state of confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt.

People need you to be confused, because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt.

You’re in a relationship and actions don’t match up to words that are uttered, they are distant, you feel in your gut that they are slip slipping away; you ponder your status in their life, all signs point to destruction of the union however you become confused. But they said they love me, they said they care for me; no way would they possibly demote me/discard me. In a state of panic and confusion you attempt to rationalize the conduct displayed to delay the inevitable as you give them the benefit of the doubt.

If you don’t rule over your thoughts, somebody else will. If you don’t rule over your actions, somebody else will.

Confusion and facades are primary weapons used to give the benefit of the doubt. Confusion cannot seep through if you have the power of patience, wisdom and the utmost control over your thoughts. Logic over emotions will construct an ability to be a step ahead and permit you make the best decisions for your life moving forward. You will selectively pick and choose your battles and shun the ones you have no chance of being victorious in. The days of being lost, rationalizing, needing verification, closure, clinging to hope, fighting for, but I thought we were….., wow this came out of nowhere……, will be dead and gone.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is also why I don't get friend zone or any of that other ish when you can read people and think logically you will always be a step ahead, you'll never get dumped because you will pick up the signs

 

[Rayzah]

yup. a girl that is interested will often message you on some good morning or hey whats up if she's eager to chill and confirm.

shyt i remember my birthday that just passed there was a shorty who had been digging me for a long time. I told her earlier that week i'd be hitting up a party in Hamilton that weekend (where Mac is) and she said she was gonna be going to the party as well with some friends probably. the afternoon of my birthday she messaged me asking if I was still hitting up Hamilton and I showed her what was up.

My friend got wasted...at the party so I had to exit with him before it got too bad. She came later but still this chick came OUTSIDE of the club in the cold eventually just so she could see me and even tried helping my friend sobering up. Chick walked to the store to buy him water and everything.

@Biggums will verify all of this.

STOP DEALING WITH FLAKY HOES (this is a reminder to myself as well lol)

yep this is an underrated attribute, this is a good way to tell in the early stages if she is into you or if you are one of many.. This may sound crazy but if you dont hear from atleast once a day, she aint that into you, regardless of how busy she is.. Also being "busy" is bullshyt, never let that shyt slide, no one is distracted for 24 straight hours where they cant send a text or two to see how you are..

 

[Rayzah]

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