Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Anytime a girl mentions another guy or a boyfriend, it's a red flag. You're better off cutting your losses before she starts playing mind games with you.
My bad.. she never mentioned her boyfriend to me. Her friends mentioned it to her and I overheard.
 
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That chick who claimed to be busy for a date till February posted up a picture of her and her home girl in a nightclub. I'm sure the picture is from last night.

The game being exchanged in this thread is gold.:obama:

breh...when she hits u up...and she will, ignore it.
 

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That's even worse then. Either she's the type that cheats or she just looks at you as a "just in case" guy.
That's what I was thinking until we were all chilling and she just started making fun of her boyfriend in front of us. It was so obvious that it made me start to realllly question things so idk.
 

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break = breakup
I can't argue that. I wouldn't even be too upset if it turns into a breakup but I would feel really bad for her. We've been through a lot and I'm the only person she can really count on. Sucks. Hate feeling like I'm abandoning her.
 

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me and a girl who I been talking to since may just parted ways :manny: she was expecting too much.


not to mention her and a dude who she used to date are best friends
.........but the nikka is gay now :mindblown:


shorty was cool she was down to earth, sex was great, she always hit me up everyday to see how my day was going, no kids, graduated college, until Christmas I never spend a dime on this broad, the few times we went out she paid for herself when I insisted on paying, but this gay friend of hers was always going to be the main focus, plus she lives with the nikka right now :camby:

she always gets defensive when I ask her is her and her bf is fukking but she always says he is strictly gay :beli:

she even goes over his mother's crib to help her out :what: so I was pretty convinced that dude was always going to be around regardless of the situation and he was going to come first.

im gonna miss the great sex and her company but I know I made the right choice.
 

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That's what I was thinking until we were all chilling and she just started making fun of her boyfriend in front of us. It was so obvious that it made me start to realllly question things so idk.

the same way a woman talks about a guy she's with etc. will be the same with you

she'll alugh and make fun of her bf, you'll think that guy is a loser a sucker they will break up etc. and you'll get your turn and what do you know once the "novelty, sparks, tingles, honeymoon period" wears off ends she'll be making fun of you as well
 

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me and a girl who I been talking to since may just parted ways :manny: she was expecting too much.


not to mention her and a dude who she used to date are best friends
.........but the nikka is gay now :mindblown:


shorty was cool she was down to earth, sex was great, she always hit me up everyday to see how my day was going, no kids, graduated college, until Christmas I never spend a dime on this broad, the few times we went out she paid for herself when I insisted on paying, but this gay friend of hers was always going to be the main focus, plus she lives with the nikka right now :camby:

she always gets defensive when I ask her is her and her bf is fukking but she always says he is strictly gay :beli:

she even goes over his mother's crib to help her out :what: so I was pretty convinced that dude was always going to be around regardless of the situation and he was going to come first.

im gonna miss the great sex and her company but I know I made the right choice.

excellent choice, the emotional connection once killed you'll be fine again.
plus all that baggage and red flags, lol like she would admit if he's smashing reminds me of a divorce story I read
 

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"He's gay now :smile: "

That's a new one. :pachaha:

These females mayne. They will say anything. Oh, btw.. all that "I'm helping so and so out" is 99% of the time, bullshyt. Ain't nobody helping muthafukkas out and if they are and they are into you, they will do it so not to interfere with seeing you. Period.

yup
 

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don't mean to be a a$$hole but you got to treat these women the same way they would treat you, if it "doesn't feel right/the same" to a woman, she will withdrawl and become cold as ice and never think about you again regardless of what you have done.


All that she's a good grl, don't want to hurt her, how will she manage without me

trust me she will manage just fine, I remember with my ex fiance all the times I wanted out and she'd cry and cut herself and ish how she would die without me :heh:

then we broke up and chick got married a few years later.

These chicks will toss you in the bushes ike that once the emotions are gone so treat em the same way
 

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So I've been talking to this chick for a minute since the summer. Eventually I stopped talking to her during the school year and now we started sorta talking agaiin. So last night I go over to her apartment kicking it with her and her homies smoking and shyt regular college shyt. So her homies dip and we're chilling in her bed (I didn't make a move) and then her homies come back and shyt and we're smoking. So somehow in conversation her boyfriend pops up (she never told me) and now I find out this chick had a boyfriend. I know she likes me so it's just like damn, does this chick want me to take her from her boyfriend or what? Like... what do you guys think?

Your best course of action would probably be to throw her to the bushes breh. Any girl thats willing to be in bed with another guy while she has a boyfriend isn't someone you should want to wife up.:ufdup:
 

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Also it is true women will tell you anything, the dude you always have to be aware of is the dude that shes bashing, he's a loser, ugh my ex, he's just a friend I could never have feelings for him, he's gay :beli:
 

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I know it takes some strong will power to not hit up your old flame :mjcry:

But don't do it brehs, everyday that passes, it gets easier, the last thing you want to do is give her the upper hand in thinking you can't move on without her.

I'm fighting the good fight with yall. :salute:

Always hold fast to your dignity, even if you crying and wallowing in bed and feeling down and cyber stalking her and ish, never ever let her know.

Every day you stand strong the emotional connection dies a little more till one day you'll be ok again, never give them the "ego boost" of showing you still care.

You message, call you'll be right back at square one, I wouldn't even check her facebook

this ish isn't like hte movies and notebook (hell the director/write of notebook just got divorced) that it all works out in the end
 

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Women want you to pin for them even if they don't want you, I don't know why but it makes them feel good.

If a man doesn't pin, grovel, pour out his feelings etc. then she begins to question did he ever really like me or viewed me as something great?


I'm not into manipulation games etc., I tell women straight up from the beginning, I'm never afraid to walk away and not say another word again
 
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